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Have you ever caught feelings for a friend with benefits or someone you hooked up with?

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  • I dont hook up or have sex with anyone unless i love the woman. This is really personal and still kind of scary to think about to this day but when i was in my early 20s there was a woman i went to college with my ex friend introduced me to her. I only knew her briefly but the time i did know her she tried pushing really hard to have a one night stand with me but i refused for 4 reasons 1. I didn't love her and 2. I dont do one night stands 3. I didn't know her that well and 4. She had a boyfriend at the time. A few weeks later my ex friend told me that she had an std (genital herpes) he found out from her boyfriend who caught it from her. When i found out i was surprised and relieved at the same time that i made the right decision by not sleeping with that woman. And back in 2016 an ex of mine in the adult entertainment industry who was married kept refusing to date me before i found out she was married.(long complicated story behind that) but after i found out she became a traveling prostitute going state to state having sex on camera and she wanted me to have sex with her. I never did and i thank god i never did because i came to find out she contracted at least 1 or more std's from her always being sick (cold or flu or god knows what) and she tried playing it off as back pains from a siotic nerve in her spine a herniated disc. But she never fully said why sge kept coming down with flus and colds which was because she contracted an std. Its because of this type of stuff i dont do one night stands.

    • Also several months ago i was in the mens room and i overheard one guy telling his friend in the next stall that his dick was green or looked green or whatever nonsense he was complaining about and he claimed the bitch he slept with (his words not mine) gave him something he contracted some sort of std. Needless to say i got grossed out when i overheard the conversation and left. I actually went to a different men's restroom to take a piss

    • But no i never had a friend's with benefits or caught feelings for one. Why have sex with somebody you dont love or have feelings for?

    • Ewwwwwwww But that aside, your point about reserving sex for someone you have feels for is defo legit

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  • I fell in love with a hookup when she took my Virginity. She was a co worker but I had a slight crush on her. Not an intense one, but I thought she was pretty. It took me about a year to fall in love with her. We started dating after about 2 months of continuous hookup sex upon her request.

    I fell in love with a girl from okcupid that I hooked up with. But I am pretty sure I started falling in love with her the moment I met her at a bar date. We agreed that we weren't going to have a relationship and it would be just sex. But I am pretty sure I was in love on the second date when she came to my apartment and we had sex. I figure, that was probably the reason why I made her scrambled eggs and toast when she woke up the next morning.

    Another girl earlier this year I hooked up with was a long time friend. We had been friends since high school. I joked that because we worked together it'd be funny if we made out. She was this prude super Christian chic and was shocked. She wanted to continue to be a virgin until marriage but agreed to "experiment". So we did. We basically had dry sex until she got prude again and broke things off. I started to catch feelings but it was more lust than love. We are still friends to this day. Sometimes she gets really horny and desperately demands me to come over... but she still maintains as a matter of faith to be a virgin.

    • Guess you make her cum in her panties...

    • I dont know which one you referred to. But the first one mentioned we could frequently orgasm together at the same time over the two years we dated. For a long time I thought that was normal because I had never had sex with anyone else. With the second girl, yes she orgasm and even squirted a bit. And with the last one, the Christian girl... She told me that I made her cum the two times we had dry sex. Basically she was on top with just her panties riding my erection under my boxer briefs. It was good to have her confirm that because I wasn't sure. I rubbed her clit through her panties and her panties were soaking wet. I couldnt tell if it was my precum or her pussy that was so wet. It turned out it was both. She was a quite orgasm person though.

    • I meant the Christian chick. Bet she was soaked.

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  • Yeah. I've loved that bastard for 6 years now.
    We don't talk anymore. He's mad because of my marriage and all.
    He's weird asf. He never showed real interest but years later confessed crazy shit to me. The bastard...

    • Asshole. Hate guys like that.

    • He blames me though. He's like "I never said anything because you just seemed very random". I mean, I was but why confessing shit after so many years? lol

    • thanks!

  • Yes. I totally fell in love but I was able to stop when I saw what jerk he was constantly. I now have a man that has helped me grow and move on, truly fall in pure love.

    • Awesome 😊😊😊

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  • I don't know if anything I did truly counted as FWBs. I always wanted to move it seriously if we shared that experience. Sometimes we just stayed friends. So maybe it was FWB? But I don't know... you have friend you get heated with now and then. I never got so attached though in those cases. I think a prerequisite for attachment in the case is that the girl gives me a lot of signs that she wants the same thing.

    • Makes sense

  • I'm not sure... the memory problems again. There are a couple women I still see whenever we're close to each other, I'm pretty positive that things were supposed to be casual with all of them from the start, but we got close and stayed close.

    It's strange to have 4 women across the country I miss deeply and wish I could be with all the time, talking to on a regular, and connections between them from when 2 have been in the same place at the same time.

    Maybe you should disregard me on this one though, I'm kind of weird. Also feeling kind of lonely and wondering if I should drive southeast in the near future to see one of them for a couple days again.

  • Nope, the only friends with benefits I had, he caught feelings for me. But for me, it was just sex. No feelings at all.

    • I’ve had that too

  • No but i absolutely would. This is why i dont hookup

    • Yeah. Same. Gave that up a while ago.

  • I've never really had a friends with benefits or random hookups.

  • Who doesn't catch feels just a little bit for a fuck buddy? I think very fondly of the women who are walking around with my sperm in their belly. :)

    • In their stomach or their uterus?

    • Belly. I don't know anything more about the inside parts or workings. And honestly, typically I would say seed. It's just that I watched show were they called it sperm and I thought I would act all, you know, smart and stuff... just to impress you is all... but dropping a big word like sperm as if I had any edumacation. I have been exposed for the phony that I am. :(

  • Yeuppp. That’s when I knew I couldn’t do hookups

    • Same

  • Unfortunately. x_x

    • Same

  • Does not apply here but that is a major reason I won't have sex before marriage, I want the bond with her to strong and I've heard that sex does that

  • I've never had one, except for when an ex and I broke up but spent a couple of nights together. I didn't have any feelings resurface.

    • Cool

  • Nope

  • I crush like a bus, for real. A girl like me has to be very careful

    • I totally get what you mean

    • I have rolling crushes on half the people I flirt with on G@G too 🤣😘

    • 😘😘😘

  • Yeah, and we were both married. She got caught. We still talk but can't hook up anymore. Fuck, I miss her.

    • I’m sorry

    • Thank you, it sucks

  • No... but somehow I caught feelings for you and I can't explain it nor make any sense of it.

    • Watch out for this one, @WhiteShoulder! He's swoon worthy.

    • @SydneySentinel 😊😊😊

    • That's the equivalent of cave man "whack em over the head"...:)

  • Fuck no

  • Not real romantic feelings, but I make out a lot with my FWBs and go on dates with them. Just friendly dates tho, most romantic is cracking stupid jokes over dinner before sexy time, which is very cool.

    Got my feelings reserved for my girlfriend.

    • Making out is fun

    • Yeah, it really is. Everyone always thinks it has to be romantic. I'd say those are the people who don't make out a lot. Lol

  • I never "Hooked up" with someone I didn't have feelings for.

    • Awesome. I don't do it anymore either.

  • No, this is part of my NSA teachings 😊 find someone who you find attractive but hate them as a person. It leads to aggressive sex and you don't catch the feels.

    • Like Ally Cat...

    • Lol I miss Ally Cat, but that girl needed to sort her shit out, I'm with Lottie atm and happy 😊

    • Awesome 😊 Catlike Reflexes 😂. It’s one of the powers in the new Aeon Aexpansion. Thought of you and her when I saw that.

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  • Yeah I have a long time ago for my first hook up. But I was new at it.

    • Same

  • Yes - couple of times but no regrets :)

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