Have you ever gotten sexual with someone 10+ years older than you?
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Outside of celebs like George Clooney, I’ve never really been attracted to someone so much older in person. It honestly bothers me a bit although Im sure many of you feel age shouldn't matter. I met this guy on this app and we had so much in common and the connection was strong. Then i found out he was double my age. Yikes. Anyways, he was sweet and funny so I decided to keep getting to know him although I didn't want it to go past friendliness and occasional one liners... Yea we had bombass phone sex last night. I’ve never c*mmed so hard in years. The only other person who ever made me damn near squirt was someone who was 9 years older. I’ve only felt this attraction to like 4 older guys now with 2 being the ones above. I dont want to fall for anyone older because its just not what I see myself with and it goes against the age gap I always say is for me. Maybe they were exceptions but now this dude wants to do things again and again and I don't know what to do. I dont want to just get rid of him or ghost him because I like talking to him but how do I get out of the sexual path? Did i doom myself? Is ghosting the only option? Fauck he even had me call him daddy 😷 And it weirded me out because he's older than my daddy but I just wanted to keep turning him on. Why’d he have to go and be a hot construction worker with the same zodiac as me 😭
Yes i have and would again
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Yes i have but would not again
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No but im open to it
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No i wouldn't dare
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+1 y
He’s 25 years older. I dont even want anyone 5+ years older 🙈 Its just his voice turns me on so much. He sounds 25 but is 25 years older. Plus we have the same sign so we have so much in common. Then he just had to be a construction worker. Thats like the hottest career ever. I only gave into the flirting because I imagine him to still look young despite his age because he sounds young. It made me squirt for goodness sake. He sounds like the George Clooney of all Clooneys. Why couldnt he be 27
+1 y
I think he's on this post 😂 i didn't even meet him here but there's a guy whos a few years younger than him and theyre saying everything he said last night and they both has the same career. What the actual fuck 😂 Dude if thats you then yes i had a great time last night but i can't do this again. I’ll always cherish the experience but i just can't anymore no matter how much of a sexy construction worker you are
Listen it doesn’t matter as long as the guy doesn’t give you weirdo vibes... some older men are weird. But it’s the chillll one dat just act normal makes you feel more comfortable an forget about the age!!
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Asker
+1 y
I honestly did forget his age a sec there
Ming_Ling
+1 y
Yes girl I understand definitely
manmeat
+1 y
whats wrong with weirdo vibrators?
humanearthMaster
+1 y
I have twice both 10 years older and 10 years apart from each other. So one when I was 20 and she was 30. Two when I was 30 and 40.
Thats about as close as I get
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broken_heart_at_48Xper 7
+1 y
I was 15 maybe 16 and was messing with a woman that was around 33 maybe 35 and I haven't thought of her for years until I read your question and I don't regret not one bit of those experiences with her as a matter of fact I think of her fondly. Why are you so hung up on shit that doesn't matter if you had fun why give that up? Generally the first time is the worst time so just imagine how much better it can get don't deny yourself cause you hit a level you never hit before so you have no clue the amazing levels that are waiting for you. You're just worried about what people will think of you and that's a pretty lame reason for denying yourself who cares what anyone else thinks get yours girl this time really let yourself go and you'll take off like a rocket. Why do you think so many younger women chase older men it's because of the ones that know what they're doing have years of experience in men their own age you know what you want to do just do it then grow some balls and come back here and let us know how this time goes
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Asker
+1 y
Part of it is what people think but the other part of it is that i dont want anyone old. I want kids and although men can conceive at any age, it still declines in his 30s+. Plus i want to be a young parent and i prefer the father be as well. Even if he acts young and looks young, his age is not. I want someone close in age
MannMitAntwortenGuru
+1 y
I have a several times since I was 19.
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Ayer93Yoda
+1 y
Half your age plus 7. That always gives a good limit for age. Always start with the older person at the start of the equation.
If the older person is 32, then the minimum they can go is 22. If the older person is 52, the minimum they can go is 33. It's a good standard in my opinion.
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Asker
+1 y
I dont want anyone more than 3 years older. he's 25 years older
Ayer93
+1 y
I don't understand. Why are you even posting this question if you already know your answer. Just end it with him already.
Asker
+1 y
I still wanna be cool and flirt but im afraid he’ll want more
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Ayer93
+1 y
Tell him that then? Be blunt. If I was the guy I wouldn't want to waste my time knowing they don't want sex with me. He'll respect you at least if you're up front about it. The sooner the better. Don't lead him on.
Asker
+1 y
He knows i didn't want sex. He claims he was fine with normal convo but after last night, i dont see him wanting normal convo anymore. I thibj he’ll always try to get sexual
Ayer93
+1 y
My point is... why are you still talking to him? Wtf
Asker
+1 y
I haven't talked to him since last night
Carbon-12Xper 6
+1 y
I am 17, I think I could do a guy that's 27. I know there is the one celebrity that I think is SO dreamy, and he is 40, so maybe I could go quite a bit older.
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Asker
+1 y
isn't that illegal
Carbon-12
+1 y
Not where I live.
CreepazoidYoda
+1 y
Yes.
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Asker
+1 y
Thoughts on my situation
JermalTheBlackDogXper 5
+1 y
Age of 14
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Asker
+1 y
Nooo not illegal
JermalTheBlackDog
+1 y
To me it is. And she was 27
MysteriousDarkness
+1 y
@JermalTheBlackDog If you are saying you were 14 and she was 27 makes her a pedophile but technically she would be a hebephile
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JermalTheBlackDog
+1 y
Could be. And I wasn't ready
kittengrrlXper 7
+1 y
Ya but just online mostly I would be to shy in RL
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Darkdragon79Xper 7
+1 y
My girlfriend is 14 years younger than me.
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Asker
+1 y
Oh wow
PejtuYoda
+1 y
I did when i was 24 i did pound my teacher she was 35
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DiegoOGuru
+1 y
Online, yeah, and my first time was with someone who was probably 10+ older.
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Asker
+1 y
Yea same only online
DiegoO
+1 y
Online I had a bunch of experience with women 10y+ older than me. Offline only once.
MysteryZeeXper 4
+1 y
Just experiment and see for yourself if you like him just make sure to use safe sex practices
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MysteriousDarknessGuru
+1 y
My girlfriend is 13 years older than me and we have had a lot of sex.
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bangyourheadGuru
+1 y
I've been with 10 years older and 10 years younger. I'll stick to younger from here out.
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Asker
+1 y
Yea i prefer same age but can you read my story above and share advice?
bangyourhead
+1 y
Go for it if it turns you on and you're both single.
Asker
+1 y
I rather not
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bangyourhead
+1 y
So if you've made up your mind already, why the question?
Asker
+1 y
Because i still like him and want to flirt but i dont think he can handle just flirting
bangyourhead
+1 y
I wouldn't put up with just flirting.
Asker
+1 y
Well it was fun while it lasted
zagorMaster
+1 y
Younger, yes, older, no.
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Liam_HaydenGuru
+1 y
I've dated as much as 17 years older.
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Asker
+1 y
I’ve always liked you. Thoughts on my story please?
crazy8000Yoda
+1 y
Just go with the flow. Nothing is guaranteed. It might just be a phase your going through or is it what you really are attracted to as a person.
The daddy part. just be straight forward that it is creepy and turn off. Is he really in to you will he respect that without scaring him off.
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Asker
+1 y
But u dont want to be into him. Im fighting this hardcore. I enjoyed the experience bt dont want to continue. I dont want him to think i didn't like it though
soleil2666Xper 7
+1 y
So with all the stories of older men preying on younger women, it is mostly men who have been with someone much older. Figures. Female manipulativeness.
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25 50Listen it doesn’t matter as long as the guy doesn’t give you weirdo vibes... some older men are weird. But it’s the chillll one dat just act normal makes you feel more comfortable an forget about the age!!
I honestly did forget his age a sec there
Yes girl I understand definitely
whats wrong with weirdo vibrators?
I have twice both 10 years older and 10 years apart from each other. So one when I was 20 and she was 30. Two when I was 30 and 40.
Thats about as close as I get
I was 15 maybe 16 and was messing with a woman that was around 33 maybe 35 and I haven't thought of her for years until I read your question and I don't regret not one bit of those experiences with her as a matter of fact I think of her fondly. Why are you so hung up on shit that doesn't matter if you had fun why give that up? Generally the first time is the worst time so just imagine how much better it can get don't deny yourself cause you hit a level you never hit before so you have no clue the amazing levels that are waiting for you. You're just worried about what people will think of you and that's a pretty lame reason for denying yourself who cares what anyone else thinks get yours girl this time really let yourself go and you'll take off like a rocket. Why do you think so many younger women chase older men it's because of the ones that know what they're doing have years of experience in men their own age you know what you want to do just do it then grow some balls and come back here and let us know how this time goes
Part of it is what people think but the other part of it is that i dont want anyone old. I want kids and although men can conceive at any age, it still declines in his 30s+. Plus i want to be a young parent and i prefer the father be as well. Even if he acts young and looks young, his age is not. I want someone close in age
I have a several times since I was 19.
Half your age plus 7. That always gives a good limit for age. Always start with the older person at the start of the equation.
If the older person is 32, then the minimum they can go is 22. If the older person is 52, the minimum they can go is 33. It's a good standard in my opinion.
I dont want anyone more than 3 years older. he's 25 years older
I don't understand. Why are you even posting this question if you already know your answer. Just end it with him already.
I still wanna be cool and flirt but im afraid he’ll want more
Tell him that then? Be blunt. If I was the guy I wouldn't want to waste my time knowing they don't want sex with me. He'll respect you at least if you're up front about it. The sooner the better. Don't lead him on.
He knows i didn't want sex. He claims he was fine with normal convo but after last night, i dont see him wanting normal convo anymore. I thibj he’ll always try to get sexual
My point is... why are you still talking to him? Wtf
I haven't talked to him since last night
I am 17, I think I could do a guy that's 27. I know there is the one celebrity that I think is SO dreamy, and he is 40, so maybe I could go quite a bit older.
isn't that illegal
Not where I live.
Yes.
Thoughts on my situation
Age of 14
Nooo not illegal
To me it is. And she was 27
@JermalTheBlackDog If you are saying you were 14 and she was 27 makes her a pedophile but technically she would be a hebephile
Could be. And I wasn't ready
Ya but just online mostly I would be to shy in RL
My girlfriend is 14 years younger than me.
Oh wow
I did when i was 24 i did pound my teacher she was 35
Online, yeah, and my first time was with someone who was probably 10+ older.
Yea same only online
Online I had a bunch of experience with women 10y+ older than me. Offline only once.
Just experiment and see for yourself if you like him just make sure to use safe sex practices
My girlfriend is 13 years older than me and we have had a lot of sex.
I've been with 10 years older and 10 years younger. I'll stick to younger from here out.
Yea i prefer same age but can you read my story above and share advice?
Go for it if it turns you on and you're both single.
I rather not
So if you've made up your mind already, why the question?
Because i still like him and want to flirt but i dont think he can handle just flirting
I wouldn't put up with just flirting.
Well it was fun while it lasted
Younger, yes, older, no.
I've dated as much as 17 years older.
I’ve always liked you. Thoughts on my story please?
Just go with the flow.
Nothing is guaranteed.
It might just be a phase your going through or is it what you really are attracted to as a person.
The daddy part. just be straight forward that it is creepy and turn off. Is he really in to you will he respect that without scaring him off.
But u dont want to be into him. Im fighting this hardcore. I enjoyed the experience bt dont want to continue. I dont want him to think i didn't like it though
So with all the stories of older men preying on younger women, it is mostly men who have been with someone much older. Figures. Female manipulativeness.
Yes I have.