Have you ever had a threesome and was it worth it?

Would be good if you could mention if it was MMF or FFM.


1. Was it during a relationship?
1b. If during a relationship, did it hurt your relationship?
2. Did it feel better than normal (1:1) sex?
3. Would you do it again?
4. Would you ever be in a polygamous/polyamorous relationship (multiple partners living together with you)?
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  • When I was in high school all the way to my thirties probably I used to have the best fantasies about a threesome when I was in my forties I had a party at my house and one of my friends ended up staying to help me clean up and we were laughing and talking about threesomes and I told her about some of the fantasies I had she told me about some of hers well probably about a month later she shows up in my house and she has a girl with her and she says get undressed I started laughing she took a hold of my hand and took me back to my room the other girl was holding my other hand she was introducing me to her as we were walking 2 mi room I looked at her and said Hi how are you and she just grabbed a hold of me and started kissing me I said this is going to be hot this is going to be good they were both undressing me and it started out good and it was hot it was sexy but somewhere it started to not work right because I would start making out with a girl and just getting into it and the other one would pull me off and this went back and forth back and forth and I'm just saying wait a minute I just want to please the one I'm with that that moment stop doing that LOL so I learned two things my fantasies were better I'm a one girl at a time person because I want to finish what I started and when you're halfway through it and you get yanked off it just ruins everything for the girl and for me

    Now and saying all the above I feel like I owe my friend because she wanted a threesome more than I did but she wants to guys which is cool by me as long as he's a straight guy because we can both please her at the same time and we're not going to cool her off of the other person we're going to both do it at the same time I will make some sort of plan with him so we can make sure that we please her the way she wants it but since covid-19 I really haven't even thought about it well I have better times that I've seen her and the best part about it is we've never had sex before that and we never had sex after that and because we're just friends we're trying to help each other out I thought that was cool

    • Dude! That is hot as fuck! Thanks for sharing. My wife had a few mfm in college. She LOVES DP even though she's not a fan of anal alone. She invited a friend for a few FMF in our marriage. It was fun. Seeing a woman cum is always a delight. I agree with the frustration of picking up speed and then having to switch gears again. It was still fun but if making the girl cum the other gets impatient... not conducive to as many orgasms as were possible. So we won't be doing a FMF again. I offered to my wife a mfm when she wanted, just to be fair. It's been years and she hasn't cashed in that coupon yet. Waiting to see what happens. Thanks again for sharing.

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  • Yeah I’m a big fan of threesomes after having tried one. Never thought I would be since I’m typically a kinky but traditional kind of guy.

    1. Was it during a relationship? Yeah, been doing threesomes with my girlfriend and one of my friends, we do MMF
    1b. If during a relationship, did it hurt your relationship? Was worried about that but no, it has made our love and bond deeper actually. We are even more passionate when it’s the 2 of us
    2. Did it feel better than normal (1:1) sex? I love it, I even dream of my threesomes, but, I still love one on one better
    3. Would you do it again? Yeah, on average we have been doing it once a month after we first tried it. Since the 3 of us liked it, it has been with the same third. I don’t think any of us are interested in changing that up
    4. Would you ever be in a polygamous/polyamorous relationship (multiple partners living together with you)? Naw I only want a relationship with my girlfriend. The threesome is just a sexual act

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  • Have you ever had a threesome and was it worth it?
    ANS: Yes, and moresome. I loved it.

    Would be good if you could mention if it was MMF or FFM.
    ANS: Both those + FFF

    1. Was it during a relationship?
    ANS: No

    2. Did it feel better than normal (1:1) sex?
    ANS: Yes

    3. Would you do it again?
    ANS: I have

    4. Would you ever be in a polygamous/polyamorous relationship (multiple partners living together with you)?
    ANS: Not sure about that one?

    What are your answers?

  • MFM


    1. Yes, married.

    1b. Not really. There were some rough spots here and there but the sex was very hot

    2. Yes

    3. Would you do it again? Yes, we still do it often

    4. No. Sharing sex is one thing. But sharing your heart, and your life, is another. I'd let the other guy stay for the weekend or something. But not to be a second husband to me or something.

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  • 1. I had threesomes during relationships and outside of them. I already have poly relationships so everyone was ok with it.

    2. Yes, I wouldn’t have a threesome everyday, but to me it’s a special thing that feels better than 1:1. I like FFM/FMF more than anything.

    3. I want to do it again and again. It’s so good.

    4. I am poly but I don’t live with my partners usually. I only lived with multiple partners for a short time. The sex was good.

  • Victoria,
    When I was a Sophomore in college my girlfriend told me that her roommate (who was way hot) wanted to join us for sex. I was a very horny 19 yr old kid so of course I said yes! We all spent an entire afternoon and night naked and had tons of great sex. Sure I had to take a few breaks to eat and recharge but it was fun. The next day I was kinda sore but I had a big smile. We did not do it again but it was fun.

  • Never had a threesome in a relationship and never would, only when I'm single.
    As far as how they were FMF ok, not as great as I thought, a lot of work for 1 guy to please 2 women, I'd do it again but it would have to be for really special people and I think the girls would have to be bi as well so they are playing with eachother too and its not all down to the guy. I know its probably most guys fantasy, but the reality is a bit different.
    MFM now were talking, lots of fun all attention is focused on the woman and a much better ratio of dick to hole lol I'd definitely do MFM again in a heartbeat!

  • No, but bisexual woman have tried to get me involved with someone they were into seeing having sex with me.
    Didn't happen, because I don't do threesome's, and I don't have sex with males regardless of their sexual tendencies (no crossing of swords ⚔️) or lesbian husband's or wives.

  • I have a friend, not a relationship
    No. I did not get to fuck his wife. I could not get a hard-on
    Yes.
    It was MMF
    It was interesting. First time I saw a man with a hard-on, up close, with a small penis

  • I would only do thos with people I never expected to see again and maybe ones that have a pet bear.

  • for 1 summer years ago I was in a FFM relationship.
    The girl I was dating said that her cousin was interested in joining us, so I said sure.
    She livied out of town, so she would come up just about every weekend, or we would go see her, and it was pretty much sex all weekend.
    I don't think that there was much we didn't try or do to each other, or one did to the other two.
    We had a lot of fun.
    She had to move further away for her job, so it was really difficult getting together, but the girl that I was originally dating stayed together for quite a while.

  • Almost, but the third didn't want any part of it so, we all just slept together.

  • I would like to have a MFF just so I could check it off my bucket list.

  • 1. Was it during a relationship? Yes with my first wife

    1b. If during a relationship, did it hurt your relationship? Maybe, it was already in a shitty place to begin with

    2. Did it feel better than normal (1:1) sex? It was fun, I'll admit that. We did MMF & FFM, and group sex of about 10 people. We were young and stupid then.

    3. Would you do it again? I don't think so, that's more of the younger version me. Not this version you see today.

    4. Would you ever be in a polygamous/polyamorous relationship (multiple partners living together with you)?
    We did live that lifestyle for while. But when we split, it just slowly ended

  • I have had both MFM and MFF. In both cases it was fantastic.

  • Yes. After my friends' wedding years ago. I was single at the time. It was with 2 women, and totally unplanned.

    Would I do it again? Maybe. I'm not sure, and here's the life lesson from my experience: If you're a guy, and you want to have a threesome with 2 women, make sure that the 2 women involved are at least slightly interested in one another ahead of time. Why? Otherwise you'll be doing everything yourself with both women with NO BREAKS. I had to consume so much damn Gatorade that night. It became like a homework assignment.

    So in conclusion: Great experience, AND lessons learned.

  • Yes I did, and YES it was! It was great, I'd do it again.
    Polyamory - maybe. I prefer just an open relationship.

  • nope

    and no, please don't go down that road

  • Yes, always a FFM 3-sum, many times. Love for one to ride my cock, the other my face. We go until we all cum, then the girls trade places. Best with bi-girls as they can eat one while I fuck the other. Always with my friends with benefits, Always make us cum hard and multiple times.

  • I'm hetero poly switch cis male. I would enjoy a FMF prefer in a relationship.

  • yes I had threesome before, both MMF and FFM

    1. Was it during a relationship?
    yes during the relationship

    1b. If during a relationship, did it hurt your relationship?
    no it didn't

    2. Did it feel better than normal (1:1) sex?
    not better, just more exciting

    3. Would you do it again?
    yes I would

    4. Would you ever be in a polygamous/polyamorous relationship (multiple partners living together with you)?
    I guess yes

  • I have had an FFM, it was not what I had anticipated... lol math didn't work out... 4 tits, 2 hands... 2 pussies, 1 cock... lol We did have fun, but someone was always feeling left out... it was NOT me

  • 1. Both and no
    2. It's a different kind of fun, not necessarily better or worse
    3. Yes
    4. Open relationship yes but not poly

  • i was hoping you and i could start up our own threesome now :)
    got any female friends who would join us?

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