Have you ever wondered if you were bisexual?

Can I be bi if I'd do anything with another girl except lick a pussy?

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I am romantically attracted only to men, that I know. But I do have fantasies about women, pretty often, and I would totally have sex if she'd be okay with me not going down on her. But I feel it's kinda rude, so I never did it...
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  • If you're just interested in the sex part and not the romantic part, you're just bi-curious. Not bi-sexual. Bi-curious people are only interested in sex usually.

    There's nothing wrong with that. Bi-sexual is more of a romantic attraction. Eating another girl's pussy just makes you bi-curious because you're curious about her body basically.

    I've had threesomes with a girl and a guy before and done things with the guy, but I have no romantic attraction to another guy. I only date girls, so I consider myself bi-curious.

    But yeah, people often mistake bi-sexual for bi-curious. I hope I made sense.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm somewhere between bisexual and just a lesbian. I'm both romantically and sexually attracted to women, whereas my attraction to men is purely romantic, because penises just gross me out.

    And pussies kinda gross me out too. Fuck it, genitals are gross! So I'll finger a girl, I'll use toys on her, but I don't really want to go down on her. And although I'd enjoy it, I wouldn't blame her for not wanting to go down on me either, since I wouldn't even be willing to return the favor.

    I still consider myself definitively attracted to women. There are plenty of ways to have sex, and I can enjoy love and sexuality with a woman, even if we never do go down on each other.

    So yes, I think you can be bisexual without wanting to eat a girl out.

  • i never thought i'd get the chance with another girl because i was like you to ashamed... and this wasn't a plan i really meant it... i told this girl very pretty that she had nice eyes... then from there we started kissing then heavy petting... then eating each other's pussy's... it was electric.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Yup, I think there’s a spectrum of bi and a lot of people are curious. I have a friend that was very straight and wanted to experiment. He ended up experimenting with me, and it then made me wonder if I’m bi. I know I definitely am but only for the sex, I still only want a relationship with a woman

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  • Nope. I always liked girls, even from a very early age, before I had a clue about sexuality. Once I reached puberty I absolutely loved them.

    I never had one erotic thought about a guy. The idea of any romantic contact with a guy makes me cringe.

  • Heh... yes. thing is, i'll kiss a girl but I won't go down on a girl. Or a guy. :1

  • My boyfriend thinks I'm bi. I'm not, I'm just a pervert and I love big tits and a nice ass. I'm always pointing them out to my boyfriend hehe

  • Took me awhile to figure out that I was bisexual. Always thought I was gay cuz I never could imagine myself being in a relationship with a man.

  • No, I am 100% straight, no PIV and no oral? what left to do? anyway a lot of girls are queer.

    Have you ever wondered if you were bisexual?
  • I didn't used to think I was bisexual, but since I became a submissive cuckold, I've learned the importance of submitting to a superior alpha male and humbling myself to him for the woman's satisfaction and amusement.

  • Words don't matter, what is important is knowing your own feelings. If some types of intimacy sound fun to you, but others don't - that's fine, in fact its the case for most people.

    I've seen studies suggesting that its more common for women to be bi, than for men, but what really matters is how you feel, not what is common

  • Few people are, but porn was designed to program this into the mindset through subliminal messages, scenes, and other forms of brain washing. It's so very subtle that few even notice it's there. How much porn have you watched? Any type of porn will do it if you've watched enough.

  • Why wouldn't you lick a pussy?

    • Simply gross.

    • Not worth it.

    • Why is it gross?

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  • No. That's like secretly wondering if you are a thief, or government spy.

    You know what you do, but some people are just crazy or deniers.

  • Never crossed my mind.

  • Totally normal for a woman. You're literally like 80% of women.

  • I knew I was bisexual by the time I was 8 years old.

  • The only thing I'df really recommend not doing is trying to find a moral compass on this forum. I happen tpo love bi girls. They've turned me on to a gfew things I would have never learned from straigjt girls

  • Have I ever wondered about myself being b-sexual. No I haven't. How do you define bi-sexual? Because from the sound of what you said, you clearly have a physical attraction to both sexes. If that isn't bi-sexual what is?

  • Never.

  • No I never imagine being sexual with a guy. Well it might depend what else you did with her. If just kissed her or touching each other intmate or sexual parts I wouldn't really call it but just experimenting. Also if you keep doing with a girl and a guy and both feel good you might be bi which is not a bad thing.

  • Nah, you're straight

  • Never. I've had my dick sucked multiple times by 3 dudes. They paid well. I was MUCH younger and didn't give a shit. With that, I've favored the girlies and their many features! Eyes, hair, ass, pussy, legs, hips, smile :)

  • So you wouldn't go down on her.

    Would you do everything else? I know it's sounds pervy to ask but I'm curious where what you what do and not like would you...

    Let her go down on you?
    Finger her and let her finger you?
    Suck her breasts?
    Use a strap on on her and her on you?
    Close mouth kiss or tongue to deep french kissing.

    I think if you want to try it then tell the girl upfront and reason why and I'm sure she will understand.

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