Have you seen it read 50 shades of gray?

[Tiptoetamm]

I read the first book. It was incredible. I loved it. It was a sexy book. I was turned on many times. I'm getting the second book. Anyone who hasn't read this and is into domination should read it. It was one of the best books I've read in awhile, kept me wanting more, I couldn't put the it down.

[TrueConfection]

I have not seen the movie.

I read the first book, almost by accident. I had heard a review saying Fifty Shades of Gray was a psychological thriller. So, I went to my little town's boutique bookstore and requested the book. The two women working there looked at me like I just grew another head. I shrugged it off eager to read a new book.

Once in my car, I opened the bag and flipped the book so I could read the back cover. There it was at the bottom in fine print "Romance". Ugh! I have never been interested in romance novels. Well, darn I owned it now. I was still kind of curious about the supposed psychological thriller.

I got it home and started reading the book. I was hooked! I also figured out why the women at the tiny bookstore gave me the side eye. Oops! So embarrassing!

I think I finished the book in 2 days and got the courage to ask for book 2. It wasn't available yet. Meanwhile, the husbands in our circle of friends had heard about the "mommy porn" as they put it and word got out that I had a copy. I loaned it out to the other wives on the condition they did not allow their husbands to read it.

It was a great book, but I didn't want my husband (or my friends' husbands) to get the idea I would want to do the things written on those pages. It was fiction, but I'm not sure that fact would override the hope in the eyes of a few of them.

[Anonymous]

Hey, Tip,

I feel for you for the replies you got. That's why I no longer ask questions on this site. It's just not worth the crap you have to endure. I noticed that you had to tell people over and over that it was just entertaining to you, but they just don't get it. That one idiot said it was not entertaining. lol Next time you want to give your opinion about something, make sure you check with her first to make sure you get YOUR opinion right.

I watched the movie and liked it. My only criticism of the story, is that I'd rather Grey be a carpenter and NOT a billionaire. I don't know why that character had to be filthy rich.
Because in the back of my mind I was thinking she was doing all of this for the money.

But other than that, I liked the movie, and now I'm going to see if I can find it and watch it again.

I used to work in a women's work release prison, and there were three girls staying in one room. One day I saw them all excited and giddy. I asked what was going on, and one girl said she got the first 50 shades book sent to her. (I think there are three)

After dinner all the girls huddle in the TV room to watch something like the Bachelor or something like that. These three girls were never seen again after the book came. lol

I guess the took turns reading to each other in bed. So they sure liked it.

[Tiptoetamm]

Thank you I really appreciate it honestly. You totally get it. Yeah I don't understand why so the bullshit it's ridiculous but haters gonna hate regardless I don't entertain it. Maybe I worded it wrong I don't know. Whatever tho thank you for seeing my side of it

[Opinion Owner]

You worded it perfectly. And make a mental note from the people who were negative to you. You will NEVER seem them ask questions on this site. That's because they don't want to deal with what you had to deal with with them.

[Tiptoetamm]

I guess I just have the balls I don't know. To each their own and not everyone will like me or what I like is life. I brush it off and keep it Pushen.

[Opinion Owner]

One more thought... I'm very sarcastic. So I may have said something like. "Thank you for pointing out that a fiction movie wasn't real. But Godzilla was a true story, and I don't care what you say!"

[Opinion Owner]

I think they all like you, but they wrongfully believe that criticizing makes them look smart.

[Tiptoetamm]

OMG that's brilliant

[Tiptoetamm]

Or calling someone an idiot makes them less of an idiot. Umm I'm afraid not hahaha

[Opinion Owner]

LOL Now you got it. The bitch that called or implied that you're an idiot, is Ducky. She left and came back under this new name. She is a disgusting pig and just watch what she posts to everyone. This isn't about you, she's an equal opportunity asshole. You will NEVER see her ask a question, because bullies couldn't take the shit that they throw at others.

[Tiptoetamm]

It's so true and yes I definitely saw that lol. I took a bit to collect my thoughts lol. I was ready to go off

[Tiptoetamm]

I almost said I like horror movies to that doesn't mean I condone that behavior it's just a fucking movie lol. The simple minds are sad. I have a feeling she reports others for having a different opinion. I mean I don't have time for all that. I'm glad I have a like minded individual here haha

[Opinion Owner]

Ducky ain't reporting shit. She doesn't last long on here. But I was thinking the very same thing as you when these people kept telling you this was fiction. Was superman fiction? Did they hate him? Batman? Batwoman? Dracula? The werewolf? lol Oh, and don't even get me started on the ones that say they never watched it or read the books, but they "heard" it was bad. Well, I heard that there's an Easter Bunny, so I believe it. I have a Macbook Air, that is in some drawer somewhere. I have a Windows laptop in some other drawer. The computer I really love, is the one I'm typing on now. It's a Google Chromebook. When I tell people on here that I use a Chromebook, many will say: "Those are pieces of shit." So this is how that conversation goes. Me: They're pieces of shit? Them: Yep Me: Which model did you have? Them: What do you mean? Me: Which Chromebook do you have? Them: I've never had one. Me: Wait, I'm confused. So you never one, but you know they're crap? Them: That's what I heard Me: Did they say why they're crappy Them: Maybe, but I think they can't do much. Me: Well, all computers are limited. Sure, Chromebooks can use Word, Excel, PowerPoint, but when it comes to installing Android apps, they will only install about one million of them. The rest aren't compatible. (yet)(oh, and it's all free) Them: Well, they're still crap. And that 50 shades movie wasn't even real. Those were actors. :)

[Tiptoetamm]

Lmao 🤣😃🤣😃😃 funniest shit ever yes I totally know what you mean

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO

[Tiptoetamm]

Of course you actually made me feel better about the whole situation so thank you seriously

[Opinion Owner]

You are so welcome. I could tell from the beginning that you had the best of intentions, but those comments were crazy. It's like they came after you with pitch forks telling you how bad the movie/books were. Oh, and I don't know who wrote the books/movie, but they're laughing all the way to the bank. For a book series that was so bad, they sold 33,000,000 copies in two years. Yep, no one liked those books or the movie. lol

[Tiptoetamm]

That's exactly what I was thinking of it sucked so bad why are so many people into it. I have multiple friends who looked it that's what got me to read it. I forget the authers make I'd have to look it up. But yes many people liked it. Your very nice woman. I do the same thing if I see someone being picked on. It's ridiculous most of us are adults let's act like it

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe this is what you should have said in your description: “I know the book is fiction, so no need to remind me. I know the BDSM community hated it, and I could care less. I want to talk to people who actually liked the book/movie, and I’d rather not hear from people who hated it. If you liked to book/movie, I’d love to hear your thoughts.”

[Tiptoetamm]

Yeah absolutely I totally thought to myself I should have worded it differently I would have gotten better reactions I think. Oh well you live and learn

[Opinion Owner]

Just remember that no matter how well you word it, someone will find a loophole. lol Imagine this is your question: "For those of you who like hamburgers, what's your favorite place to get them." Answers: 1. I hate hamburgers 2. I'm on a diet 3. I like mac and cheese 4. I'm a vegetarian 5. Ketchup only on mine 6. Remove the bun and it's less carbs lol sound familiar?

[Tiptoetamm]

Your so damn right

[Opinion Owner]

That's why I call it Planet GAG. lol

[ChrisMaster69]

The big problem with it, is that it’s complete rubbish on how the scene works in real life.

it put things like informed consent back years.

it gives people the idea that is how a D/s relationship works.

there are so many inaccuracies it’s unreal

yes there are abusive arseholes like him in groups, a lot are however kicked out.

Within a D/s relationship it’s centred around the subs needs, desires and what gives them release.

A sub has different needs, not all have the same kinks, try degradation with one and you might end up getting gutted and left wondering what went wrong, try spanking with another and you have the police around.

INFORMED CONSENT it’s a very real and critically important thing.

I am pretty sure not many would like being strung from a ceiling bar and feel a knife slowly working over them?

this is why we have limits, boundaries, informed consent, etc

Sorry I get a bit grr about the whole thing.

[Tiptoetamm]

I guess it's was entertaining I don't know I know it's not realistic doesn't mean it wasn't hot lol

[ChrisMaster69]

@tiptoetamm yeah it can be hot and erotic, it’s not however overly realistic. There is a reason the likes of Killing Kittens and other groups exist, it’s about actually having safe spaces, where narcissistic (psychotic) Dom’s and Dommes are monitored or not allowed in. What is hotter is when a Dom really understands the needs and desires of their sub, then can take them to that safe space, this maybe simple and sensual, it may be gentle spanking, may leave them bruised over most of their body or bite marks and knife marks. In all of that the sub is the one in 100% control, if there is a doubt they are not, then session ends.

[Tiptoetamm]

Well of course

[ChrisMaster69]

@tiptoetamm for reference, this is the bit I called out Quote “ Anyone who hasn't read this and is into domination should read it” unquote. What you said there means you personally put it into the Real World and removed it from simply being a fantasy fiction thing. You put it into real life by saying that. To put it in perspective, imagine meeting a guy and he does as you have said ‘you are in to Domination, it’s all here what to do’

[Andres77]

It doesn't have to be realistic to be hot.
If it got you revved up...🤪... then mission accomplished!
My wife read all three, she was very amorous (more than usual) that month. But she never suggested any scenes from the books. She was just desperate to cum.
We watched the first movie and then stopped.
I'm glad you found pleasure in them.😊

[Tiptoetamm]

Exactly what I'm saying

[Andres77]

As long as your toes are curling you have my support.

[Tiptoetamm]

Well thank you my friend 😊

[Andres77]

👍🤏🤙🤞✌️🤘🤟🖖✋🖐️🤲🤜👃😉

[Andres77]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=u68sBUEuH6g

[Andres77]

@tiptoetamm Hey girl, did you watch this video?

[Tiptoetamm]

Yes it's so fucking true to

[Andres77]

Lavender...😆

[Tiptoetamm]

Lavender omg that was fucking hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Andres77]

I can't make you cum but I can make you smile.😉

[laurieluvsit]

I have not read the books but I have seen 2 of the 3 movies and I loved them like you did the book.

It seems that some hate or love them with little in between :)

[Tiptoetamm]

Yeah you either love it or hate it. It is what it is. I thought there were incredibly hot

[laurieluvsit]

When I came out of the last one I went to this supper hot looking guy and girl approached my sisters and I wanting to know what we liked and didn't like and asked us a bunch of intimate questions about the movie. They were from a survey company paid for by the producers of the film to get ideas for the next one. It was fun.

[laurieluvsit]

*super not supper (I must be hungry again... lol)

[Tiptoetamm]

Lol I understood. I know what you mean I'm the same way lol

[dovendyret]

I've read them all & I was absolutely appaled by them all. It's not sexy - it's outright abuse & only goes because the main character is a rich dude who tickles the bone under the ladies.

[dovendyret]

After your update: yes it's fiction but it is still abuse, which you and many other women refer to as "sexy". You're telling people who like that sort of shit - to read 50 shades because it is not about D/s. That it is fiction, a book/movie doesn't change that. 😅

[Ghen30]

Watched it. It was just as weird as Twilight... Weren't they originally fanfiction before? Not hating on fanfiction because some of that writing can be pretty good.

[SnakeBoop]

XD
fyi the whole domination community says its a shit representation.
Its a fucking awful twilight fanfiction thats ridiculous, idiotic and only loved by similar fools.

[Tiptoetamm]

Yeah I guess I'm just saying it has a good story line and is entertaining

[SnakeBoop]

XD no its fucking not. like I said, only idiots think its good ;)

[ChrisMaster69]

@snakeboop very much it’s really crap. Kink 2013 which should be on Netflix covers real world stuff better but more documentary approach but is more factual starting point

[SnakeBoop]

@tiptoetamm not doing well to prove you're not an idiot with your update. if anyone is into that type of thing, it will be for the REALISTIC view, not this vomit garbage of toxic stalking and red flags. Simply put, its sad and moronic to be into it. But I've said this three times now, and you still haven't gotten it.

[erandal]

Yes and I really liked the story (I read all the books). I did skip through the sex part after the first couple of times as they were much the same. However, I did buy a set of Ben Wa balls after reading them which turned out to be a very worthwhile purchase. ;)

[ohshee]

I have never seen it. I did read a few pages at a friends house l think it would be a good movie but as my friend was telling me about it it was like getting a hand me down of something for Christmas it was old and used . For me she it could be hot but there are way better was to do things feel things it's all it the passion the detail s of touch ot was just basic it could have been better I think

[Snsl153]

No, not my kind of thing.

[DonkeyDan]

No, never read it, assume it's orientated towards women.

[whereismyjohnny]

I watched movies (first and second). I found it overrated, and cringe at some parts tbh 😂

[slatyb]

The Story of O is much better.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I really liked the 1st book. The feeling she felt were described really well. It was like I was there as one of them. Did not see the movie though. But I heard Dakota Johnson looks quite stunning in it.

If a novel is available, then always a novel.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

May read the other books later.

[Tiptoetamm]

The book was way better more detailed on her emotions and her process. Movies are usually like that tho less detailed and I knew before I watched it wasn't going to be as good as the book

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I don't understand it. What is there to dislike in my opinion? @tiptoetamm Can you tell me anything that is offensive or inappropriate in my opinion?

[Tiptoetamm]

Honestly i don't get it either, I do see there side of it. It can look abusive and controlling behaviors. Honestly i think people are way over reacting

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

But the contract is there. It is voluntary participation.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

And exit at will!

[UniquelyBasic]

Nahhhh

[FunkyMonkee]

Never read it or saw the movie. Didn't know it WAS a book until just now! Haven't been to the movies since the mid `90's.

[andreasderjuengere]

A pathetic attempt. Not worth while. I regret having read the ''book''

[Blackcupcake]

I’ve read all three books hahaha


and I watched the first movie but the movie was just cringe…

[talka20]

I have not

[exitseven]

No, I thought is was a chick flick.

[Tiptoetamm]

I sure it could be considered a chick flicks but damn they both look amazing seriously Dakota Johnson looks so freaking amazing. She has a great body

[exitseven]

is it on Netflix?

[Tiptoetamm]

I watched it on IMDb free with commercials but it's like 5 6 bucks on prime or whatever you use

[exitseven]

okay.

[bowenw]

I have not, but watched the movies.

[kinggeorge007]

It's watched the first one

[kinggeorge007]

*I've

[genericname85]

i was talked into watching the movie with someone... tbh it was the worst piece of shit movie i've ever seen. it's not that i hate dom/sub bdsm stuff. i dislike it. but i could still appreciate a "good" movie about those topics. but this movie is just trash.