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Have You/Would You Ever Have Anal Sex?

"It looks extremely painful in my opinion. I don't think it would fit to be honest."😣

Have You/Would You Ever Have Anal Sex?
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Thank you all for the detailed responses.💭 I enjoy reading and really appreciate all the tips! Here's what I learned: 🤓 1. Needs lots of lubricating 2. It *can* be enjoyable if done correctly 3. It *will* hurt, that's unavoidable 4. It's an exit not an entrance 5. Good hygiene is imperative 6. Many people are grossed out by the thought 7. I still don't know if I'd ever try it but I'm a bit more open to the idea after seeing what the girls had to say.
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  • Yes I have!
    It's a little uncomfortable for the female at first but if you want to do it and have a good experience you should definitely get a good lube and make sure you are gentle and slow with the first entry when penetrating the anus for the first time. And start with a slow and gentle pace when you are beginning to slide your penis in and out of her making sure you don't pull it out of her anus the whole way (stopping when the head of your penis about to become visible after the shaft has slid out is the best time to begin pumping it back inside so that you don't exit the anus completely and end up poking her sphincter causing discomfort or tearing of the skin of her anus!

    After you get her used to the action of your penis sliding in and out of her ass and the feeling of it pushing and pulling back out of her anus as your pumping it... Then you can start to speed up the pace and go faster. And also how hard you are you are pounding her!

    If you are considerate and make sure that you are keeping her comfortable with your penises presence inside her ass and don't make it painful or uncomfortable for her then you will enjoy it and she will be able to enjoy it and possibly have amazing orgasms from the experience!

    • This was very helpful feedback! Thank you for your help

Most Helpful Guy

  • The way I see it a relationship is about allowing yourself to be vulnerable to someone and hoping that they're willing to be vulnerable to you and won't miss use that vulnerability, allowing you to grow close together.
    The first time a girl has sex with her vagina is extremely vulnerable.
    But I think that you've learned that it's definitely worth it now.
    Anal sex is definitely being vulnerable.
    If he *wants* to or if he is careless and doesn't pay attention to you then he *can* hurt you.
    And if you don't trust him and squeeze down it's also going to hurt.
    But in that vulnerability you can also grow a lot closer together.
    And that feels good.
    For both of you.
    Most men prefer vaginal sex over anal sex, and anal is just something they'll do occasionally.
    But if you're willing to do that for him every now and then it's a affirmation of your relationship.
    And I think most guys wants that every now and then.
    Prove that you're quite literally willing to put your butt on the line for the relationship.

    But only do so if you both really mean it, and trust him with it and believe that he genuinely cares about you and your wellbeing back.

    Also you don't have to do anal bending over or something like that.
    You can do it facing him, letting him see your face and respond to it, and seeing his in return.
    That also makes it easier for him to reach your clit if he wants that.

    Ps. Sorry if I bothered you yesterday.
    I do find it upsetting when your dm is closed.
    I've tried not to bother you today, respecting your desire to be left alone.

    That said, I genuinely think that being alone isn't what's best for you.
    Let me be there for you and help you.

    Anyway, that video clip, that TikTok us still there on Instagram for when you feel ready for it. 🫂

    • @Secret6620 I found you a buttplug 101 in case you want some information about that kind of things. They list some nice beginner plugs and information about your anatomy etc. It's a quite nice article. I hope that it's of some use.

    • www.lovehoney.eu/.../first-time-butt-plug-101.html

    • Even if you decide not to use them at least this might help you make a informed decision.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • If it hurts it means the other party didn't prepare your butt well enough or you're too dry. Those two are key to make it enjoyable and not painful. He should also go slow at first and make sure you're comfortable and it's not hurting. Your position can also matter. Laying on my back was less painful than doggy style the first few times. It can still hurt a bit but it shouldn't be overly painful. I had both good and bad experiences with anal and the bad ones would have been completely avoidable.

    • It just blows my mind that it can be an enjoyable experience. It looks sooooo painful but from the feedback on this post, it sounds like good preparation is key. Thank you for taking the time to explain your answer! This opinion was extremely helpful.

    • I'm glad I could help 😊

    • Happy Taco Tuesday 🌮 beautiful!

  • It is painful at first but it gets better. I started doing it with a guy in my senior year of high school and it hurt a lot but it felt good sometimes and I had some strong orgasms that way. After that I used toys in my bum while masturbating and I think that helped a lot. My fiancé and I do it a lot now and it is only slightly uncomfortable when he first goes in but after that if feels amazing. And the orgasms are definitely more intense.

    • The way you describe it, makes it sound like a enjoyable and erotic experience. I'm terrified of the whole idea but this explanation put me at ease on the topic. Thank you for taking the time to write out your opinion and share your experiences. Very helpful feedback.

    • No problem. It can definitely be enjoyable but I would suggest practicing alone with toys first. I wish I had. Not everyone likes anal and some hate it nd that will probably always be true. I think more would like it if they tried it alone first though. Also clit stimulation is a definite requirement for me. It sometimes makes the difference between uncomfortable and good. Good luck!

    • I appreciate the tips! Happy Sunday Funday 🌄

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Personally I'm not a fan but we all have our preferences

    • Good point

  • Yup, to and from her... I see a lot of guys went on with instructions, I didn't read them all, but from what I seen they failed to mention the number one thing in my opinion. Make sure the cavity is clean before. Take shower and flush that **** out. You can fill whats already filled. Thats what causes the pain most people feel...

    • Hygiene is essential! Thank you for the insightful feedback

    • I know many people prefers doing a enema first, but I didn't know that it may matter for the discomfort/pain. Although that certainly makes sense.

    • @losalt Similar to bloating feel x10, Its why most girls which dont like to do it will say because its painful. Extra benefit because I love eating cake, so it is a necessity that its done when entering in my cellar...

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  • I’ve tried it it wasn’t that bad in my opinion I guess I’m good with pain lol

    • I have such a low pain tolerance 😭

  • Being a realist it differs for each individual. You'll have those who view Male-female vaginal intercourse. Then those who have tried or maintained the act. It's up to the individual. The majority of our body is muscle and for all parties involved whichever orifice you prefer or not is totally singularly self made.

    • VERY good points! Thank you for explaining your answer

  • It's the most painful and unpleasant experience I have ever felt during sex. I've tried it a few times and each time has been no better.

  • I've just had fingers and toys there so far. I like that a lot to be honest but I haven't tested a dick there yet. I think I'll do it over time however.

    • Thank you for taking the time to share your experiences and to explain your answer. I really appreciate that.

  • No offense but I think it's nasty. I will never do it. Not give it and not receive it.

  • I've always had great vaginal sex. Anal has been a curiosity because everyone talks about it. I've tried with several of my friends, none have been welcoming, but a couple have indulged me. I don't know, i'm happy without.

    • Thank you for sharing your experiences and for taking the time to explain your answer! I appreciate it.

  • Done it a few times, it's not my favorite by any means but I'll do it every now and again on special occasions.

    • Thank you for sharing your experiences!

    • You're welcome. Happy to help

  • I'm sorry but just NO! That is just totally gross to me.

    • Thank you for the honest feedback!

    • Wonder how all the gay people feel about this 😂 since that’s their only option.

  • It is not really my favorite, but at a Christian college there are always some girls who are maintaining a technical virginity (or scared of pregnancy) who insist on it. So I do have some experience.

    • By the way, I know that one of these girls does not count me as someone she had sex with; which is ridiculous. I was there and we had quite a bit of pretty wild sex. I just happen to be in “the other hole “

  • I've done it twice. With my ex and then my current boyfriend. I do not like it. I told my boyfriend that everytime he wants to do anal, he is doing to have to let me stick a dildo up his ass first. He doesn't ask me anymore 😌

    • Ahahaha! That's a great comeback 👏🙆‍♀️

    • 😂😂😂 Seriously i don't understand wats soo exicting about anal sex 😂😂 I mean ur getting to fuck pussy and sooo fucking amazing.. y would people want to fuck asshole 😒😒

  • The main road is better than the less traveled road.

    • Absolutely LOVE this quote. Just perfect for this topic 👏👏👏

    • Secret, When people ask me if i like Sushi, this is my standard answer..."It all depends how it's cooked."

    • Giggles 😂!!! You're so fun 🙆‍♀️

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  • I dated a girl in college who wanted to try it. I didn’t think the pieces would fit together, but she disagreed. It turns out I was right, there’s no way I was going to fit in there.

    • OMG 😱

  • I did it with my ex-girlfriend. It was basically her who really pushed me to try it out. It was fun, usually she was the one who asked for anal. For me it felt very tight and enjoyable, and apparently she enjoyed it too! We always used enough lube and she got used to it really quickly. It was always special when I was allowed to do anal with her and cum inside her.

    • Omg 😳!!! She even let you cum inside! She's very brave. I don't think I could do it. I have a really low pain tolerance.

  • No. Nope. Laa. Uh uh. Nyet. Not happening.

  • I have had anal, love anal. I just need to be relaxed and use lube, lube is you're best friend 😂

    • So you're not in excruciating pain while it's happening? My man wants to try but I told him no. It doesn't look enjoyable at all.

    • It takes a lot of getting used too. Get some anal toys if you wanna but only if you're comfortable

    • *nods* Thank you for your help!

  • Nope i don't think i would ever have anal sex...

    There is nothing exciting about it.. and it's not healthy too

    When i can have sooo much pleasure and fun and amazing feeling in vaginal sex... Y do i even need anal sex 🤭🤭

    • VERY good points

    • 💕💕💕 😚😚😚

  • No, in case will I ever have anal sex, not doing it to a partner, and certainly not undergoing. I prefer by far the confort of the vagina. I know many people like anal sex, but not me. Different reasons:
    - I just don't like it
    - it's unclean
    - risk to create wounds
    - risk to get some bad bacteria and/or virus
    - not at all confortable

    • Little writing mistake: "No, in NO case will I ever..."

    • There are definitely a lot of risks to be weary of. Thank you for the honest and detailed feedback!

    • If you want to try anal, things may depend on how you're shaped. Some people are very widely shaped there, and thus making anal sex easyly possible.

  • You need to do it with patience and passion and go slow. If you do it right it can feel great, and if you do it like what you see in porn you might hate it.

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