Lets get one thing straight first, NO GUY LIKES CONDOMS. there needs to be at least one correction to his comment. "the pull out method and never fails." It just hasn't failed him YET. the pullout method DOES NOT PREVENT PREGNANCY.
If a guy is so insistent on not respecting your health (whether disease or pregnancy) he is not worth giving the gift of sex to. Don't do it!
With my current boyfriend, Even though I was on the pill I wouldn't have sex without a condom until we both showed our recent medical reports showing tests for std's and having negative results. But that was months after we began dating and of course we also had the talk that we were exclusive. Absent all of that, I'd say see ya later to that selfish dude trying to get in your pants.
The pull out method doesn't work. People who use that method become parents sooner or later. Have him get tested negative for STDs. You get tested too so that you know what it means to get tested. Better yet, go to get tested together. If you have a Planned Parenthood office near you, that's a good place to go to get tested. You can also take care of getting yourself onto birth control there, if you're not already on birth control. Then enjoy having delicious orgasmic oral sex instead so that there's no possibility of getting pregnant. :)
Don't do it unless he can show you recent test results to prove that he's clean. A lot of guys lie about being clean.
Also the pull out method has a 20% failure rate, so it really isn't a great option.
You're the one who has to worry about being pregnant and deal with the consequences. If he can't put up with a condom, find someone else to have sex with.
Pull out method aka Coitus Interuptus ( yeah it's a medical term) is the most primitive of contraceptive methods.
And the reason being that there is good chance you can pregnant if he doesn't take it out before ejaculating. I would personally not try that with a girl and risk pregnancy.
As for the whole condom thing, tell him to get the right size and a better brand.
With regards to you.. I'd say.. Pregnancy and STDs are not going to help you in any stage.
So, better safe than sorry.
If he won't wear a condom.. well you could wear one.. or you could go on the pill after consulting a doctor. but then that will prevent pregnancy not STDs in case he has any.. so maybe ask him to get some tests done?
Good luck.
If you have any doubt in your mind that he is anything but clean have him go get checked. As far as the condom is concerned, yes it cuts down your chances of getting an std but it is not a cure all. Also, if you want him to wear a condom then he better sick it up and wear a condom. If things go sideways you have the most to lose. Any guy that refuses to wear a condom when it is requested is not a man and doesn't deserve to share your bed. It's your body, if you don't want to have sex without a condom then don't have sex without a condom. If he doesn't respect you enough to wear one when asked then that's on him.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!tell him if he's not willing to wear one then he gets no sex. you're not the problem here. don't let him make you believe that.
Find a decent guy that cares about other things other than his own pleasure lmao
lol.. pull out Methodist never exists.. it's just the guy's myth that he has pulled out in the process.. the precum contains millions of sperms.. and it can easily get you pregnant!
Use birth control pills and force him to use a condom.. else you won't fuck with him. observe his reactions.. if he still pushes you.. don't even see him anymore.. he's just wanting to enjoy and nothing love of that sort exists in him..
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Peace! If he refuses to wear a condom with you then he refuses with everybody else. The reason he says he's clean is probably because he's never been checked. Pregnancy would be the least of my worries. That's begging for herpes
He probably doesn't like condoms, however he should prove he is clean by getting tested and showing you the results. The pull out method is the least effective contraceptive method. So if I was a women I would insist on something other than that. Don't fuck him. The D is worth that kind of risk just because he wants to hit it raw.
a lot of guys don't like condoms but we are responsible and use them if needed. if you don't feel safe without one don't have sex with him. also his story is most likely bogus. My opinion at least.
I'd say see ya then. If you don't want to get pregnant that is. If you want to know if the both of you are STD free, (I say both so he can know about you too.) go to a clinic or dr and be tested together and share results. Never take someone's word. Hope this helps. :)
ask him what he hates more: using a condom or paying child support because he's an idiot.
even if he is clean and even if he's particularly adept at pulling out (lol whatever yo), do you really want to keep a guy who is, apparently, kind of unconcerned about any consequences for YOU as long as he gets HIS pleasure? Like, what would happen if you called his bluff of no sex if you force the condom issue? Would he accept that he's not getting any from you or would he dump you to find some other chick that will let him do as he wants?
How would he know if he's clean? If he's been sexually active in the last few months, he can have an STI even if he's passed STI tests. Some STIs take months before they can be detected. And some don't ever show symptomps or at least not for a long time. If he doesn't use condoms, chances are he's not clean. Even if it's something as simple as Chlamydia - one of the most common STIs which is easily treatable with antibiotics. It's super common, quite infectious AND often shows no symptoms at all. I wouldn't trust this dude, if I were you.
Just let him know that you refuse to have sex if he doesn't want to wear a condom. Sex should be consensual and if the two parts can't come to an agreement they shouldn't have sex, period.
LOL.. I bet he does.
Sorry, but ANYONE that thinks the "pull out method" never fails is a multiple time father. That process has a very very low success rate. you still have precum and that can still get you pregnant. don't fall for such bullshit.
Umm, stay far away from him. He is clearly not that bright.
He doesn't like condoms.
And he's irresponsible. End of.
Does he have a test to prove he's clean? I'm not a fan of condoms either, but there are STDs out there that can ruin the rest of your life. Also, the pull out method doesn't work. Always wear your Kevlar before going into battle.
Ask him to take a test and prove it. You have that right, it's your health we're talking about. He won't be upset if he is indeed clean like he says (why would he be?). Then there's pregnancy, pull out method isn't 100% effective. If you ask me, he's been extremely LUCKY to this point. For him to believe this is 100% effective is unrealistic. He's probably genuine about not liking condoms, but to risk it by not wearing them is stupid in my opinion. But, lots of guys do it. Maybe he's allergic to them also? It's a possibility.
I don't think he would say he's clean if he's not that would be really fucked up some guys real do have problems with condoms. I struggle with them as well sometimes I'll even lose my erection because of how much sensation it take away. but better safe then sorry if your in a relationship get tested together, if he's clean then go on the pill. If you guys aren't in a relationship fuck body's, casual or just dating then definitely stick to condoms. He may be clean now but if he sleeps with other people he could catch something.
definitely don't go with the pull out methods I would never do that
Your life vs his pleasure. You decide.
P. S. Aids is painfully deadly :)
GOODBYE LOSER
is enough said to this storyteller
and the next time after this you see him, he will be SAD in figuring out what to do with a baby coming down the pips of this other gal
Clean is the least concern "on the table" in this "deal"
i think its a bit selfish for him to act like this... the pull out method ain't safe and he might knock you up... he needs to grow up
He's lying his ass off. Next time find a better guy.
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