He’s asking me to send him nudes?
So this guy I am exclusive with keeps asking me to send him nudes I have said no and now he’s just moody. Because he’s locked up with covid symptoms he’s asking me to send him nudes because he can’t see me but I have explained to him I don’t send nudes I never have and never will. But he’s like ‘ other girls will send nudes but not my girl ‘ I said to him I thought you would respect it that I have never sent a nude before. And now he’s just gone kind of moody I don’t know if i have done anything wrong?
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Guys after I said no to the nudes I asked so ‘ are you not going to continue the conversation ‘he said ‘ yeah we can’ and now he’s not replied. I’m guessing he don’t like answer.
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12 41Is this the same guy you've been complaining about, why do you stick around for his crappy behavior?
True say probs loneliness but I’m going total ghost mode
This guy is a tool and the fact that he's not responding just goes to show what he's really after.
Thank you so much xxx
Tell him to go jerk off to porn if he wants to cum badley
Just send him lingerie. Completely naked isn't really a good idea
Just send him the lingerie photo he will be okay
No thanks I don’t feel comfortable with either
That's better
If he's so desperate for nudes that he can't respect you not wanting to send him some, he may try to get nudes from someone else. In which case, I'd drop his ass.
He needs to jerk off, you should take it as a compliment, he can't be with you but he can jerk off to your pictures
Did you say anything after he said "yeah we can"?
Yeah I did I sent an emoji saying ‘ beautiful ‘he said ‘huh’ I said ‘nothing ‘ & he didn’t reply
There was nothing to reply to. There was no subject, topic, or thing being discussed. If you wanted to continue the conversation, one of you would have to say something. I'm not saying it's his fault and I'm not saying it's your fault either. But that's just what happens in that type of situation. If nothing further is said, the conversation dies.
Yeah that’s true! You know I respect that you replied back to me and I really appreciate it. We have sorted stuff out and we both said we need to be more consistent and trust eachother more. So from now on I will be showing more effort
& I think this is all because I stood my ground and said no to him about the nudes as he asked today and was like let’s video I still said no and stuck to it. I even cut the phone off to him whilst we was speaking because I was uncomfortable x
Thank you! I'm glad my advice was a help. :)
I hope you guys can continue to work on your communication, too. I'm sorry to hear that he made you so uncomfortable that you had to hang up on him. Was he being very pushy? Was he being demanding?
He was just being pushy constantly going on about it when I said no already x
Okay. Quick question, though: When he asked you for the video call, did he say it was for an "adult" call? As in, talking to each other naked? Or was it just to have a call with clothes on? Because there's a difference, you know? I just want to make sure you weren't assuming that when he didn't say that.
No he said actually said body call we show our body to eachother on video call loool. Which is quiet disturbing for me
Ohh. Okay. Nvm.
Your refusal to send him nude is perfectly right. If he loves you, he should love your total personally, not your boobs and pussy only.
Thank you xx
You haven't he's being selfish but he's horny and wants you to provide him with something to make him feel better and sooth his physical urges
Thank you x
He's wrong but it's very easy to see it from his point of veie most people aren't at their best when frustrated sexually and the to the fact that he's stuck in the house and it's a recipe to be the worst you
Yep lol
If he's gonna be that shallow, then I say good riddance and move on.
sending nudes is the norm today. if you don't like that then break up. he deserves better.
Fuck off rude twat
triggered by the truth as always. Like a typical woman she is here just fishing for attention and opinions she will accept only if she likes them.
Not seeing the problem here unless you don`t trust him not to post them over the internet etc
Stand your ground
No its your body an mind he should respect you
Don't send them if you don't want to, nothing wrong with that. If he's willing to try and pressure you into sending nudes, he's willing to try and pressure you into doing other things you won't want to do, I'd say end it, better to be safer than sorry.
This is so true thank you x
It’s completely up to you as to if you want to send him pictures of you
Why didn't you send him nudes? Not your nudes... just nudes. He's fkn dumb and won't know the difference.
win - win
😂😂😂😂 love that
Hell no! You told him. Tell him to act like a man, not a whiney boy.
well send the nude
You don't have to do anything you are not comfortable doing, and he should understand that.
Thank you x
You are welcome 😊