HELP! Guys would you stop talking to a girl if she slept over and peed in you bed?

Question

My work crush finally asked me out and we finally went on a date and finally had sex but I fucking peed in his bed and I snuck out there so fast the next morning and he hasn't called me for 3 days almost. Do you think he saw the pee? Also what would you guys do if some predators in your bed?

JuicyBrain · Accepted Answer

Try to see it from his point of view. He wakes up to you shamefully escaping his bed. Reverse the roles for a minute. What would you think? The first thing you would think is that he probably fled because you were bad in bed or he is ashamed to be with you. Plus, as revenge, he fucking peed in your bed ! Would you be in a hurry to call him then?
Look, if a girl peed in my bed and just told me, I would understand. Yeah, sure, it doesn't happen all the time but so what? It's just a little pee. My ex accidentally farted when she sneezed in bed the very first time we slept in the same bed. Oh I heard it ! I knew what it was and saw that she was a bit ashamed and fake that it didn't happen. I acted like I never heard it. It was just a fart. I spent 4 years of my life with that girl and we laughed at that story often before we went our own way...
I think you should call him and just tell him what happened. Just be totally honest. Sure, it's embarrassing, but you'll both get over it.

JamesS1980 · Accepted Answer

As an accident it's OK - but running away like that risks him thinking the worst: that it was deliberate, or that it was his fault and you were so disgusted you fled, or that you don't like him, he did something wrong. Don't wait for him to call: talk to him. ASAP. Make sure he knows it was an accident and you still want to talk!

jesshkah · Accepted Answer

I feel like at the very least you should text him and apologize instead of running away..

fauchelevent · Accepted Answer

I think it would have been fine if you hadn't ran away.

canderson23445 · Answer

Sounds like a cute incident to me.

new_guy · Answer

Look, there is pee and then there is, I don't know, cum or "squirt". If you peed a little it wouldn't bother me. If you cum or squirt... wow. Hot. I'd love that and love doing that to you.

cheesesteak7 · Answer

I noticed you still haven't said why you snuck out... That's the nearly-unforgivable part.

Red_Arrow · Answer

The peeing can easily be forgive. but running out without a word and leaving it soaking in... that is a different matter.

Psi_Unknown · Answer

When I first read this, I did chuckle a little. Who knows what happens when you sleep. (This is also why you don't drink two hours before going to bed!) He didn't just see it; he smelled it too. (There are way worse smells in the world though, like having to clean up dead animals.) I guess there are people who might do this intentionally though. Sneaking out does sound bad, like you intentionally left a mess.

Bandit74 · Answer

The fact she just got up and left would make me think she did it on purpose.

meatballs21 · Answer

I would stop talking to her not because of the pee, but because she snuck out rather than tell me!

Phoenix98 · Answer

I personally wouldn't see it as a big deal unless it like happened a lot, because accidents happen right? I think you should call him and explain.

tyber1 · Answer

I can understand your humiliation. I probably wouldn't call you back tbh, that's awkward as fuck. In the future, take care of your bladder before you go to sleep.

AhGojira · Answer

Damn that's dirty... One night stand, pee on his bed while he's sleeping, and then sneak out before dawn... Why didn't you draw a dick on his forehead and take a dump on his chest while you're at it.

cth96190 · Answer

Accidents happen. Not a big deal.

COCOCHANEL · Answer

was the sex good?

DeltaRoss · Answer

Just a little piddle, but you leaving without a word may make it look like you didn't want to be with him. If someone predators in my bed I call Arnold shwartsanager to wash my sheets for me

RationalMale · Answer

Seriously? You know if you sneak out early morning, that's a pretty strong message he shouldn't call you, right? That's like ghosting someone.

Jackblue · Answer

I would think she was playing a prank on me since I woke up to find her gone and urine in my bed, I suggest you call him up and explain.

adamski24 · Answer

I would tell her it's fine don't be embarrassed and just talk to her maybe ask why she left. And take it from there

iFarted · Answer

Why? How? WTF HAppened?

Gourdman · Answer

Did you pee during the sex?

ToruMatsuda · Answer

Lol waaat, you could have at least cleaned it up or left a note telling him it was a accident , he probably thinking you did it on purpose.

abc--123 · Answer

Accidents happen only a jerk would make a big deal out of it

TrustyGuide · Answer

That happened to me once. We had both had a little too much to drink and I think that's what caused it. I thought it was a little weird but I was still into her.

Anonymous · Answer

I hadn't considered the 'prank' aspect. The fact she accidentally peed - no big deal would still date. The fact she peed and bolted and didn't say anythying is worse.

Anonymous · Answer

I mean, of course I wouldn't like pee in my bed but I understand this is something beyond her control. I wouldn't like shun her away over it but I'll definitely work something out if she'll sleep over again that may include wearing diapers or something.