I totally understand being so horny that you feel desperate (nearly every guy knows that feeling), but let me be completely honest with you: most women cannot have casual sex without suffering emotional pain. If you go out and have casual sex, it might well solve your horniness problem for a short time (though for a lot of girls, once they have sex, they turn into horny sexy monsters who need it constantly), but you'd just trade that with emotional pain - often very strong, intense pain - because when women have sex with a man, they bond with him and develop romantic feelings even if they don't want to or don't intend to. And when the guy doesn't develop similar feelings in return (and men's bodies and hormones don't work the same, so having casual sex doesn't make us develop feelings like it does for women), you'll feel hurt and confused and probably depressed.
This is why women always used to teach younger women to make sure they were in a relationship before they started having sex - it's REALLY important for most women that the man will stick around and want to continue to be with her after she loses her virginity, because SHE's really going to want him to be, and if he's not, she's usually going to be really hurt.
You might think you can control your emotions, but sex is VERY powerful, and most people - women especially - really just can't control their emotions about sex, even when they think they can.
So, do what's in your own best interest and find a quality partner and then have sex with him. Have all the sex you want - but just make sure it's a guy who really cares about you, or you'll probably have some deep, long-lasting feelings of regret.
Yeah, i know what you mean. And thank you for writing and saying your opinions. I haven’t had sex yet but i see sex just biological need. But of course i can not know what i will feel afterwards i have sex. Of course i prefer to have sex with someone who i care and cares about me. But sometimes i just feel so horny that i want to get rid of this feeling.
Giving yourself to a random stranger as a living sex doll is not how you want your first encounter to go. You may find that after someone abuses you to get their rocks off and then never calls you that you never want to have sex again. That’s pretty much how tinder works at least from what I’ve gathered in my travels without ever actually having used it. I would recommend that your first time being with someone who knows you and cares about you as opposed to someone who just wants you to serve their needs of the moment. Ask some of your female friends how their first encounter went and you’ll probably hear not that great and then ask them how they felt about themselves and sex in general after their first encounter wasn’t that great. You’ve lived a little longer and had more life experience than most people when it’s their first time. I hope you’ve learned to be a little more discerning and considerate of your own needs than just to fill some guy’s virgin fantasy who might not stick around afterwards. Nothing is stopping you from exploring your body and your likes/dislikes by yourself.
Get a pair of really nice leather pants and a nice top. Go to a classy bar, like really classy. Go with friends. Chat someone up, sample the room, and Have your pick at the end of the night.
Masterbation that your virginity if you if not use a thin dildo
I would recommend hitting up tinder to loose your virginity. I'm being quite serious when I say you should just take it yourself and by it I mean pop the hymen. You would still be considered a virgin because you never slept with anyone but you won't have the nuisance of a cherry ruining the sex for you. You dont want your first experience with a man to be crappy and uncomfortable. So Buy something of a reasonable realistic size. Use plenty of KY and make certain you pre stimulate yourself well before hand. Then take your time. Loosing your virginity with a stranger will suck. They are not going to be patient with you. If you by any chance still have a cherry thats going to be uncomfortable and they not knowing you or caring about you are not going to listen to you and go at your pace. Its not going to feel great which is what you want. So you should explore yourself. Make certain you dont have a hymen to interfere with intercourse by trying to pop it yourself. After you heal find yourself a man however you feel fit. Without a hymen in the way the sex will be much more enjoyable.
Sorry typo I DON'T RECOMMEND TINDER FOR LOOSING YOUR VIRGINITY... DONT look to tinder to pop your cherry
My original post should have read *** "Masterbation, TAKE your own virginity if you dont want to use a thin dildo then"
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Even shy people have sex. You probably know lots of guys, and it is likely that some of them are attracted to you. Push yourself to get past your shyness. Smile at the guys that seem to like you and talk with them about anything. You should soon be able to find a guy who seems attractive enough and is interested in you.
Do not look for a one-time thing, because that will not get rid of the feeling. It will continue and you will want more. If you find somebody you love that is great. But until then, you can find someone you respect and who also feels the need for someone. It is better to have a guy you can continue having sex with even if it is not love.
Push past your shyness and you will find a guy that is good for you.
Dm me if you are real
I think you might have to add me first I'm not sure how it works but I can tell you exactly what you do make you melt and get you so freaking hot you'll know what to do. See if you are real
I mean really should find somebody that you know or that you meet and you know a little bit of history about them you don't want a guy from Tinder because he's going to make it all about himself and that's the last thing you want as a virgin the guy has to be very very slow methodical with you he needs to make it all about you so you can feel what it really feels like otherwise you're going to get a guy he's going to get on top of you he's going to put it in he's going to be finished and you're going to be laying there going WTF JUST happened YOUR FINISHED ALL READY
Another thing I've always said you have to experience it before you can understand it find a guy online and do a role-play with him so you can actually feel something so you can feel what it feels like and put yourself in that scenario that way at least you're prepared a little bit there are certain things I know for a fact that I would do before even having sex with you I would tease you so bad that you would come 15 times before we even started and that's just because me I would make it all about you and a certain ways to do that
Tinder might be a good start. Just make sure the guy is gentle and always use a condom. Do you have any sex toys? They can be fun and give you great orgasms!
Breakout the toys!
Just go for it l. It’s not a big deal
You should 1) get on contraception. 2) find a partner and have sex.
Find a nice quiet private place, close your eyes, think of your ideal partner, and play with yourself, slowly at first, then more intensely. Don't stop until you reach orgasm, then continue to play with yourself, even more slowly, to bring yourself back to reality.
I constantly do this but this is not enough anymore
Then you need to spice things up. Go to a nice non-private place and do it, where someone might be able to see you. Or ask a good friend (preferably male) to watch you.
Why should i do this except from having sex? These will not satisfy me.
Its like seeing my mirror self. I get the feeling. I have been the same and its frustration because of the high libido i have. But try not to loose your focus.
People who casually fuck strangers are the worst.
If you are virgin for a very long timeee you can not know who to fuck
Thats blatently false.
the worst decisions in life are made when horny. i'd say find a guy to have sex with, when you're not horny. just get yourself off and then look for someone, when your mind isn't completely focused on just that.
because really, just fucking someone isn't gonna scratch that urge you feel. i know that from experience xD
i mean i did lose my virginity to a random hookup on tinder.
So, How was your first time? How did you feel?
not great, not horrible. sort of meh. i mean seeing a woman naked in front of me and being allowed to touch her in all the places was awesome xD not gonna lie. but the sex itself was underwhelming. i didn't even cum. and we tried several times through the night and next morning.
You can, who you trust or get sex councillor and get appointment, now a day search on YouTube or Google it.
Get good friend spent time with him vacation together.
Don't shy Bebe be happy and healthy.
Depends on if you want to keep your V-card until marriage, or if you don't mind getting it punched? If you want to keep it intact then self service by hand or a very small dildo would be the way. I'f you don't mind that it's punched, then find someone caring and thoughtful of you to help you with the initial encounter, and subsequent encounters if your needs aren't fully met, or come back.
Please dont be a prostitute. You can't barely move and expect people to recognise you. A lot of people like shy girls so I think you are way too shy. Then reduce your shyness. If you need help. Visit a therapist
I will not be a prostitute. I just want to have sex with someone that’s it.
You can find a boy friend. Otherwise, you can hook up
I hope you found some relief, lol.
Not yet
You don't even need to go to tinder. Just head to a bar and pick a guy up.
Oh that's crazy i can feel it, yep tinder might be good choice
It will be my first if i find it on Tinder
Yep but don't tell that you want him for sex reason, just let him feel free with you 😉
Yes there are many girls did that on tinder where is the problem?
Yes I do know people who have lost it in that way.
I am one who has help such in doing so in many different way's.
It's always best to talk about such in person so u can get a feel for me an I for u so that's it will come out in a very most exciting way for u in my experience because u will want ur very first time to be very happy an pleasurable for u.
Send me a Pm an follow me an let me know u would like to see how we can go about it an I will give u info on how to reach me an I will do my best to make u happy.
God Bless
Boyfriends are overrated and 9 times out of 10 suck at sex anyway. In the meantime learn your body. Be careful on Tinder. People can be crazy and you dont want to end up getting physically hurt looking for dick. Its not worth it.
Yeah, that’s why i feel anxious about it.
Maybe you should consider a girl too. Thats just an idea
I am not into Girls thank you
Come on over I'll fix you right up
Maybe you can get a good sex toy which would help you to relieve.
Even if you meet with a guy from Tinder, most probably it would be a one night stand.
Better get more male friends, talk to them in order to get to know them. And then you can date with one of them
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