How are you in bed? What kind of lover are you?

Question

So how are you in the bedroom? A question which may lead people to want to pat themselves on the back and begin to brag on their sexual skills however before anyone does I must say that is not what I am asking. What I am truly curious about is how would you describe your sexuality personality? How are you truly when you are alone with someone you desire trust and care about?

I'll start the conversation 💋

I'm a combination of all the above with the exception to E. I much prefer to have sex with my dear one as often as possible. I'm shy at first. 🙈 Quiet and attentive. Once I've passed the new to each other's stage. I'm playful and creative. I'm up for role playing and exploring ALMOST any kink one may have (the exception I won't be bonded, no pain no humiliation and cleanliness). I love being sweet vanilla too. Romance and spice is a plus. Candles wine chocolate and strawberries🍓 as our body gently sway to love songs or classical music is so devine. Other times I may be friskier, bold, hard fast and fiery ❤️‍🔥...

So how about you?

Paul_in_Indy · Accepted Answer

I don’t know that I am “romantic,” but, maybe, “sensual?” I am vanilla: no kinks, nothing rough, no rear end play or slapping or choking. I want to luxuriate in the pleasure of her skin and her shape and her eyes. I want to soak up her moans and her shivers of enjoyment. I tend to like “slow and intense” sex (usually ending, eventually, as fast and intense). I want us both to enjoy ourselves and relax.

But I am, also, insatiable. Not every woman wants to keep going for as many rounds as I do. Sometimes what starts as relaxing becomes a chore for her. I don’t mind pleasuring myself as we snuggle. I can still enjoy her while I touch myself. -but not every woman likes that.

I am not entirely selfish. I really want to do what I can to provide pleasure. …but I also don’t want to stop.

So, I am vanilla and there is a romantic vibe to my lovemaking—but I am more focused on sensual pleasure than emotional fulfillment.

I don’t know if that makes sense.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I enjoy making my partner satisfied a much as I enjoy being satisfed by her. also understand that women generally need more arousal before they have their first orgasm, but their next orgasm will be easier to achieve, so I spend lots of time in foreplay and will do whatever it takes to get her to cum. I love missionary position because of the eye contact but I am certainly good wth other positions also. If I feel comfortable wth my partner, I can explore a little bit of kinkiness, but I'm not interested in sharing my partner with anyone else, and I can't do anything that involves giving or receiving pain.

Potteplante · Accepted Answer

Well, I can only speak about how I was with my late fiance - I don't think many others count as much, since that was just me seeking validation and care as a child.

I'm attentive & listen to my partner, I'm not shy and I am vocal about my needs and wants - I can be vanilla, where it's all about that sweet passion, slow and steady, but I'm also into kinky sex - I like to submit, I don't mind humiliation nor pain, I'll not be doing anything with bodily fluids - like puke, shit, pee or blood, I'll not do age play - huge no go.

I want sex in my relationship, doesn't need to be everyday - don't even mind longer dry spells as long as we always get back to business at some time.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

I'm a mix of exciting, bold, daring, sexually adventurous. A little bit of kinky. Romantic, Submissive with guys but dominant with women. My sex drive has always been on the higher end so I could almost go everyday wanting sex.

katiesmuff · Answer

A combination of several would be me!

Katie1964 · Answer

I'm quiet and romantic, but willing to endulge Hubby in his desires.

RobT312 · Answer

I like a combination of many of the items u listed. I have a high sex drive and want sex often. But I like switching it up, from slow and sensual, vanilla, to very kinky.

Sour-rose · Answer

Quiet... as in i'm asleep. You touch me tho and i'll scream. :D Scream as in some fuqqer is touching me while I'm sleeping me and I'm creeped out

integrale77 · Answer

I like to think me and my girlfriend truly make love. I like to see she gets satisfied before I do with plenty of foreplay exploring each others body's

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I like to take my time and give her the attention she deserves. Soft and smooth at first and then escalate it according to her needs.

EmmaMary · Answer

I'm a huge believer in the saying that  Variety Is The Spice Of Life !

MementoMori777 · Answer

My skills are zero on everything In bed but I'm a good lover tho

Msputiton · Answer

I'm a crab

Bricealan · Answer

Like every guy on GAG, I would say I am just the greatest thing since sliced bread LOLOL🤷‍♂️We all know ego plays a big part here. I guess, 'attentive", "thorough" 'lovey-dovey" covers it.

RavVid · Answer

I think everyone is going to be a variety of all of these things. It would be good if GAG allowed a ranking response.

I do want it everyday and love dominant rapeplay but also like sensuous romance. Gentle caressing swaying of our bodies together. But I like to have a good grope as well.

RealMarek · Answer

I’m somewhere between B and C

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Shy calm or quiet

exitseven · Answer

definiely all of the above. I am a man of many moods and sometimes I can turn on a dime.

SawerBrown · Answer

I like a lot of foreplay which includes me giving her oral until she's had multiple orgasms which I find very arousing and satisfying otherwise I'm much like how you described yourself kitty.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Very physical and passionate.

magiusX26 · Answer

so roughly your question is what style of lovemaking/sex is oreffered as well as a pg rated breakdown of sexual prefferences and lite kinks in a sort of summary format.