How can I handle my boyfriend that's pressuring to cum in me?

[Anonymous]

He says we are a serious couple and I should let him go bare and finish inside now.

[Pasiton5]

If this guy cannot respect you he's not worthy to be called your boyfriend plain and simple you don't need someone like that you asking him not to and he want to be you know hard-headed and stupid and ignorant and do anyway you don't need to be with someone like that because this is just the beginning of him ignoring your wishes your wants your desires and only selfishly doing what the f*** he wants to you don't need to be with someone like that you need to be to someone who appreciate you respects you and cares for you here's you you are an individual person you know what you want what you don't and if a man cannot respect that or anybody for that matter you don't need to be you don't need to be with them okay you deserve better to be treated better and respected always Even in the heat of passion

[ScottStevens]

Your body belongs to you, not him. You did not state if you are on Birth Control or not, but in reality that doesn't matter. No birth control is 100% effective.

You might want to have a conversation about this topic with him when you are not in bed. Be very straight forward and ask him what happens and what are his expectations should you get pregnant.

The primary reason you have not said yes certainly evolves around that issue. Otherwise you probably would've let it happen.

He can't be a real boyfriend if he is not able to have this very frank and honest conversation. To many guys think Abortion is the best birth control out there.

[theothersider]

can only eccho the others here. there is no birth control or combinations of birth controls that are 100% effective and if he or you are not 100% ready to be parents then you need to explain to him that you are not ready. if he doesn't understand or willing to accept that then it might be time to move on. being pressured into anything is not good for a relationship.

[charlietom]

I read "boyfriend" "pressuring me" and that's all I need to know. You don't need this shit, you deserve someone who will respect your boundaries, especially when it comes to your body. You deserve better dear, I hope you put this guy in his place or leave him altogether. God bless.

[MTC29]

Inform him that the cost of raising a child born in 2022 to age 18 is estimated at $272,049, and that he will be footing most of the bill.

Condom: cost for single use? under $1.

No condom: potential lifetimes cost? limitless!

[ChrisMaster69]

It’s getting to be a theme this week lol.

In a relationship before you move from condom to no condom, you need to make sure certain things have happened.

you are on BC and not just on it, must be to it’s agreed number of weeks etc.

You both have sexual health checks, full ones and both clear.

You sit down and discuss what happens if BC fails and you become pregnant or suspect you might be, how you discuss pregnancy tests.

then what happens if you are pregnant, abortion not abortion, all the fun stuff that is what adults talk about when being responsible.

If non of that happens then condom stays on.

overall of that, is your consent, if you do not want to, then you say No, if he pushes it, then it’s a large Red Flag.

[summiter]

It is your body and your decision. Do you want to be a mommy right now?
Have you considered going on birth control pills or getting an IUD?

[TheBootyChest]

Ask him if he is willing to give you half his paycheck for the next 18 years, if he says yes then he can do what he wants inside of you. Because that is likely to be what will happen with or without his permission.

[_Angelsbaskett]

The fuck is wrong with him, Dump his ass he should respect what you want and what you don’t want

[DonkeyDan]

Tell him its your pussy and if he ever wants to get in it again he'll respect your wishes and boundaries.

[PositiveNote]

If he says your a serious couple, are you? If you are, you may want to look for ways to help him out, i. e., the pill, or IUD. If you have a strong reason for him not to, then he's got to hear it and understand it. Start with a level conversation and agree to a waiting period or, give him what he wants. (Unless you're not in agreement with "serious.)

[slatyb]

Are you not on any form of contraception? It won't be long before he's not your boyfriend, he's your baby daddy.

Tell him that if he's really serious he would marry you.

[Aqueeld]

Tell me more details what do you mean?
Does he want to cum in you and want to use contraceptive pill?
Like he want u to take pills?
Or does he want you to get pregnant?

[Asker]

No he just hates condoms so for me to get on pill or whatever

[Aqueeld]

Forget about him you tell me what do you want? Do you want to feel his cum inside? Would you be happy today pills?

[MTC29]

All guys hate condoms. I hate condoms. My SO, despite being age 54, has not gone through menopause. "I'm not going back on the pill". Being a daddy at age 61 is not on my list of life's accomplishments. "I'll wrap up."

[Agape93]

Don't do it unless you 100% want that.

[Dragonpurple]

Ask him if he is ready to be a father, and explain if you are ready to be a mother or not. He needs to respect your wishes and not pressure you and you need to be clear you do not want that or are not ready for it.

[Dargil]

Get his license number, car plate number or social security number. Ask him if he is ready for maternity expenses and 18 years of child support... or marry him first.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Say no

[Razp_Sorbet]

He sounds like an asshole. He should respect your wishes

[JoyGirl]

Ehhh…no. Girl, tell him he is crossing boundaries and needs to calm down. If he loves you, he will wait. You shouldn’t feel pressured at all.

[FunkyMonkee]

Babe, it's your pussy!! He can't tell you what to do with it! If you wanna risk pregnancy, go right ahead. That's YOUR choice! Next time he asks, ask him if he''s gonna be able to take care of the baby while you're at work/school or what have you. Can he afford to buy clothes and food for the baby. If not, no bare back!!

[Blackcupcake]

be clear, say no, stick to your no. if he doesn’t respect your choice then time to get rid of him

[Kabluie]

You do what makes you feel comfortable, and you can tell him that. If you're not on birth control, that's a simple reason alone.

[Nagahime]

Unless you are ready for the responsibility of a child, then you shouldn't be recklessly having sex. He has no right to pressure you into something you do not want to do. If he can't respect your wishes, then maybe you two should break up.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

Just before he cums scream "PUT A BABY IN ME AND MARRY ME AND MAKE A FAMILY!"

[KatherineJ]

If you don’t want that, tell him that you don’t. If he has a problem with it, then he needs a serious talk about the future.

[genericname85]

well if that's not what you want, tell him what needs to happen untill you want that, so that he can know what to expect from the relationship with you.

[annabananna]

You tell him that he needs to respect you boundaries.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Tell him that he's gonna have to start paying for birth control or put your foot down and remind him that you're not ready for a family.

He sounds childish as hell and just wants to do it for a cheap thrill. If you give in to that pressure then you're basically ok with him doing that.

[GlassTop]

Don’t have sex if you don’t want it.

[rabbitzzz]

He wants to make you mommy.

[loveslongnails]

That's his excuse for not wanting to wrap it. So here's my questions:
1) Are you on birth control?
2) Do you care if you get pregnant?
3) If you did, would you have the child?
4) If you have it, will you want to raise it with him, in other words, is he "the guy for you"?
5) If "he's the guy for you", are you the girl for him and will he stick around and support?

If you answer "NO" to any of them, tell him "no glove, no love". Don't like it? Fuck off.

[Wise4myage]

Go on Youtube and find lots of examples of what its like raising a baby. Oh, and make sure he understands the concept of child support for 18 years.

[Still-alive]

don't give him sex again until he promises you not to pressure you anymore. if he breaks the promise... well its up to you but maybe reconsider dating this guy at that point

[hafinjun]

Has he recently been tested for all STD'S shown you the all good results, and if he was a safety conscious type, he would want to see your test results too, if he blows this off, then no bare, back there, or anywhere. If he doesn't get it , he's probably to irresponsible to have sex with you, ditch the bitch

[Godsvengeance]

It's actually quite easy, you break up with him because he's obviously a control freak who doesn't care what you want. I would understand him bringing it up (cumming inside a girl is so much better than cumming outside of her), but it shouldn't get to the point of him pressuring you.

[jahaims]

Once you explain how you feel about it let him know it is disrespectful for him to keep pushing the subject

[Cumluvr]

Make him eat out your cumfilled pussy and ass after youve been gangbanged.

[LegendaryIcon]

you say no, until you're ready for kids

and if he can't handle it, you break up

what he's doing is a form of rape

[Ismellahater]

Let him cum in your mouth

[Honesttguy]

That counts

[888theGreat]

require a down deposit of $10,000 to pay for a baby

[sethtav]

I expect my girlfriend to let me go raw and cum in them. Most girls let me with just meet ups.

[driven159]

then do anal or oral if he wants to cum inside you

[EaterPeter]

He must give you written consent of being their for you and baby and still its your call to say no or yes and that just dont means elimony

[Jmmmfi4]

Don't do it

[abc123elmo]

Don't do anything you are not comfortable with. However, if you are in a serous relationship and neither are with anyone else, both have been tested for STDs, and you are on good birth control, it is a bonding experience. Men are wired to impregnate and his brain is telling him it feels better not to have to stop, or that it will feel better to cum inside you. Semen has benifits as well. There are multiple studies about it. Most are positive. There are women who also like the fact they can feel their partner for hours after as it stays wet with their juices. Research and look up the pros, cons, and have a conversation with him about what and when you are willing to try or do. Get tested, share your results and go from there. Good luck!

[askjoebuddt]

Swallow

[Anonymous]

Well dam i guess you got no choice but to let him finish inside you know. I dont see any other choice for you

[Anonymous]

Just let him. You owe it to him.

[Anonymous]

Leave him. Plain and simple, that is sexual coercion.

Is he marrying you soon?
Can he take reaponsibilty in taking care of children?
Is he financially stable?
Can he put you im a house?
If you happen to get pregnant will he leave?
Is he willing to get tested?
Does he have an STD?

Tell he stop it or you will leave. I say start looking for a new man at once. He does not respect your boundaries.

[Anonymous]

Tell him it's your body so you make the rules. If he doesn't respect that he can find a new girlfriend. Pressuring and being uncompromising is a red flag and a good indicator of how they will deal with everything in their life.