How can I handle my boyfriend that's pressuring to cum in me?

Question

He says we are a serious couple and I should let him go bare and finish inside now.

Pasiton5 · Accepted Answer

If this guy cannot respect you he's not worthy to be called your boyfriend plain and simple you don't need someone like that you asking him not to and he want to be you know hard-headed and stupid and ignorant and do anyway you don't need to be with someone like that because this is just the beginning of him ignoring your wishes your wants your desires and only selfishly doing what the f*** he wants to you don't need to be with someone like that you need to be to someone who appreciate you respects you and cares for you here's you you are an individual person you know what you want what you don't and if a man cannot respect that or anybody for that matter you don't need to be you don't need to be with them okay you deserve better to be treated better and respected always Even in the heat of passion

ScottStevens · Accepted Answer

Your body belongs to you, not him. You did not state if you are on Birth Control or not, but in reality that doesn't matter. No birth control is 100% effective.

You might want to have a conversation about this topic with him when you are not in bed. Be very straight forward and ask him what happens and what are his expectations should you get pregnant.

The primary reason you have not said yes certainly evolves around that issue. Otherwise you probably would've let it happen.

He can't be a real boyfriend if he is not able to have this very frank and honest conversation. To many guys think Abortion is the best birth control out there.

theothersider · Accepted Answer

can only eccho the others here. there is no birth control or combinations of birth controls that are 100% effective and if he or you are not 100% ready to be parents then you need to explain to him that you are not ready. if he doesn't understand or willing to accept that then it might be time to move on. being pressured into anything is not good for a relationship.

charlietom · Accepted Answer

I read "boyfriend" "pressuring me" and that's all I need to know. You don't need this shit, you deserve someone who will respect your boundaries, especially when it comes to your body. You deserve better dear, I hope you put this guy in his place or leave him altogether. God bless.

MTC29 · Answer

Inform him that the cost of raising a child born in 2022 to age 18 is estimated at $272,049, and that he will be footing most of the bill.

Condom: cost for single use? under $1.

No condom: potential lifetimes cost? limitless!

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

It’s getting to be a theme this week lol.

In a relationship before you move from condom to no condom, you need to make sure certain things have happened.

you are on BC and not just on it, must be to it’s agreed number of weeks etc.

You both have sexual health checks, full ones and both clear.

You sit down and discuss what happens if BC fails and you become pregnant or suspect you might be, how you discuss pregnancy tests.

then what happens if you are pregnant, abortion not abortion, all the fun stuff that is what adults talk about when being responsible.

If non of that happens then condom stays on.

overall of that, is your consent, if you do not want to, then you say No, if he pushes it, then it’s a large Red Flag.

summiter · Answer

It is your body and your decision. Do you want to be a mommy right now? Have you considered going on birth control pills or getting an IUD?

TheBootyChest · Answer

Ask him if he is willing to give you half his paycheck for the next 18 years, if he says yes then he can do what he wants inside of you. Because that is likely to be what will happen with or without his permission.

_Angelsbaskett · Answer

The fuck is wrong with him, Dump his ass he should respect what you want and what you don’t want

DonkeyDan · Answer

Tell him its your pussy and if he ever wants to get in it again he'll respect your wishes and boundaries.

PositiveNote · Answer

If he says your a serious couple, are you? If you are, you may want to look for ways to help him out, i. e., the pill, or IUD. If you have a strong reason for him not to, then he's got to hear it and understand it. Start with a level conversation and agree to a waiting period or, give him what he wants. (Unless you're not in agreement with "serious.)

slatyb · Answer

Are you not on any form of contraception? It won't be long before he's not your boyfriend, he's your baby daddy. Tell him that if he's really serious he would marry you.

Aqueeld · Answer

Tell me more details what do you mean? Does he want to cum in you and want to use contraceptive pill? Like he want u to take pills? Or does he want you to get pregnant?

Agape93 · Answer

Don't do it unless you 100% want that.

Dargil · Answer

Get his license number, car plate number or social security number. Ask him if he is ready for maternity expenses and 18 years of child support... or marry him first.

Dragonpurple · Answer

Ask him if he is ready to be a father, and explain if you are ready to be a mother or not. He needs to respect your wishes and not pressure you and you need to be clear you do not want that or are not ready for it.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Say no

JoyGirl · Answer

Ehhh…no. Girl, tell him he is crossing boundaries and needs to calm down. If he loves you, he will wait. You shouldn’t feel pressured at all.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

He sounds like an asshole. He should respect your wishes

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Babe, it's your pussy!! He can't tell you what to do with it! If you wanna risk pregnancy, go right ahead. That's YOUR choice! Next time he asks, ask him if he''s gonna be able to take care of the baby while you're at work/school or what have you. Can he afford to buy clothes and food for the baby. If not, no bare back!!

Blackcupcake · Answer

be clear, say no, stick to your no. if he doesn’t respect your choice then time to get rid of him

Nagahime · Answer

Unless you are ready for the responsibility of a child, then you shouldn't be recklessly having sex. He has no right to pressure you into something you do not want to do. If he can't respect your wishes, then maybe you two should break up.