How can I stop fantasizing about something I realllllly shouldn't be fantasizing about?

[RadMads]

[SnowedIn]

First, is it fact that you shouldn't fantasize about it? Like illegal? Forbidden? If so, reframe it in your mind. Maybe difficult but perhaps doable.

If it really is impossible or illegal or something like that, then do the things you love to do. Distract your mind. The fantasy will fade in time and shift to the back of your mind.

[mstbooblover]

You should be more specific, but fantasizing in itself does no harm to anyone. My advice would still be to try and observe your own mind while fantasizing and masturbating. It's always good to know and accept oneself as we are, which help us making better choices.

You should really know and feel in your guts the difference between fantasy and reality. Mixing the two may lead to not knowing the difference between imagination and what really happens in life.

[HorggleThorp]

Why should you not fetishize it? What moral values make you not want to fetishize about it?


Morals are objective, not subjective, so I don’t know if it’s something you should be fetishizing or not.

[ShellyB]

You can't. It is just fantasies you aren't doing anything wrong anyway. I am glad nobody can see my fantasies! I hope they never invent a mind reading device that would be that detailed.

[Chubbychick]

Story of my life hunny. I fantasize about stuff I shouldn't all the time. A lot of us do babe.

[WhitneySnow]

Depends on what it is I guess

[slatyb]

Why is this a problem?

[Tempest68]

What are you fantasizing about?

[pluto1]

Who is it?

[JPresidente]

Replace the image in your mind of who/what you’re fantasizing about with a clown face.

[whiskeyontherocks]

Is this a daydream type of fantasy no big deal if you can’t control when you think about it.
If you’re actively setting aside time to fantasize than maybe find new inspiration for a different fantasy

[BackwoodsSage]

I'd love to know what you're fantasizing about, I'm intrigued.

[Wise4myage]

Have you tried self discipline?

[Guardian45]

Do it, so you can stop fantasizing about it.

[Guardian45]

What shouldn't you be fantasizing about?

[FireFox001]

Just like this. You decide not to, aaaand it's done.

[CharlieDMX]

Stop thinking you should not. Your rejection just feeds the fantasy

[EaterPeter]

Try fantasizing about something else. Read good fiction.

[Dreamclouds]

What are you fantasizing about?

[CubaPirate]

How about making it reality

[B4852]

What's the fantasy?

[B4852]

But maybe do some activities that'll distract you.

[LoveYourself24]

Read a book or article, something that while focus your attention away from the fantasy 😬

[Gooddaze]

It’s a fantasy don’t sweat it

[dinojames22]

Depends on what it is

[jimmy2]

Lol well that is fantastic