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Sexual Health How can I tell my boyfriend I want to call him "daddy" during sex? How would you respond if your girlfriend wanted to call you "daddy"?
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I'm very submissive in bed. I've been trying to get my boyfriend to be more dominate during sex, and he's pretty open to everything I've suggested so far. It's not that he's not into it or anything, he's just inexperienced (i'm his first girlfriend etc). I've been very open and comfortable with talking to him about stuff so far, but I feel like the daddy thing could be easily misunderstood. I like the idea of calling him daddy because I find "master" or "sir" too harsh, while "daddy" is the right amount of dominating and sweet. It also has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with incest/my actual father etc. It's just a sub/dom thing. Since he doesn't seem to be "naturally" into the BDSM thing, I'm scared he won't understand the idea or think it's weird I want to call him daddy. How should I bring it up? What should I do if he thinks it's weird? How do I explain it to him?
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What Girls & Guys Said
6 23I'd drive my 11" deeper and harder if you said that to me!
a lot of guys like being called daddy I do
My wife calls me Daddy. It's yummy
Man if a girl ever asked to call me daddy, I would throw up and get rid of her messed up daddy issued ass.
The daddy child f'd up female fantasy is one of the most mentally f'd things in the sexual arena. Regardless of how you justify it in your mind, it's incestuous and disturbing. I notice that this happens to be a big female thing though and that is what makes it even more disturbing.
I can't imagine how a woman would react to a male asking her if he could call her mommy when he was being sexual with her. It would be the end of his sexual activities and his relationship in the majority of cases.
Dude its has to do with the sub/Dom bdsm relationship nothing to do with my actual dad I have a normal and functional relationships with my dad my parrents are 20 years happily married it's something I used to hear my mom call my dad and it just seems normal in a relationship. So maybe you should look at it from a different point of view. ~daddys little
@His_little You used to hear your mom call you father daddy? That's a little fucked up and is probably why you think it's something that is "normal" in a relationship. If you call your sexual dominant dad, then you are playing the role of daughter... and regardless of the explanation or excuse... it's incestuous and disturbing. As a father of a little girl (and a sound human being), it is absolutely disgusting to think that women get off on someone playing their daddy.