It’s sorta normal but maybe he’s pushing you too hard and give you some space
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Wise4myageMaster
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Did you have sex too soon after meeting him?
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Asker
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I don't know normal I guess after 2 times out
Wise4myage
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That’s too soon.
Asker
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Oh I don't know like we both wanted to
joeldaltonMaster
+1 y
Yes, that’s normal.
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TwalliMaster
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Most guys want frequent sex.
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notwokeXper 7
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why do you think he puts up with your shit and pays all the time?
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Keyboardkat
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So are you saying that he's indirectly paying for sex? What does that make the girl? There's something wrong with that whole concept!
notwoke
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@Keyboardkat its the way of the world
Keyboardkat
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Uh, no. I know of a story where the guy would take a girl on one date, and then on the way home tell her, "If you don't 'put out,' I'm leaving you here on the road!" The girl refused, and was put out of the car. She walked until she saw a house with a light on, and asked to use their phone to call her dad. He picked her up and took her home, and the next morning, he told her, "Come with me." He drove her to her dates house and knocked on the door. When the guy opened it, the father slammed the kid with a right upper cut to the head, knocking him to the floor! I say Bravo to that father. I have news for you. This is NOT a business transaction, my friend. A woman is not a THING that you can buy and sell! She is a human being with feelings, emotions, and, believe it or not, rights. l You don't own anybody. A girl absolutely owns her body, the same way you own yours. The price of a movie ticket or a restaurant dinner entitles you to her company, and NOTHING ELSE! She doesn't OWE you anything. Presumably you ask a girl out and willingly entertain her because you like her and would like to get to know her better, and maybe get into a romantic relationship with her if things mutually work out. But that's NOT on the basis of one date. And incidentally, this may be a foreign concept nowadays, but sex is supposed to MEAN something! Even a kiss is supposed to MEAN something. It's not something you dispense like pretzels.
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notwoke
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@Keyboardkat dont be pile of sticks, LMFAO
Keyboardkat
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Well, THAT's rather dismissive! I really meant what I said. Do with it what you will.
notonehunglowXper 1
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He is not experienced enough to know that sometimes just being close is enough
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notonehunglow
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Oh, I do say, if you like him a lot, teach him. I think women need to teach us dummies a lot.
Joshua0213Yoda
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Well tell him you don't want to always, cause my ex used to cry when I didn't have sex with her every time I came over and mean I'm not against it
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Asker
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Oh I mean sometimes I just do it because I want to make him happy but just do not feel like it sometimes
Joshua0213
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Then tell him
Asker
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I have he says just do it for him
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Joshua0213
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Well then he's obviously not someone you want to be with
Asker
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I guess but he is great every other way and want to keep him happy but you might be right. He does not force me to do it
bananathunderGuru
+1 y
he's just a horny kid... most boys are like that until they hit their 30's
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Shy_SteveYoda
+1 y
It's pretty normal, It's just that gets turned on when he sees you.
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But nothing wrong.
It’s sorta normal but maybe he’s pushing you too hard and give you some space
Did you have sex too soon after meeting him?
I don't know normal I guess after 2 times out
That’s too soon.
Oh I don't know like we both wanted to
Yes, that’s normal.
Most guys want frequent sex.
why do you think he puts up with your shit and pays all the time?
So are you saying that he's indirectly paying for sex? What does that make the girl? There's something wrong with that whole concept!
@Keyboardkat its the way of the world
Uh, no. I know of a story where the guy would take a girl on one date, and then on the way home tell her, "If you don't 'put out,' I'm leaving you here on the road!" The girl refused, and was put out of the car. She walked until she saw a house with a light on, and asked to use their phone to call her dad. He picked her up and took her home, and the next morning, he told her, "Come with me." He drove her to her dates house and knocked on the door. When the guy opened it, the father slammed the kid with a right upper cut to the head, knocking him to the floor! I say Bravo to that father. I have news for you. This is NOT a business transaction, my friend. A woman is not a THING that you can buy and sell! She is a human being with feelings, emotions, and, believe it or not, rights. l You don't own anybody. A girl absolutely owns her body, the same way you own yours. The price of a movie ticket or a restaurant dinner entitles you to her company, and NOTHING ELSE! She doesn't OWE you anything. Presumably you ask a girl out and willingly entertain her because you like her and would like to get to know her better, and maybe get into a romantic relationship with her if things mutually work out. But that's NOT on the basis of one date. And incidentally, this may be a foreign concept nowadays, but sex is supposed to MEAN something! Even a kiss is supposed to MEAN something. It's not something you dispense like pretzels.
@Keyboardkat dont be pile of sticks, LMFAO
Well, THAT's rather dismissive! I really meant what I said. Do with it what you will.
He is not experienced enough to know that sometimes just being close is enough
Oh, I do say, if you like him a lot, teach him. I think women need to teach us dummies a lot.
Well tell him you don't want to always, cause my ex used to cry when I didn't have sex with her every time I came over and mean I'm not against it
Oh I mean sometimes I just do it because I want to make him happy but just do not feel like it sometimes
Then tell him
I have he says just do it for him
Well then he's obviously not someone you want to be with
I guess but he is great every other way and want to keep him happy but you might be right. He does not force me to do it
he's just a horny kid... most boys are like that until they hit their 30's
It's pretty normal, It's just that gets turned on when he sees you.