How come some men prefer not to be “step daddy”?

Why so many men don’t want the step daddy role?
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  • Cause people for the most part have a hard time dealing with adversity they think being a parent to their own child won't be as hard but being a parent period is hard weather it's you own or otherwise. I wouldn't mind if there are some rules put in place that can't be broken

  • No guy wants to spend his time and money raising some other guy's spawn.

  • I wouldn't mind in the right situation and right partner.

  • Why should we

  • i am a step dad, i seldom say stepdaughter, it is mostly daughter

  • Because most men feel like the responsibility falls on the biological father and that's true it does

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  • I would and am,
    but theirs ground rules.


    The kids and me have to be equaly important.
    i get it kids come first, But the minute you blow me off like i dont even matter, Or never did , Im walking away,


    Rule #2
    They aren't your kids, They are also my kids,
    you can't expect me to be a dad/ father figure
    but then get mad at me when i parrent how i see fit,
    If you wanna be with me, They become my kids too. No iffs ands ot buts.



    If we are gunna be a family. Im not gunna be a 3rd wheel,


    your gunna let me be a dad and husband
    100% of the time. Not just when its convenient for you

  • I don't want to be a dad. The only reason I will become a dad, is namesake

  • Why do women have kids with men they don't want to father their children, or with men who refuse to?

  • Would you want to raise some other woman's kids?

  • Because most of the time another man is involved in the kid's life so you have to meet another guy and interact with him too. Lots of guys don't need a woman with a lot of "baggage". And if the woman like to go from guy to guy, the kid gets hurt after bonding to someone. And where did the real father go?

  • It is biological. Raising another man's children is not instinctive.

  • Do women want to be step mommy? (maybe you do? lol). Well personally, I don't want to be a father figure AT ALL, but especially to one that isn't my own. It's like, if I'm going to be a father, then it mid as well be to one that's mine. They already have a dad. It's "baggage" and often makes things complicated. Not to mention, takes up a lot of HER time and energy, which I'd like for myself and our relationship.