How comfortable are you talking to women with large visible cleavage?

Ok we all know you guys love breasts but what about when they're stuck in your face in non sexual scenarios? It's one thing to have a pair bouncing up and down as a girl rides you or to look down at her cleavage crack as she's performing oral, but what about the woman at work whose tits peer out of her low cut neck line?
When your face to face only feet away from large breasts taking to a woman just how comfortable are you? I'd imagine you'd have an overwhelming urge to look down yet worry one nanosecond glimpse will offend her and have you sent for "sexual awareness" training by HR. You try and maintain eye contact with her but know those natural breaks where you look down, once innocuous, are now seen as looking like a perve.

So in everyday situations when we shove our tits in your face how do you feel?
How comfortable are you talking to women with large visible cleavage?
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  • Very comfortable. If she is dressing too impress than I will compliment her on her choice of wardrobe and the way it accentuates her blossoms. I wasn't as forthcoming with my flattering observations when I was younger but found that a woman who wears revealing clothes exposing their inner slopes, she is either troubled in the knogin in her attempts too look for conflict by showing off her breast, engaging someone they perceive as an easy mark, and let them have it for looking. Several women tried this with me and upon being threatened with sexual harassment, I'd tell them go for it and don't forget too mention how I'm staring at your rear in that tissue paper thick covering that passes for pants in your wardrobe. They try biting my head off with that nonsense, I go from mild mannered poodle too killer attack dog on them psychotic hussy wannabes telling them that they can dress anyway they want if they don't mind me looking at everything I want. You put your mammary glands out their within the public domain, don't make the mistake of telling me not too look. This happened with a coworker, bank teller, and some other disturbed souls. The repeat offenders (I wasn't complaining) like some bartenders and cooks I worked with, made it a point too bend over often while working and talking too me too make sure I couldn't avoid seeing their nipples if my life depended on it, always rewarding my widening eyes with a smile. The fruitcakes talking harassment, received an unpleasant lecture from their supperviser about sexual harrassment with them as the perp. wearing such attire and making inappropriate comments about their breast too unsuspecting men. Too answer your question, Im comfortable talking too a woman in any state of dress or undress, and didn't bat an eye when delivering food service too naked call girls during a three day Jester's convention at the Harley Hotel over 20 years ago. A grown adult is responsible fornthe way they dress and if they are showing cleavage and going out of their way too engage me in conversation, I'm going too see what I'm going too see, and if I feel a compliment is warranted too brighten their day, you know what I'll say.

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  • I'm not uncomfortable.
    First, it she is displaying cleavage, she is comfortable with herself and probably enjoys brightening guy's day as long as they don't act like rude lechers. All women have boobs that stick right out for all to see. It's no big deal if some bare cleavage is visible. Then again, the sight of a smooth upper chest and round bulges are extra nice to behold. Wholesome, in my opinion.
    Second, if she posed like the one in the photo, she definitely wants you to notice her tits. If you have a sense of humor and smile with appreciation without being embarrassed, she will probably think it's fun. Who cares if more explicit thoughts and images flash through a guy's mind? Most women understand men's mentality and enjoy the ability to "distract" them.

    I will never forget a short, petite, young Mexican girl, as cute as a bug, whose job it was to bring orders to the shipping desk where I worked in an electronics warehouse. She always wore nice dresses, heels and a push up bra. She had cute B cup bobbies. She always displayed cleavage but not in a slutty way at all. She was bright, happy, wholesome, genuine and friendly.
    When she came around, it was like sunshine on a cloudy day. She understood that her presence made people happy. It was almost like she was doing the guys a favor. They cheered up when she came around, treated her like a friend and with the utmost respect. She was a representation of the best in healthy femininity.

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  • When a woman shows cleave I assume she has a shortage of men who pursue her when she is not showing off her body and trying to compensate for it the easy or desperate way - I don’t use my body - when I want guys to chase me I use my sense of humour

    • Knock knock

  • I find that a lot of guys either stare at my boobs or look away entirely like they're ashamed whenever I wear something that shows off my cleavage. Which is not often.

    • People need too get over that women have boobs and that is one of physical traits that men are attracted to. If a woman shows cleavage or not doesn't bother me. But as a guy I can't help but at least take a glance. As long as men don't act like a 12 year old when they see cleavage then it's not a problem.

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  • There have been a few of those uncomfortable times over the years in corporate America, but having escaped that life 20 years ago in favor of my own business, it's almost never an issue anymore.

    The women I hang around these days don't have that attitude - they tend to adopt the "if men looking at my tits bothered me, I would cover them up. Let 'em look!" attitude. And the hypersensitive SJW types are usually easy to spot before they become a problem. Usually...

  • I see cleavage as a gentleman’s test. The aim is to remain normal, well composed, keep looking in her eyes and only get an eyeful if she turns her head away. And then try to get that drooly look off your face before she turns her head back.

    Unwritten rule, don’t mention the boobs.

  • I'm never uncomfortable about it, I love it. Takes a little more focus to not sneak glances while talking but worth it

  • Very comfortable. Cleavage doesn't phase me. A brief glance won't get anyone fired, but staring might. Luckily I have a pretty good rapport built up with the female co-workers I work with- we're all pretty comfortable with each other and pretty laid back.

  • No, you imagined pretty accurately. You want to look, but know it'll almost certainly be trouble. Many times you just can't help but look, because they're wearing something so deep cut that it's impossible. And of course they know you looked, but you're not staring, so we both understand and just don't acknowledge it and move on with our day. It's pretty awkward, but as of yet, I've never had anyone make a fuss. At worst it's been a slight eye roll or bashful shift in stance.

  • “Ok we all know you guys love breasts” us guys? What about you?

  • Well you have a few questions here I know what you mean when you say trying to keep eye contact I like all size cleavage and it's hard to keep eye contact sometimes as my eyes I have to make them 2 times the size that way I know where they will be looking at all time what's hard tho is looking so big and deep in to there eyes and as my eyes start to go down down DOWN I have to go straight DOWN TO MY PANTS and say DONT YOU DARE DONT YOU DARE GO THERE THEN Back to there eyes with a little smile as I didn't hear a word they just said and the other question something about shoving in my face I would just have to say no need to shove I me and there's all kinda of ways to do it lol

  • If it is a work place I'd avoid her, not for my inability to not look. You don't have to look to be accused of looking.

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  • It is tough not to stare. I try to force myself to look at her eyes.

  • What can I say? I HATE big breasts, and prefer tiny ones, but the question is ultimately the same.
    She can be free to wear whatever she wants, and be literally, almost falling out of her top, and yet if a man looks, EVEN GLANCES, he has somehow done something wrong!
    FUCK THAT AND FUCK THEM and THAT DOUBLE STANDARD!!
    It's BULLSHIT!! If she is "Showing off" then guys, and even some women, will look!! Why is it the guys that get judged? Women LUSTING for other women, being gay, never seem to be an issue, and it is the SAME FCKING THING!!!
    IF you don't want people looking, keep your fcking TITS in your SHIRT, and not presented, as if on display!!

  • The secret is to take it in almost immediately even if I have to look down for a whole second, perhaps check my phone for the time as an excuse.

    Then the sight is engraved in my mind and I don't need to actually see them for a while so i can maintain eye contact and talk as if no lumps of meat are almost blasting through her innocent shirt.

  • I'm pretty comfortable, well they dont make me any less comfortable.

    My though is she knows they are out and viable so I dont think she is gonna hate me even I do out of reflex look down for a second, I'll just catch myself and get back to eye contact.

    It's like a stare and talk to them

  • I would pleasantly be distracted by her cleavage but hopefully wouldn't make it too obvious. She is clearly with someone she knows well, otherwise it would be a bit inappropriate.

  • The number of attractive women I interact with on a given day is extremely sparse. Shit maybe I need to change my lifestyle completely.

    This used to be a thing when I was in school or working minimum wage jobs, but not anymore. I might have a hot nurse, but she's fully covered. I'm not a big fan of cleavage anyways.

  • Well, when I see "large visible cleavage" my first instict is to help her find someplace private so she can give me a blow job. So, of course, I assume every guy has that instinct as well and thus enough men with fewer inhibitions must have acted on it that she is well aware that it's what I want. Thus, if she wants to suck my dick she'll let me know - and so by not offering she isn't interested. Unless, of coirse, there is some sort of test involved, in which case i behave true to form such that I do not give a false impression of myself that passes the test on style but is unable to meet the demands of others who pass it on merit. There is a sort of confidence one must have in who they are in order to behave like themselves. I did not always have this confidence, and indeed used to be deeply uncomfortable talking to such girls - trying to find out some subtle way to convey to her that if at any point she needs a cock in her mouth, please remember that mine is the closest. But now it doesn't really bother me. I assume girls dressed like that want attention, but not necissarily mine. So I give my peripheral vision a mad work out but otherwise ignore it.

  • It'd definitely be awkward, but I'd just focus on looking up, because as much as I'd love to look there, getting caught is too risky and will be even more awkward.

    If I really wanted to look, I'd make the occasional break in eye contact and scratch my eye, acting like I've got something in there or just whether I do or not, because in general, I don't like to stare at people too long or have them just stare at me either.

  • i tend to play out being really sad so i can naturally look down. Sometimes i'll get a hug 😊

  • Not a problem for me.

  • Yes. Maybe even ask her out for a drink or two after work, for a clearer inspection of the goods.

    What you're talking about is confidence and prudish behaviour. You should not be eyeing up girls/guys at work - it's not what you or they are there for.

    But you can do so at the beach, within etiquette, as it's part of the reason you both are there.

    The key word is "consent"

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