How’d you react if a person tells you they’re a virgin without even asking?

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BungusHighFivePizza · Accepted Answer

I would generally try to fix this problem. I figure they wouldn't tell me if they didn't want me to fix it either personally for girls or if guys tell me, I figure they want me to hook them up with a girl and I'm getting a bit rusty but I wasn't so bad at that. Might not be the hottest girl in the room but you know, I'm still aiming for the best that they can get that night.

Heterosketero · Accepted Answer

I was a late bloomer, so there is no shame in it. I have met plenty of virgins, mostly relgious amd mostly women, surprisingly.

ushagomez · Answer

I think I would ask them why they chose to share that information with me.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

If she's a nobody, I'd be like: "Why do I need to know that?" If I'm into her, I'd say: "Even better yet!" Though I might prefer you, Pinay, even with your history. ;-)

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

I would ask if they are telling me something?… haha!

SnowedIn · Answer

Probably say, "Okay... whatever..." and move on with the conversation.

melanieeeB · Answer

Probably: "Okay great. And now? Why are you telling me this?" (My inner psychologist coming out)  Or if I don't care and am not in the mood to ask "Great."

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I would be surprised and ask them why they chose to tell me? I would also let them know it doesn't make me think any differently about them.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

If you said it, I'd tell you it's your lucky day. If anyone else said it, I guess I'd congratulate them and send them off with a gift basket

Sevenpointfive · Answer

it kind of sounds like an invitation to devirginize you

AviatorTom · Answer

Why would they do that? Do they think I'm just going to hop in bed with them?

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

I'd need to consider their age, attire, how, when and where I met them, and also consider their own heir level of attractiveness to determine if it was something she constantly had to protect, or was it a lack of opportunity

Agape93 · Answer

Like, ok, I didn't ask.

Dargil · Answer

If it's a guy; "I'm not sure" If it's an attractive girl; "I thought I wasn't until you came around. Now I'm not sure". Conversation starters.

RavVid · Answer

Should I ask "Would you like my help with that"? In some ways it would be like that girl at a bar who told me she was a prostitute on a work break. Maybe over sharing.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'd probably just say something like, "Okay! Well, thanks for that thrilling bit of news!!"
Kinda reminds of the time I was at work when this kid I was working with comes over from the other end of the machine we're both working on and tells me how big around his dick is!! I wasn't the LEAST bit interested in finding out!!

exitseven · Answer

I would just be cool with it.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Probably just thank them for the heads up and go about my day. Props to them for having the confidence to say something like that though.

ChiTown33 · Answer

"Uhm... OK" without trying to sound weird though it'd probably feel weird. I mean I remember working with this woman that told about how she lost her virginity to her boyfriend. I mean one moment we were just talking and then she just kind of came out of left field with that one. I mean we all know those types of people that over share things. And she wasn't that type of person so it was kind of odd.

TaureanBull81 · Answer

I wouldn't be bothered by it because each person has their own reason for being a virgin. @Pinay_ako, I think you're experienced 😉

Oldschool1981 · Answer

I was still a V at 30, so I think I would empathize

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Context matters... Like if it's someone I'm dating, then it makes sense that they're telling me. But if it's a random person id ask them why they think I should care.

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