How do I give oral sex without looking like a whore?

I am 38 and newly divorced. I have done all I can to make myself trim and attractive and have often been told that I have done very well. My ex-husband is the only man I have ever had sex with and I have never performed oral sex.

I just crave to get into giving oral. I don't want to do it to a bunch of guys. I just want to get one guy that really enjoys it. I have watched about a thousand blowjob videos. I really want to do it but don't want to come across as a whore. How do I get a guy to ask me to suck his cock? Maybe I will ask him to do it to me then he will ask if I will do it in return.

All I want is a mouthful of cock. I want to just devour it until it bursts in my mouth. I once tasted a bit of my husband's cum when he didn't see me and I love the taste of it. I want a mouthful of it.

How do guys feel about having their balls licked? How long do you like it for?

Just how do I get it started without looking like a whore? I welcome tips from anyone and may be interested in guys as young as 18.
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  • By not charging money for it.

    • Uh-oh. There goes half the fun. little

  • just watch out with your teeth, Soemtime slooking like a whore is part of the process.

  • If you make out with a guy it will likely progress to a point where you can just go for it. Try not to overthink it. I don't believe there is a time limit on balls.

  • I love giving oral and receiving oral is very intense and satisfying. If you want to chat about it feel free to dm me.

    • Can you message me?

    • No your settings don't allow it

  • What is wrong with looking like a whole? I think actually you should try to look like as much as possible, that's the fun

  • By not charging money and sticking to one partner, whores are just sluts that charge.

    You are overthinking it, just find one you like, date him, and he will be all for it.

  • I take it your husband wasn't keen on oral? Did he ever go down on you?

    Have you considered practicing on a dildo? That might help with your technique and gag reflex.

    Whoever the lucky guys is - he's in for a real treat to have someone so excited to try.

    Have you researched throat fucking?

  • I would just ask him! Say hey want a bj? Else just make out with him naturally and kiss him and his body and move down lower and see if he’s taking the bait so to speak? There’s nothing whorish about it! I love going down on women and I do something similar to this. Typically when I’m kissing and moving downward, she’s moving my head down there so I know she’s wanting it!

  • If a guy eats you, is he a man whore? Don't worry about what others think of you, focus on what you want and how you think of you.

  • Honestly. I think you're overthinking it, and worrying about it too much. The key to a blow job is to enjoy it. Enjoy having the taste and feel of it in your mouth. Guys can tell when you do, and you tend to know what they like or how they're enjoying it by their groans, moans, or words. Their breathing changes, subtle body hints

  • Just find a new boyfriend or one of your guy friends. Once you start fooling around with him, just take his dick out and start sucking it. He will not complain.

  • Legit any guy would be down for this lol…. not difficult

  • Most guys won't just ask someone

  • If you had given your ex a few blowjobs maybe you would still be married.

  • You never sucked your ex's dick and now all of a sudden you crave to be a cock gobbler? Yeah, I'm calling bullshit.

  • You sound more like you need a shawarma before that lol..

  • Seems like you are what I need at the moment. Message me

    • Can you message me?

    • You need to follow me first. Then I can message you.

  • Nothing wrong with being a little bit of a whore in the bedroom if anything it's a turn on

  • Your problem is you think only whores give bj’s

  • Oral is normal and nothing whore-ish about it.

    About get asked? Be bold and ask him.

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