How do I politely so no to a boy that wants nudes from me?

I really like him and I never want to disappoint him but he just wants them all the time now. He’s gotten them from me before but I don’t enjoy taking them most of the time. He’s been asking more often lately and I never know how to say no without being rude. Sometimes I say I’m not home or that I’m with family, but it doesn’t always work.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • If you are uncomfortable then don't do it, let him know it makes you uncomfortable and you don't want to.

    Why isn't it also about him not disappointing you? Him pressuring you for them, isn't he disappointing you, by not respecting your decision, your choice, and your feelings? Why worry about pleasing a boy who is disappointing and failing you?

    You deserve someone who will respect you, who will be considerate of your feelings. He isn't respecting your feelings and your boundaries so why are you so worried about disappointing him? I understand you like him, but you do need to put it in perspective, you are sending him nudes that could be used against you in the future (NEVER send nudes), and he is not being considerate of your feelings/boundaries.

  • Politely? If a guy is pressuring you for nudes there's no need to be polite. Show him the door! Seriously though in situations like this you need to be strong and firm. Tell him your answer is no and will always be no (until you're ready). Then tell him if he doesn't respect your answer and proceeds to ask again he's gotta go.

  • He doesn't respect you. You might like him, but he is just using you if he doesn't accept your answer or respect you enough to stop asking. You'll have to be firm when telling him no. Also, be careful who you send pictures to, you never know who you can really trust.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It’s not rude to say no to him. If you don’t and or keep coming up with different excuses it doesn’t stop him from asking. It’s better to just be upfront and honest as possible with him and let him know how you feel about sending nudes. It’s okay to say no and you should never feel bad for saying it. Even when it may be hard because it does seem like you really care about him and don’t want to disappoint him.

  • #1 respect yourself more
    #2 recognize that this is childish behavior. Don't give a baby a cookie just because he asks for it.
    #3 tell him he has enough already
    #4 be honest and tell him you don't want to send anymore nudes. It's your body.
    #5 a women doesn't have to please her man 100% of the time
    #6 your boyfriend is not a man. He needs ti grow up

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  • "No thanks" or "I don't feel like doing that right now." Literally don't feel bad about saying no. If he likes you, he won't hold it against you if you say no. A good guy doesn't want you to do stuff unless you want to.

  • You tell him to fuck off. Don’t let anyone guilt you into doing something you’re uncomfortable with. Don’t be polite. Tell him!

  • Just be honest with him. Say that you have given him some and that they will have to do him because you don't enjoy it. If he cares at all about you, he'll respect that and stop asking.

  • It's not rude to say no if it makes you uncomfortable. Be honest with him. If he takes it the wrong way, he isn't worth it.

  • It is not rude to say no, I'm sorry, I don't feel it's appropriate.
    You may like him but that doesn't mean you have to sell your body to get his attention.
    This message is complicated by you having set expectation by providing nudes before.

  • you just say "i'm not sending nudes in general so don't be offended that you're not getting any". he gotta respect that. i mean also you can tell him that you're reaking underage...

  • Stop making excuses. You say "No, don't ask me again, got it?"

  • Just tell him no. Best course of action. Tell him you are not comfortable with it.

  • Just say no. Plus why would he need nudes if he is your boyfriend

  • Tell him
    Bitch I ain't got no more nudes for you boy so if you wanna see naked women go Google search them

    And why tf would he be requesting for it every time

  • Don't be polite about it. Say no and that'll be the end of it.

  • Block him if online or say ok but send him fake nudes from the internet

  • "I'm sure you'll find someone hotter than me, naughty boy ;)"

  • That boy is using you to get nudes... don't send nudes to anyone.

  • If he likes you and respects you he will understand if you say no. If he doesn't then he's an asshole

    • 16 and woke. Here's your MHO.

    • I have absolutely no idea what that means

    • "Woke" or "MHO"? Woke means you understand the world and your situation. MHO means most honorable opinion.

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  • whats wrong with sending nude

    • Once in a while is fine, but we don't ALWAYS feel like taking a picture.

    • u have sexy body and horney face its good that he wants see u nude

  • Im being honest here, I think he is just playing with you. Tell him what you feel about it and try restricting him. He ll get angry easily but this will help you let him go more easily. Loce someone who loves your soul not your body. I hope i was helpful to some extent.

  • ''I really like him and I never want to disappoint him''

    You need to get to a point where you really like someone, but are able to disappoint them. Being real means disappointing people sometimes. Just tell the guy that you ''don't believe in sending them, or feel comfortable doing so. So no, but thanks for asking.''

  • He is really using you. Just say no

  • Literally say "im actually not that comfortable with taking nudes, sorry, i only did it before for you". If a guy is gonna pressure you or get annoyed after you tell him you dont feel okay with it, you're with the wrong guy.

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