How Do You Feel About DDLG Relationships?

DDlg stands for Daddy Dom/little girl. DDlg or DD/lg is a dynamic in which one half of the relationship is the caregiver/dominant and the other is the childlike/submissive. It is considered a sub-branch of BDSM, agreed upon by consenting adults. The dominant role is called the Caregiver, while the submissive is called the Little. Opposite gender roles can also occupy the caregiver or Little persona. (BDSM origin.)
How Do You Feel About DDLG Relationships?

How Do You Feel About DDLG Relationships?

How Do You Feel About DDLG Relationships?


here are many misconceptions involving this branch of BDSM. It is not a relationship between an actual father and daughter/mother and son or any act involving a minor, incest, or pedophilia. A caregiver is a parental figure or an influence on the Little. While the caregiver may be the dominant one, relationships of this dynamic require more love, support, care, and guidance.

Everyone’s dynamic will be different in some way. Some relationships are sexual, while others might not be; some dynamics involve ageplay, while others do not. While it may or may not involve sex, it can involve play with things such as stuffed animals, bed-time stories, coloring, and other childlike activities (ageplay) along with BDSM aspects such as limits, punishments, spankings, etc. There are many different preferences in a DDlg dynamic, which is why communication between the parties involved becomes so important.
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  • I know a few people in this kind of relationship. I couldn't deal with it. Most of the littles I have met are little because they can't handle being adults so are emotionally fragile and prone to breakdowns.

    • I've seen that around a lot as well. I'm thinking it's really blown up because a lot of young women don't know the difference between the actual lifestyle and just being immature young girls. A lot do have emotional problems and are prone to breakdowns from my experience as well. Perhaps it's just a lot of fakers out there. I've seen some genuine and mature adult women who are into it. Very rare though.

    • I've been very active in my local BDSM scenes for a few years and you do meet "real" Littles who are strong women exploring another side of themselves. Generally though the younger they are the more likely it is they are just immature or just want a dom who also will pay for everything haha.

    • I have met a few yes, lol. My own relationship borders it actually. I say border because I'm not super deep into the dressing up and the etc. Those who are I'm fine with but I still have this womanly feel to me even though my relationship dynamic is like a DDLG relationship. And for me and my boyfriend it goes quite well actually. I actually think I pay for pretty much everything regarding myself. I mean he'll offer or buy something anyway, but I've never asked for anything nor do I really want to. We work so well it feels like a normal relationship, but it sticks out a bit in public in small areas. Nothing too dramatic though, most I'd wear is something pink but it's still very womanly lol.

  • Yeeeea