Girls, How do you feel about male virgins?

I'm a 24 year old male virgin who recently finished college. Needless to say I haven't had much experience as far as being intmate with a girl. The closest I've ever come to be physically intimiate with a girl is maybe a hug and that's it. No making out, no heavy petting, etc. I would like to go out and meet a girl now, but I first want to focus on getting a job and getting my own apartment so then that way I can show her that I'm a good catch and someone worth being with. I'm just wondering that if I one day do meet a girl and we've been going out for a while and I tell her that I'm still a virgin, how will she react? Will she still want to be with me or could my lack of experience be a major turn-off? Ladies, I want your opinion on this matter. Please be open and honest. Thanks.
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  • I don't mind it at all.

  • Excited that I will rock his world

  • İ dont want invirgin boy

  • I would still date one

  • I don't think it's a deal-breaker. It'd turn me off initially but off course it depends on the person. Anyway, I think many would find it endearing or even attractive. Everyone feels differently and as some one else said, if it turns some one off then she's not right for you.
    But I would say that if you are waiting to be able to impress some one before trying to be with them, I think you should question your motives.
    Were you putting off being with a girl while focusing on school and are you putting it off now with finding a job, etc? Maybe these are just excuses? If that's the case I'd say don't wait to experiment!

  • Your susceptibility to social conditioning and constructionism amaze me every day.
    Humanzzz...

  • I wouldn't mind, I may actually prefer it since I'm inexperienced too. I think if you're in a relationship with someone, they won't care either. It's about you as a person and your relationship together. Also, how fun would it be to learn sex together?

  • I'm a 21 year old virgin and hugged a guy once, so I get what you mean. It's not a turn-off at all and, if anything, it's respectable that you're so focused on your career. Sure, some girls are going to be bothered by that, but those girls aren't worth dating.