How do you feel about people using sex as a weapon to get what they want?
ultimegaGuru
Whether its withholding as punishment, using it as reward or blackmailing which can verge on dangerous grounds. Both men and women do it. Of course these are all different circumstances but either way 'sex ' is the main component.
What are your thoughts?
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torgor67Xper 6
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Well I don't feel any particular way but is obviously not good unlike even if those types of women can be viewed as sexy and if its for punishment then its not so bad I guess. But the main reason I wanted to write this opinion is I wanted to say that sometimes the deadliest words aren't spears and swords but rather the things we least expect such as sex or money or even friendship can be used as a weapon. Honestly literally nearly every emotion and mental trick can be used as a weapon if your skilled enough which is why it can be scarier than physical weapons which you normally see coming unless its a surprise attack.
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ultimega
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Well of course... Either way its taking something that makes you happy or makes you feel good and using it for manipulation plus personal gain.
AustinManInfluencer
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When I was dating and we got to the point that sex was on the table, we had what I call The Talk. One critical element of that was striking an agreement that we would never weaponize two things: communication (not talking to the other) and sex. It worked great. Even if she doesn't want to talk to you, she's agreed and, being a Dom into S&M, I'd "beat" it out of her over my knee.
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DizzyDesiiEditor
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Some people truly dont deserve sex if they fcked up... so i think its okay for both guys/girls to withhold it under certain circumstances... mainly when unmarried. Once married, i dont care how mad i am at you, unless you cheated or sumn, we still bangin at the end of the week
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elizamichale1Guru
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Well if that worksout fine for them then why not You would use all your skills to get something done so why not sex
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elizamichale1
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Thanks for MHO honey
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AmanoYinXper 6
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It's fucked up cuz its hot... but also can be actually fucked up...
So it's a really weird grey area
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LliamMaster
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Such behavior would be extremely toxic in a relationship.
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QooLipBiteYoda
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Well as long as consent is given by both sides, it’s really up to the person being manipulated whether they’ll allow themselves to succumb or not. It’s their choice.
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nonratracerealityExplorer
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Simple I am a real person so everything is in the open nothing to hide no game playing. If you have to resort to that then you're out of your league if it's not natural its not
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ohsheeMaster
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If it's one of those things that come up in a flasvas a joke and tease I like it because its a form of 4 play. But if it's a power play to get some thing I would look her deep in the eyes and say ok. Um hold on a min I have some thing for u in my car walk out get in to I it and drive away
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TJFreshman22Xper 5
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Honestly for punishment or reward I find the idea fantastic. If you crush your deadlift goal or bench goal, coming home with your girlfriend super proud of you and having her fuck the hell out of you would be the icing on the cake to a perfect day. And if you've not gotten off your ass into the gym, or been eating like a slob all week, having her withhold it from you until you step your game up and win her back over would be excellent motivation to get off you butt, out of a rut, and kick some ass.
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abc3643Master
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It's not very effective otherwise the US Military would be using it.
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JjpayneEditor
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It's sad to use it that way. I'd feel like relationships and marriages can have that happen too but it's more, if you go do this favor for me, I'll do a little something for you...
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Agape93Master
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Support it in some cases.
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DJB72Guru
+1 y
Men can't possibly use sex to get what they want...
Sex IS what they want!
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KingdomForAKissExplorer
+1 y
It's manipulative to use sex as a weapon. I can see that it could be considered a "reward" in a way but it shouldn't be treated as such.
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GoodGuyBreakingBadMaster
+1 y
That's why I always say do a background check on people you meet whether it's a date or going into a relationship, find out who you're with isn't a dangerous person.
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ultimega
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Sometimes a background won't show everything. These things are calculated and tantalising so the person is unaware.
GoodGuyBreakingBad
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Yes, I agree with you <3 <3
Hollywoodundead677Xper 4
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It’s incredibly mean to do
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jamesgoldmanMaster
+1 y
It's a poverty mindset that leads to infidelity or at the very least a sexless relationship
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SClassWizzardXper 7
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Its abusive, and only desperate weak dudes fall for that trick lol. It doesn't work on me
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arun934Explorer
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Omg !! Yeah that's true.
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ThatsamazingGuru
+1 y
Well... it's shitty. What else is there to feel about it?
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ThatGuy133Yoda
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That’s only temporary, everyone is replaceable.
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TunasubYoda
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It's only been going on since the beginning. If it's like a playful thing with a CPL cool but if it's manipulative that's not cool
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IantoXper 7
+1 y
To quote Frazier, "Men can't use sex to get what they want. Sex is what they want."
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bannacookiesGuru
+1 y
Not good.
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motownplayer2000Guru
+1 y
Just have to be smarter.
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ItalianGuy322Xper 3
+1 y
If the girl gives me sex she can go right ahead and use it lol
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SuccessfulHornDogMaster
+1 y
Its the worst thing someone can do to their relationship, so I dont recommend it
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bamesjond0069Guru
+1 y
If someone does that to you, you should leave them right away.
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bklynbadboy1Guru
+1 y
I honestly dont know I have mixed feelings about it
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ultimega
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Speak your mind
OpenNudistXper 6
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This is just my humble opinion since the "Dawn Of Time" some Girls have truly used sex to get exactly what they want with that being said I feel that "No Girl", Should Ever Be Put Into That Situation Period!!!
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JerreMaster
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I think that may be more common with women than men, but certainly not widespread.
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ultimega
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It can but in a different way
BronzedAdonisMaster
+1 y
its called being a woman
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JamesBlackDragonXper 7
+1 y
Im not ok with it but if the other person is weak enough for it to work do you
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Numbnuts89Xper 7
+1 y
like money?
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michael1469Yoda
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Hey lady, i am just here for thr nut...
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jaybigjXper 5
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Not good.
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Anonymous
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That’s a basic female thing, most of you do.
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Anonymous
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What you're talking about is women. Guys really can't do that. Obviously i wouldn't like it, it's hurtful, it's a lie, it's feigning feelings you really don't have. The last crush i had use to do that. She didn't use sex but she knew the feelings i had towards her and she exploited that fact even though she knew she had no interest in me. But there is a silver lining. Most guys after running into these types of women learn to become numb to their feelings, their games. And this is when a guy truly becomes a man. He is no longer affected by her feelings.
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Anonymous
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Every woman I've ever been with has done that. It's a great way to destroy a relationship.
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