How do you feel about prostitution?

[lilyanony1]

A young woman decides this is the profession for her, she makes sure she's clean and discreet.
She provides cleaned toys, condoms, lubricants and is checked for stds regularly.
To keep things safe she keeps a steady client list, doesn't take drugs, and doesn't drink. It's a mutual transaction between two consenting adults.
Although it's not a legally accepted profession its dealt with with the utmost professional practice.

[Lliam]

I have no problem.

I think prostitution should be legalized. After all, it's just a service.

I think legalizing it would solve a lot of problems.

Making it legal while maintaining criminalization on pimping and trafficking would make it easier to eliminate abusers, traffickers and organized crime.

Prostitutes would be safer if they could report abuse to police without fear of being arrested.

Prostitutes could organize to form support systems, businesses and even unions in order to gain more security and access to medical care.

Those who chose to could get licensed and certified to prove their health and cleanliness, similar to restaurant ratings.

They could run their businesses above board just like hair and nail salons, psychics, lawyers, bail bondsmen, bars and nightclubs, and anything else. And they could pay taxes.

Prostitutes and people who employ them wouldn't have their lives ruined by fines, imprisonment and criminal records. It's similar to those who have their lives destroyed by the legal system for smoking or selling weed. The punishment is far more detrimental than the crime, especially when I think about the kind of incredibly immoral activity that is legal.

I believe in "my body, my choice". Not all prostitutes are crack whores. It could be a financial option for women (and men), especially in these times when decent jobs are scarce. Some people can actually make good money at it. They can choose their own hours, control their clientele, and even enjoy their work while earning money to go to college.

I don't care if sexually liberated women (or men) get paid to do porn shoots. I don't care if some people make and sell home made videos or have social media businesses. So it doesn't bother me at all if some people choose to engage in the business of prostitution. It's their choice. Who does it harm?

Friends with benefits is just sex. Does adding money to the equation really make a difference? And what about guys who claim that women are gold diggers? Isn't gold digging the same as prostitution? Was Zsa Zsa Gabor a prostitute for engaging in serial marriage in order to collect diamond rings and jewelry? Who cares?

There is a time limit on the age during which a prostitute can make good money, similar to professional athletes. At some point, they have to retire. Hopefully they made lots of money when they were in their prime. I know that there is a certain class of "professional escort" that can make $thousands a day in certain cities. As far as I'm concerned, that takes a certain skill set, similar to being a successful actor, model and professional athlete all rolled into one.

In the end, different people have different values. But they don't have a right to impose them on others. Some people save themselves for marriage. Some feel that raising a family is the ultimate purpose in life. Some think that sex is for people who are in love. But others simply love sex. They crave it. And there are even those women who don't mind getting their pussy used. They can text or smoke a cigarette while a guy has at it.

If I am unconcerned with the various sexual acts that partners engage in, from vanilla to rough and degrading to BDSM, prostitution is equally unconcerning. I actually think it provides an essential service.

I would actually admire a girl who handled her business in the way you described. Not that I would have a girlfriend who was a prostitute.

[Not_Average]

At surface level and having worked in law enforcement, I rather have seen it legalized at the time. Unfortunately most of these girls have some pretty broken lives and are exploited. I don’t condone prostitution in general, but I did feel a soft spot for some of the people I’ve met.

[WhoRtheseGuys]

As long as she is her own boss and not controlled by a pimp and is of legal age. I say it should be legal. We have worse issues to be focused on. Maybe rules should be put in place as to how and where they can solicit. Otherwise I don’t see a problem with it.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I have no problem with it as long as it is voluntary. My only concern is her safety because a lot of those guys who use those services can be dangerous.

[lilyanony1]

But are they really or is that what we're led to believe to not use the service or go into the business. I'm not advocating and saying it is actually safe. But I do see sometimes like with documentaries the journalist can portray stories however they want especially if they look for the right people the fulfil the criteria they've set. An example being programmes about people living on council estates and collecting government money in the uk. They mostly approach people that have never worked a day in their lives. Or are in dire situations after falling on bad times.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I'd recommend really looking deeper into it, but I'll give you one to start off.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18319375/

[lilyanony1]

Thank you for the link. I will have to look it up when I'm able sign up to access the material 😊👍🏾

[tomtom05131]

There are bad people everywhere if you look hard enough

[Silvermantis]

I’m sorry but I have a hard time believing that a women would WANT to do that unless they have some trauma. Would like to hear from a prostitute to prove me otherwise.

[Iknowbestgirls]

Talk to @elizamichale1 she is in the line of work and she is an amazingly down to earth woman that loves doing what she does! She is an amazing sweet woman that happens to be a stripper and prostitute that is proud of herself and what she does. She oozes sexuality and love!

[elizamichale1]

@Iknowbestgirls Thanks for sweet n kind words darling and i think once again you need my titty hugs and double this time hehe ( . ) ( . ) ( . ) ( . ) And @silvermantis darling you can definitely ask me whatever is it you find hard to believe

[CuriousJC]

It's a terrible thing to do and it's a terrible idea. Pussy is something you have to earn but gaining a woman's love and trust and when she feels comfortable & ready to give it to you in the relationship. Pussy can't be paid for with bribery or money. That's basically a sign glue to a woman's head saying that she wants a person to rape her especially when the person doesn't have the money and just blows the woman off. There should be a law stating that no prostitution both male and female are allowed in anywhere the country. If you can't find a relationship with a partner then you have to find other ways to make money that doesn't involve selling your body.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont respect prostitutes nor strippers nor gigolos but i doubt they’re worried about respect as long as theyre making their money. So ima let them do them but thats good that the lady at least tried to be safe with her “practice”

[OlderAndWiser]

Being a whore is NOT a profession.

A profession involves higher education, an examination which qualifies the applicant for a license, a requirement for continuing education after school, a code of ethics, and a disciplinary board which reviews complaints and addresses misconduct.

Calling a whore a "professional" is a blatant insult to every doctor, lawyer, architect, dentist, nurse, engineer, and other real professional.

[lilyanony1]

She could have gone and studied business would that change her professional status, she could have also done accounting. Some people are highly qualified and decide living one life doesn't match their way of thinking etc. I don't know anyone like this but if there is I'd tell her go for whatever makes her happy and be safe. Because as we know it's definitely lucrative.

[OlderAndWiser]

The fact that you COULD HAVE gone to law school doesn't make you a professional. You don't even know that this person could have successfully completed an MBA program or an accounting degree. Aptitude is only one of many ingredients that makes a professional. If she would rather be a whore, that is her choice and I don't chase after people to try to convince them to change, but I am also not going to give her the same respect that I would give someone who is an actual professional. The real professionals earned respect by what they actually accomplished and not by what they COULD HAVE done.

[lilyanony1]

As I don't know this person as its hypothetical doesn't change the fact that there are known strippers who are completing nursing degrees etc. It's their way of paying their fees. Just because you don't like it and you don't respect it doesn't mean it doesn't or couldn't happen.

[OlderAndWiser]

All I am saying is that this is a misuse of the word "professional" because professions have many prerequisites and ongoing requirements for practice that are far more than what a traditional occupation requires.

[lilyanony1]

I disagree. 1. a person engaged or qualified in a profession. "professionals such as lawyers and surveyors" Similar: white-collar worker professional worker office worker 2. a person engaged in a specified activity, especially a sport, as a main paid occupation rather than as a pastime. "his first season as a professional" Similar: professional player non-amateur paid player pro 3. a person competent or skilled in a particular activity. "she was a real professional on stage"

[OlderAndWiser]

pro·fes·sion noun a paid occupation, especially one that involves prolonged training and a formal qualification. So you think your whore is a professional? A professional whore? That's laughable and, if you had a professional license, you would understand what I am saying.

[lilyanony1]

Are you a professional? Effectively she would be classified as an entrepreneur. A business woman. That's requires professionalism, business skills, customer service skills, networking, advertising skills, accounting, unless they have an accountant/bookkeeper. Time management skills. Branding skills. The list keeps on going. Most businesses require a team of people to do these things, since it's an illegal profession she would either require trusted colleagues or have to learn on the job.

[OlderAndWiser]

So most whores exhibit professionalism, business skills, customer service skills, networking, advertising skills, accounting (unless they have an accountant/bookkeeper,) time management skills, and branding skills? I never realized that whores were so talented! I thought they just sold sex and put the money in their pocket. I guess I've overlooked all of their marketing efforts and I guess the next time we need a bookkeeper in my office, we'll just hire a whore since they're all so smart. Do you want to keep this going and get even further out on the limb?

[lilyanony1]

I'm not entirely sure what the purpose of your response was for. If you read my post you'd have already seen I set the tone with the extended information. No ones forcing you to sign a petition to legalise prostitution. It was a question. And if it wasn't a profession why do we have so many newspaper stories about footballers and high profile mem for example having used these type of services. And they're not the scuzzy drugged up versions people of think they are!

[OlderAndWiser]

You're right, of course.

[lilyanony1]

Thank you for participating, 👍🏾

[HOAAH]

I am not a big fan of it. I would prefer to do a job where I don't have to use my body in that way to make "money" or a living.

[MCheetah]

I think people are free to do whatever they want, but it's still a seedy, unrespectable profession. It's in the same category as selling weed or other street drugs, being a bootlegger, or petty robbery/shoplifting. I honestly think it should be legal by now; that would probably solve so many problems, like the pimps, the abuse the street walkers take, the other dangers involved, and the explosion of "simp-based, pseudo sex work" like OnlyFans or Twitch thots.

[lilyanony1]

It will always happen... It won't be legalised because I think it would be the most lucrative business out there if it did.

[TangBang69]

The larger part of reason for it being illegal is the free enterprise that big bro is getting no cut of. Indeed two consenting adults it should be her choice, her biz. I contemplate now n then about trying to land a job as an escort's escort and protection, get paid to beat people up for her lol.

[BossThe2nd]

"A young woman decides this is the profession for her"

This right here would be my issue.
Prostitution is not a profession, it's the last resort to earn some money for the sake of self-preservation.

That I can totally understand and I wouldn't hold it against anyone if they find themselves in a situation where they must resort to such measures.

But if they unironically claim that this is a valid career choice, I'm sorry that's just fucking dumb or deliberately intellectually dishonest.
Whoring oneself is not a profession, and I will never support those who claim it is.

[ohshee]

I live in Nevada and then many counties prostitution is legal but in a brothel only one of my best friends is a prostitute and everything you just mentioned she does she take super good care of yourself. And if her client are John whatever he's called even says one thing wrong to her she's gone she says forget this but every penny that she makes she better is herself and her kids. She knows that it's not a lifetime job so she makes what she can make is she does very good and then she's going to get out of it now I don't know about that's true or not but as a friend I know her kids very well and if anything's going on in their life you tell me about it and they're very well taken care of they're polite their kind they don't act like little hellions they're smart their cheerleaders they do good in school and she's a mom during the daytime and at night she does what she does

[Mango-man]

I don't support it and I wouldn't use their services (even the phrase "use them" goes against what sex is supposed to be about - deepening of the intimacy between two people who share their lives together), however I wouldn't judge them. I would just keep my distance.

[Bobsyoruncle]

Most of the women I’ve had sex with in my lifetime have been working girls.

My current wife only fucks me for free when she’s horny, if it’s ‘my idea’ it’s $10 cash, payable in advance.

Women (literally) are sitting on top of a valuable commodity. There’s nothing wrong with them getting a cut of the action.

[summiter]

It is her body and her choice. Hopefully she stays clean and uses a condom every time.

[NathanDavis]

whether legal or illegal... a lack of regulation is going to be problematic, always

[Ninani]

I mean, that's a more professional way to do it than I do. I'm all for it.

[mariner1]

Well donn girl. enjoy your sexlife it soon passes

[Ninani]

Why would it pass?

[MotorcycleMan]

I think it's awful of her to victimize poor defenseless men and rob them of their money.
OK, seriously, I have no issue with prostitution and really feel it should be legal. What goes on between two consenting adults is their own business and not mine.
On a personal level, if a woman is making love to me, I want it to be because she wants to make love to me, not because it's her job. That would be a turn-off for me.
Unfortunately, even in places where there is legal prostitution, there is also child prostitution and human trafficking, and that shit has to stop.

[wankiam]

it should be legalized so it can be regulated

[elizamichale1]

and all over the world

[wankiam]

@elizamichale1 indeed

[elizamichale1]

Yeah

[Jaximus-Lion]

Pornografy is legal 🤷‍♂️ cover the face, get paid even more. She can get help with doing blood tests for free too. I have never seen it with my own eyes wo far. Vegas does not count 😁

[boggboss]

Meh aslong as u understand the risks go for it

[lilyanony1]

What would be the risks? And I'm not looking to get into it. Went on a dating site and kinda of wondered what the difference was especially as it is dedicated to nsa and friends with benefits

[boggboss]

It tends to be dangerous there is little protection fro such women why many had pimps back in the day or what the principle came from then the issue if it was ever to get out kids of her could be bullied because of it

[lilyanony1]

Fair enough... I do wonder how far off we are from legalising it. I mean couldnt a friends with benefits be construed as a transaction. Even if instead of paying outright for sex it is actually a meal being paid for?

[boggboss]

U could make the same argument that dating is that but no I would say its the actual transaction of goods or money

[lilyanony1]

I find this really fascinating... Honestly I wouldn't even say this is taboo. Because well its sex is natural. Any woman that can handle that, I say fair play. I can't imagine business drying up unless she gets sick.

[boggboss]

No I agree I don't see why it's policed with the exception of the moral argument but meh

[Miristheiss]

Getting killed. Many, many are attacked, many are killed.

[slatyb]

No problem as long as everything is fully consensual.

[Kaneki05]

Escorts are legal here and great aka ones without pimps.
Pimps however are and proudly so illegal, no one has the right to force people into that.