How do you get horny?

Question

I have tried for at least a few months to get horny. I tried porn, touching myself, dirty talk, thinking dirty thoughts, and more and none of these things have successfully made me horny

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Have you ever done a real play with somebody or have you ever had phone sex I guarantee you if we had phone sex you would be more than horny you would actually probably have an orgasm this is not just talk this is not ego this is the 100% the truth so I was just thinking if you wanted to try this I would do it with you just to prove a point and just I think it'd be fun to please you well you can send me a message if you want to I can tell you a few different ways to

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

You need to seduce yourself, do it slowly take your time.

try erotic stories, read a few to see what genre feels good.

make an evening of it, bath, slight touches, soft music, dimmed lighting etc.

pamper yourself and seduce your body.

try some audio porn

if you have a guy you know who would help call him up.

if not just get comfortable and don’t chase it, let it come slowly.

Ez-Bri-Z · Accepted Answer

Did you try going the opposite way and not going dirty but more romantic instead? Like porn doesn't do a thing for me, but hearing a sexy voice just talk to me and make me smile seems to do it.

Spookydood · Answer

Have you considered getting help from someone you find attractive?

Genoside · Answer

Why do you need to get horny?

RealMarek · Answer

Make sure you are getting enough exercise and have a good diet. This can help your hormonal balance.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Have you tried leaning up against the washing machine during the spin cycle?

chriscdi · Answer

It just happens by itself this question is hard, perhaps talk to a professional

Wise4myage · Answer

Get yourself a boyfriend, or friend with benefits.

moviedude714 · Answer

Almost everyday

IncognitoBandito · Answer

Maybe you're just asexual

ChiPaPa · Answer

You could be asexual

Dayman343 · Answer

I'm a guy, it's a natural state

Cowboy6666 · Answer

You got any fuck buddy or boyfriend?

Hanrej · Answer

What made you horny before that? It's very individual what makes one tick.

feelsbadman · Answer

Stress, depression, anxiety. One or more could be inhibiting you. Try meditating (temporary solution). If that helps, it usually means your mental state was blocking you.