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How do you know if a girl is having a real orgasm?

How do you know if a girl is having a real orgasm or faking it? If she is squirming around, breathing heavier and heavier, getting wetter, grabbing you tighter and her body is getting hotter is this a good sign? Might sound like a dumb question but I would like to know that I'm pleasing her
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When I use my fingers and move to her clit that is when she moves around a lot more and starts swetting and getting hot and when it seems to get too much she will grab my hand that I'm using and sort of push it away from her sensitive areas
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  • Every woman is different just because one woman you were with moaned and had body convolutions doesn't mean the next girl will. for most women they get extremely wet, they moan, they have muscle spasms in the vagina (which you may or may not be able to feel), they may moan, arch their back, they may have slight body convolutions. But like you say it can all be faked if she is good at it. you may never know if she faked it or not it's harder to fake body convolutions and vaginal spasms but some women can play it good. I guess my point is trust! you have to trust that she's not playing you and that you are pleasing her. I know I'd never fake it, it brings more hurt to a mans ego if you fake it then if you don't have an orgasm.

    • Even though I try to stay away from these topics since I am old and old fashioned :), I must say, you are a rational lady.

    • hahaha I suppose I am :P

  • Mostly if she kinda freezes up

    although you can't really tell...I can do everything perfectly and make it seem like a real orgasm

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  • Feeling contractions in her vaginal muscles. Her chest' neck might become more reddish or pinkish after a minute or so. More erect nipples. More wetness and fluid in the vagina. If you try to continue pleasuring here down there in any way, but she brushes your hand away - the vagina becomes more sensitive.

    If she's quickly ready for more sex, changed are that she faked it. If she can easily talk while showing that she's having an orgasm, she's faking it.

    • well she couldn't talk, as soon as she started getting wetter and moving around etc she stopped talking and went silent apart from much heavier breathing.

  • Those are all good signs of a real orgasm. However, some of them can be fake as well. And the other problem is that every single woman is different, and one thing what would be a good sign with one isn't anywhere near close with another. You can also look to see if she is getting flush, or if her vagina tightens up when she climaxes, if she get overly sensitive after orgasm.

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  • You just gotta trust her. Honestly, if someone wants to orgasm they will. A lot of girls don't because they don't take the time to figure out their own bodies.

    After you finish just ask her if she needs more attention there and masturbate her. She should appreciate that. If she don't want anything more, you offered, not your fault.

  • Try to touch her clit after she orgasms and if she is super sensitive she isn't faking.

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