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How do you show you care when you have sex with your loved one?

This question is for people in loving relationships, I'm not asking this for people who just randomly have one night stands, there's no love in that.

When you have sex with you're boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife, how do you show them that you care and that it's not just sex?

How do you show you care when you have sex with your loved one?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • A couple of things. Like by now we know what each other likes so we will go out of our ways to make sure we both get the most enjoyment out of our time together. And we usually end up complimenting each other, talking future things together (like a few times my boyfriend will mention how ready he is to be with me every day because I make him happy or ill say similar things) and I noticed I constantly tell him how much I love him during the act, and vise versa. We also take our time when we can and try new things we both want to do, which is nice because he knows I like longer sessions usually.

  • We have really a great chemistry and we both - me and my husband understand each other in this matter. During enjoying the ultimate pleasure, as he cum - give him a signal and after he is finished - I do not allow him to pull out. I warp him tightly and if we are in lotus position, I kiss him on neck and rub my breasts on his chest. I may speak some dirty also to encourage him for more of it. After round of ultimate pleasure he kiss me everywhere and I usually give him a BJ or put his organ between my clit for the night. I observe pleasure on his face and he too pamper me for long moments.

  • My boyfriend and I kiss (tender and less rushed when we want it to be passionate or hungry kissing for fucking), gently caress each others skin, he'll wrap his arms around me to pull me close. He likes it when I lightly trace things on his back or run my fingers through his hair. Little things like that can change sex for us. So instead of pulling on his hair or scratching at his back while we fuck, I'll do the gentler things to change the mood instead.

    • Oh and sometimes we hold hands while were having sex

  • there are little things that make it different than just a hookup. He'll hold my hand, kiss my forehead, look into my eyes, tell me I'm beautiful, and ask if I'm okay cause he knows I'm sensitive lol. The cuddles after also make it so much better.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Looking into her eyes for extended periods of time. Especially during the sex act. Telling her how much I admire and love her. Taking it slow so it can be nice and intimate. Making it last a long long time so we can be together for longer and longer. Kissing her neck, back, shoulders, behind her ear, nibbling on her ears, stroking her hair. Things like that

  • Lots of kissing while I'm inside her, I try to make sure that we have as much of our bodies touching as possible. I want her to feel like I'm experiencing her soul and sharing that joy with her, that I'm not just sticking my junk inside a mucus-soaked hole. Cuddling and kissing afterwards is extremely important.

    • There ya have it. lol

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  • Wow, very good question... I know what makes him horny and more exciting, and I will do it to increase his pleasure. I cuddle him, stroke him, kiss him deeply.

  • I kiss my boyfriend all over...

  • When we're going at it and I see that her head is about to hit the wall, or the dresser, or the car door, I let her know because I'm a gentleman

    • 😂😂

  • YOU be more passionate with them its the way u hold them and careress them

  • This comes from past experience, (yup, a love once lost) we usually tell each other we love each other during the act, and yeah, dont lose the concern. you'll feel that "concerned" feeling from him/her that would show he/she cares for you.

  • Cuddle her first then start with kissing her then caressing her body. I won't go into details.

  • Cuddle her for a long period of time, stroke her and twirl her hair.

  • I could show care by wrapping her in my arms after sex, making her feel warm. Also kissing her neck and forehead and smelling her hair after sex.. Oh God.. I wish that would drive her crazy..

    • PS: please let me know how I look, its in one of my questions.. Thanks!

  • You put passion into it, pull them close, wrap your arms and legs around them, run your hands over them, kiss them, kiss their neck and shoulders, there's tons of ways.

  • Back when I was still dating my kids mom I would interlace our fingers on the bed in missionary, sometimes right before we really started going at it and we were still going slow I would stop kissing her neck and whisper "I love you baby" in her ear. God I miss being in love.

  • It's just sex. It's like when you need to pee and when you pee and feel relieved. Same goes for sex, just a need.

  • The sex is the caring

  • i will let you know when i first time have sex in a relationship

  • I would eat her vagina thoroughly. That's one thing I have not done with any other girl yet, not even with my present fuck buddy.

  • She cums first ;-)

  • In sex love is there.. hug is expression of love.. for me I will kiss my girlfriend on forehead (kissing on forehead indicates care) so care is first element of love... Later I will listen her heart beats and will understand her Feelings... still lot is there but I can't share in public

  • Hmm... I wonder how I could answer this question... Being a virgin 😂

  • I'm not in a relationship. Never have been. But it's a religious obligation of husband upon wife that when they r about to have sex for the first time, the husband is to wash the feet of his wife with luke warm water, then he should pour the water in all 4 corners of the room and pray for his wife and himself.

    This is what I'll probably do to my wife to show her affection, and plus much more (haven't thought of that yet) lol... ❤

  • I’m not in a relationship but whenever I have sex with someone I really like or love I notice that I’m very affectionate. I’ll kiss them a lot and hold hands during sex lol.

  • Im single and a virgin.
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