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How Important Is Oral Sex To You? Is It A Deal Breaker If Your Potential Partner/Partner Is Against Or Refuses Oral Sex /Giving or Receiving?
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Oral sex is a must for me!
Vote A
No oral sex is ok with me!
Vote B
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What Girls & Guys Said
14 61I enjoy oral but my whole thing is having a good time with someone. If they dont enjoy it, I won't so there is no point. I dont enjoy kissing, I hope my person is as understanding
A complete deal-breaker if she is not into receiving #Cunnilingus from me. Sure I can understand her not wanting #Anilingus , but if she does, also fine. Giving me no #Fellatio is a slow deal-breaker because one day, I would miss it and would find it to much one-sided.
@Brainsbeforebeauty Can I wear a T-Shirt "Eat Pussy, Not Animals" or is that down-ordering for a woman? I heard it is but I don't find it as I respect and love the vulva/pussy a lot.
Her receiving it is important mostly because that tells me she doesn’t have any hang ups and is secure with herself letting me explore her, suck on her and tongue stroke it. It tells me she is sexually mentally healthy and natural. Also, I just crave her juice when I am into her.
Voted "A". Blowjobs are a true art form. The cool thing is modifying your technique and seeing the results. As for me giving oral to a gal, that's a no. I don't like the way they look, smell or taste.
Then find a girl that isn't into being licked, too. Otherwise she will turn frustrated.
Ohh its a must but i prefer giving rather than receiving
That or any other particular act means very little in the larger scheme of the relationship.
Life's to short to go without
If a potential partner was religiously against it, then yeah, that would be a deal breaker. Fortunately, I've never been with anyone who was
Yeah, let them keep telling us that #Cunnilingus is from Satan, while they rape small boys. At least Hinduism sees the liquids as a Life Elixir and worth drinking it.
Not a must but a nice option to have available when you feel like.
Oral on the penis is a must.💞
It's not mandatory but greatly appreciated if it occurs.
Sexually " retired " and no longer active in that department , but was very happy to give , but not keen on receiving... never liked BJ's at all.
Yesssss please.
Why you sound like you ordering it? Lmao don't think you can get that at a drive through... Although wouldn't surprise me these days lmao
If ONLY that safe and true! LOL
Deal breaker? No, but I'd tell her she is going to miss out on a lot of pleasure for us both.
Lol right?
I would like to have oral sex. So I would really really hope that the girl is at least willing to give it a try. I want to marry a virgin, so obviously she would not have done it before and she will probably think it's gross. But women need to understand that blow jobs REALLY turn a guy on and really make him feel good. So if you love your man then I think you should blow him. That is just my honest opinion.
How about Cunnilingus/Anilingus?
@roland77 I don't consider anilingus to be a legitimate form of sex. (It's not even a real word, for that matter. It's completely made up.). But yes, I would engage in cunnilingus... enthusiastically!
Would be nice but it's not a deal breaker for me.
Oral sex is a straight deal-breaker for me.
I have not interest in receiving oral sex. Sexual intercourse is good.
I enjoy oral sex.. For me i like both giving and getting.. Sadly i am single now lol
Licking a pussy is awesome!
@roland77 yeah dude i love it till a girl cum
If she isn't into it , its her loss...