How long after ejaculation does it take for penis to become completely flaccid like it is pre erection?

do you ever find that your penis is a little big or swollen for a while soon after masturbating or having sex? I’m curious so no need to ask why I want to know.

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  • After ejaculating just once? It usually does not. It stays stiff and I can keep going if I want. After I am completely done, it doesn’t get small right away. It stays kinda think and lumpy—like unevenly engorged—for quite a while. …unless I am completely exhausted, in which case, occasionally it shrinks right up. I used to date a girl who seriously enjoyed that when it happened.

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  • those things have a mind of their own, somedays you shoot your load, and it is shrinky dink time.
    Other times it is like that was fun, I'll stick around and maybe get some more.
    It's a blood flow thing.
    They are a very simple device, and they are not very bright.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Depends on the guy. For me after I orgasm I stay hard for a long time afterwards. I love it because it means I can go again. But I think for most men it only takes a few minutes before it goes soft.

  • Honestly can't say I've ever seen or felt a soft one, there's always a little bit of kick there.

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  • It takes a couple of minutes to completely shrink.. when I take care of my health well it lasts longer and stays about 80% erected and ready for teasing like blowjob to be fully erected again within 5 minutes.. otherwise, it will shrinks completely in less than 10 minutes. Not a stopwatch but I can measure time well

  • Several minutes.

  • After ejaculating my penis pulses gently and remains stiff for about a minute or so. My erection starts to subside after about a minute, it feels stiff, but about half the erect size. I would say a couple of minutes to become flaccid again but it remains engorged with blood and looks larger than its normal flaccid size.

  • In a few moments. Depends how turned on they still are really. You can keep it hard afterwards if you want to.

  • It gets a little bit softer really soon after I ejaculate but not completely. I'd say it stays a little full and semi-erect for a few minutes before becoming completely flaccid.

  • My experience has always been that it takes more than a few minutes to become perfectly soft, as it was prior erection. Tough to state how long: 'to become perfectly soft". Think it varies from penis to penis.

  • Less than 3 minutes.

  • Anywhere from a few seconds to a minute, or so.

  • One time my cock wanted to stay erect after I cummed, but I just left it go, but my orgasms are intense from playing with it OMG it was mind-blowing for sure.

  • Probably like a minute or two, to completely deflate.

  • Anywhere from a second to 4 hours.

  • For me, about a minute to a minute & a half. It doesn't shrink all the way though, just 2/3 of the way. It's still got something even after I ejaculate.

    • Oh so afterwards it is a little bigger than your “normal” flaccid? For about how long?

    • Probably like 3-5 minutes I'd say

  • I don't know. I've never paid that close attention to be honest, but I think it's on average a couple minutes, though this does vary

  • Seconds.!!

  • It varies but it takes maybe 30 seconds to a minute maybe longer if it's still inside and there still some grinding and cumming happening.

  • For me about 2-3 minutes

  • Yes there has been times that I have had my erection last at least 15 minutes after I ejaculated. Gives her some time to enjoy it a little bit longer.

  • My usual start right after my never get soft

  • a min or so

    • A minute and then it’s completely small? I know it immediately goes flaccid but does it ever stay slightly bigger than normal flaccid?

    • yes maybe a little bigger

  • It takes quite a while that is why its pretty easy for me to go round two. my refractory period is very minor.

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