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Sexual Health Guys, How long should a bj last?
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Guy said he's never had a happy ending when being sucked off (not sure how accurate that is), but I completed the "job" after 8ish minutes. Is that normal? I enjoy giving bjs, don't see it as a "job", but not sure how long should a good one last?
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(20)Until I'm finished
I don't know, but you should be able to make him cum like 2wice
After the first time he wanted to return the favor aha didn't really have a chance to continue
As long as you want it to, unless he is a minuteman.
simple: until he cums...
Around 6minutes
Time is not a factor for most guys. If you do it enthusiastically, you appear to enjoy doing it, you don't let your teeth get in the way, and you let us finish in your mouth, most of us will be as happy as a pig in slop! Doesn't matter whether it lasts 2 minutes or 10 minutes.
It need not last more than 5 minutes or so, soft to ejaculation. A good BJ is actually hand-and-oral. Mouth play should focus on the cap with concurrent hand stroking at the shaft. When you sense he is about to come, don't slow down or change your routine. Keep your mouth play the same but go to "urgent mode" on hand stroking. When he begins to come, stop all motion for the first rapid squirts and then resume stroking to coax out the remaining squirts.
Almost alone among men I do not like BJs and only ever had one conclude successfully, after what seemed like forever (it was probably about 20 minutes) and that was mostly a HJ. She was determined, I'll say that for her.
I think it's the teeth. Maybe it will be better when I'm in a retirement community.
Hahahaha "seemed like forever".. Guessing you didn't enjoy? Did you ever tell the girls what they were doing wrong? I mean feedback is pretty important to know how to satisfy better
I told her upfront I didn't get anything out of BJ's but she took that as a challenge. I usually say "you are welcome to try but I don't get off on it". Part of the problem is size I think. Most of my girlfriends were happy enough not to try but since I like giving them oral sometimes they feel obliged to reciprocate.