How would a man feel if a woman cheated on them and she said it meant nothing it was just sex?

How would a man feel if a woman cheated on them and she said it meant nothing it was just sex?

For men cheating is like masturbating most times it really does mean nothing. But is it different for women? Maybe they just want some variety as well?

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Superb Opinion

  • Cheating on your significant other is the ultimate trust breaker!
    If you cheat, and get caught, you better be prepared for the relationship to end. If you cheat and say "It was just sex" your partner is asking themselves "Why couldn't you have just had the sex with me"? A there lies the important question and is the ultimate betrayal.
    Once someone cheats the trust you once shared for each other will never, ever be the same as it was.
    It is better to end that relationship, otherwise the one that was cheated on will constantly be asking"Where are you going"? When will you be home? Why did it take you so long to come home? Etc.
    The relationship will never be like it was and you will view that person differently from then on..

    Just end it for your own peace of mind because she probably will never be faithful to you again. And you are better than that.

    Kick her to the curb, she deserves it!

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well I'm not a man but I wouldn't care about the reason for the cheating. To be honest, I would feel even more insulted to find out they cheated for nothing and it meant nothing. So he's an animal without any self-control whatsoever!!! So if it meant nothing and it was just sex, why couldn't he have meaningful sex with me (within a committed relationship heading towards marriage, I'm available for sex often... he would've had a better deal than looking for random sex) then?

    Either way, cheating is cheating. Whatever coming out of a cheater's mouth is worthless.

    • 👏👏👏

    • This post sounds so hot 🔥

Most Helpful Guys

  • Doesn't really work that way for guys. The biology is totally different. Our PRIMARY concern is sexual--NOT EMOTIONAL--infidelity. So a girl saying, "yeah a fucked him but it meant nothing" isn't any help at all. On the other hand if a girl had some kind of emotional attachment to another guy, but never did anything physical with him and could honestly say, "yeah we were super close emotionally for awhile back there but we never did anything physical" most guys I know of would be like, "okay cool. We're good now."

  • Even if having sex means nothing to someone, hurting their partner should mean a lot. They know cheating will hurt their partner. Why would you do something that means nothing to you and hurts them? I imagine the man would feel awful and like he doesn't matter to her—especially if she tells him it meant nothing.

    • I don't disagree lol

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • If it meant nothing, neither girls or guys would cheat. It always means something. I bet no cheater ever thinks about their partner while actually cheating. The onlly have thoughts about the person they are with at that moment.

    • Men who look at porn and get off go right back to their life with their wife and think nothing of it. Cheating is just an escalation of that. Women on the other hand don't operate that way.

    • They may operate in different ways, but the end result is the same. In fact, both men and women masturbate. There are a lot of women who watch porn. Both men and women have triggers that lead to cheating.

    • Yes they do and the triggers are not the same most often.

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  • He should feel like he just got handed a load of crap… same as when men say that…. If it REALLY means nothing, then WHY risk someone you claim to love over something that supposedly means nothing… sounds kinda stupid if you ask me 🤷‍♀️

    • For many men it really does mean nothing... I just think women take cheating more seriously.

    • And so we should because some men do

    • @coachtanthonyyou mean they don’t take cheating on women seriously until it’s the woman cheating on them, THAT they take seriously… double standards at its finest🤷‍♀️

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  • Stirring the pot, hey? I'm sorry but no, either way, cheating is the same for everyone.

    • My pot is in the dish washer lol

  • I'd be perfectly fine with that.

    • We know you would Bill lol

  • If she cheated on me, I wouldn't care if it meant nothing or not. I'd hear what she had to say about it and the relationship would end there and then!

  • That is like stabbing someone and saying but I didn't mean to.. that doesn't change the fact they are injured😂 Cheating from both sexes is unacceptable.

  • that poor guy in the picture... was he a Jets fan watching Aaron Rodgers debut with them? lol

    • That or a Bengals fan watching Joe Burrow get hurt.

    • Burrow still young though...

      How would a man feel if a woman cheated on them and she said it meant nothing it was just sex?

    • WTF lol

  • I would dump her and never speak with her and move on. I'm sure I'd feel angry, hurt, disgusted. I'd not tell or show her anything. I'd just say, ok, bye.

  • @coachtanthony Well, Coach, now you've really stirred up the shit pot !

    I can hear the hornets nest buzzing like hell now !!!🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤷‍♂️😍😍😍

  • Doesn't matter. Most men would leave right away.

  • Cheating is the ultimate betrayal of trust whomever does it.

  • Women can't have "meaningless" sex. They have to be emotionally attracted to a dude in fact she has to trust the guy because he is sticking something inside her body. So her saying "it was meaningless" is a complete lie on top of cheating

    • That being if a woman I was with cheated in any format she would be gone within minutes I don't date whores or trash

  • He wouldn’t believe it cause sex is still cheated and it’s not a mistake even if it meant nothing still not a mistake 🙄

    • I’ve been cheated on before and it really hurt me therefor I haven’t been able to trust a guy

    • I've been cheated on in all of my past relationships so I know how it feels to be cheated on. I've never cheated before. I just decided to stop dating and having relationships. If that means I'm the problem which everyone seems to claim it is than so be it maybe it is my fault. In which case I'll just remain single by choice. I'm happier that way anyway 🙂

    • @SolitarySolace I stopped dating a long time but I would like to find that someone special but I’ll believe it when I see it I really hope the same happens for you that you find someone 🙂

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  • depends on guy but best option is to leave em n move on without reacting

    they dont even deserve a reaction or any more of effort of time

    • or time*

  • I would feel like giving her the boot.

  • You really are a beer short of a six-pack.

  • Cheating is cheating, end of story.. I would divorce and leave instantly.

  • ANY cheating is a regrettable lapse not an unforgivable transgression.

  • Ah the gender bait questions are back, i see. Obviously bashing women and creating controversy, sells.

    The same way a man would feel, if a woman cheated on him and said it meant nothing.

    • It’s no secret who you are 🙄

  • I don't know because when you're in an open relationship, it's always about "nothing but the sex". LOL

    • Open yes lol

    • Coach, I wonder how guys would feel if their girlfriend/wife/so approached them and said "Look, I see the way you look at so and so, and even get a boner when she's around. I know how hot you think she is, and she's looking at you too. Well, I like this dude over here and I can tell he likes me, so how about a couple of hall passes just for the sex?" If you knew for sure it wasn't some sort of test, what percentage of guys would go "fuck yeah"?

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