My wife and I have talked about it - I don't know if we ever actually would but it can be fun to discuss. Maybe one day if the situation was right.
It's good that you two have good communication and you are thinking of spicing things up.
Thank you, I agree. She knows she can say anything and I will at least consider it even if it is an unattainable fantasy. I like how open we are about things like this and it can be fun to talk about.
Bring some one into your sex life has to be something the two of you want and are OK with. It can be fun and exciting.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Been there, done that. In our early days, my girlfriend and I got quite wild and we did a few threesomes, both FFM and MMF.
Honestly, we both enjoyed it. Even with another man the sex was intense and felt good and it turned my girlfriend on to see me with a guy and that turned me on. Not my first choice, to be sure, but a good experience on the whole and it made us more open and honest with each other such that we have an excellent sex life to this day - more than ten years and 3 children later. (We live together but don't want to be married.)
Just as an aside, there is something about sex with another man that I did not expect. As men, you share not only an greater understanding of each other's naked bodies, but an odd emotional connection. As I say, not my first choice, but a good experience.
Also, at least in those days, there was something arousing about seeing my girlfriend enjoy giving her body to a man and seeing it from that perspective. Part of me got really jealous and possessive, but seeing her pleasure and arousal was still something amazing to observe.
However, that was then and a funny thing happened along the way. For all the sexual pleasure, we came to realize that the sex we enjoyed the most was the sex we shared just the two of us.
Don't get me wrong, we still tend to a rather animal, primal, primitive sex. I need to be the dominant alpha male and she needs to be the submissive female. Not always, but mostly. (Also, definitely only in the bedroom. Day to day my girlfriend is a smart professional woman who knows her own mind - and sometimes my mind, too.)
However, sharing that with each other came to be more important. That wild primal sex is the ultimate sharing. We see each other at our most base elemental selves and accept each other at that primitive level.
In a weird way, that may be why we were so wild at the start. However, we are a long way from that now. Sex with my girlfriend is hugely important to me and yes, I do need it - but just with her.
Its a dealbreaker either way.
Why so?
Not into threesomes, period. Neither is my girlfriend.
I don't want sex outside a relationship
My idea of a relationship is two people devoting all of their lives and energies to each other. The idea of a threesome may be sexually arousing but it leads away from commitment. Post a poll and ask people if they ever had a threesome break up a relationship.
Never going to happen, and I even her suggesting it would likely make me angry at her, men don't tend to care if out woman have feelings for an other man or not, all we care about is if she let an other man to fuck her, and if she is an slut.
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I mean "men don't tend to care if the woman have feelings for an other man or not."
I'd love to try it
"THREE"
I would probably be the beginning of the end of the relationship. How did I get involved with such a person and how have I not already vetted this probably to have already ended things because we aren't even close to being compatible. The very thought of that disgusts me.
So you can do a treesome only with two girls as by "three"?
Here is a THREE
Here is a TREE
I don't do threesomes. I am monogamous.
I thought you meant "3" as the 3rd option on the vote. You don't have to be a smart-ass but thanks for the obvious clarification. Have a nice day!
If she suggested that, this is what I would hear:
"I've been thinking a lot lately, and I would love to have sex with another man."
or something along those lines anyway. All I'd hear is her asking permission to have sex with another man.
How would you feel if she told you she wanted a woman as the 3rd person?
I'd rather have one woman at a time, and since I got one, I don't need another.
Aww, that's a really nice answer. Thank you
I can't see another cock so close to mine.
If she doesn't has feelings for her and he is model or sexy piece of meat.. Sure.. Lets go..
This will never turn out like you think or hope it will. And figure you'll implode your primary relationship in the process.
And guys don't have all those 'feels' like you do. Period.
i would be proud that she felt comfortable to be open about this desire and i would further encourage her to bring things like that up but i'd also tell her that i'm not up for it. a deal where we have ffm when i agree to an mmf is dabatable.
Never going to happen. I want to be the only woman for my boyfriend.
I call her ass.
I wouldn't do it ever, no matter the third person is a guy or gal
I would never suggest it
Fair enough.
why not? what about 2 girls one guy?
@manmeat still no
I would be concerned about falling out of the tree.
Hehe I'm glad u noticed what i did there too 😝 only two people saw that for now haha
I don't have a problem with it, I've done it before and it was great
I am not one for threesomes at all. She would already know that entering into the relationship and I would be considering ending it.
Never gonna happen..!
Trust your relationship...😅
I will never do that If I get married...
My dick is the only dick ever going anywhere near my girl. Period. No discussion to be had.
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