How would you react to seeing your girlfriend give other guys blowjobs?

[Anonymous]

Before I drunkenly crashed my car, had to take some AA sessions and turned my lifestyle around, I used to have quite a name. I worked as a bartender and if I wasn't working I was at that bar. Very often really really drunk. I realize it wasn't normal and I behaved way to promiscuous when I was in that state. The chubby drunk barmaid who sucked everyone off in the toilet stall was kind of a known thing where I live. Not proud of it, but the past is the past and I try don't mind too much.

There was this group of guys who were friended and always hanging at the bar. They had a secret snapchat where they used to post all this dirty stuff in. It was kind of a thing to post a picture on there when they got a blowjob from me in that toilet stall. I knew of it and (probably cause I was drunk) I kinda let them take a pic knowing it was just among these guys.

Me and my boyfriend never talk much about my past. He knows I had a drinking problem and that I wasn't a virgin. I'm also pretty sure he must have heard of me and the toilet bj's somehow. But recently I was on his laptop and accidentally found this obscure porn site he checked out like almost daily. And there were all the pictures of me in that snapchat on there. I contacted the site and they were helpful and took it down but they couldn't find out who posted it since the op was gone and his email was untraceable. But what I do not get is how my boyfriend could look this up, pretty much daily, and not be bothered by seeing 20 different dicks in your girlfriend's mouth...

[Andres77]

My first wife did porn before we married and my 2nd wife had a reputation for her whole neighborhood and one of my exgf was a prostitute and my current wife when we were dating I told her to get it out of her system so she did, fucked a lot more guys.
Now I live off the memory of so much sex.
The past is past.
As long as he loves you don't second guess it. Just be grateful.
Congrats to you for being able to escape the dangers of your past.
I'm a recovering sex addict.
I should be dead.
I'm grateful for everything.

[Asker]

I am very grateful for crashing my car, surviving that and getting a chance to turn my lifestyle around. Recovering from addiction is hard. My alcohol addiction (and probably also sex addiction) had a big impact. Going from being the drunk town slut in a bathroom stall to a sober woman in a relationship thinking of having kids is quite a crazy turnaround. I was able to give my past behavior it's place and still kinda laugh at people making jokes about it. It was just annoying when I was with my boyfriend at the bar and those guys were around who blew a load in my mout. I kept thinking of it and I know they think of it when they see me which is not fun when my boyfriend is there.

[Andres77]

Life's always worth living and you were blessed to find another way. I'm happy for you and your family.

[Anonymous]

Firstly I have to say your past life sounds - from a sexual point of view - disgusting to be honest

You're lucky you have a guy who's deep down a cuckold, he probably gets off on having seen those pics of you with 20 different dicks in your mouth - in a grubby toilet stall ! Yukkkk !!

I'd have moved on from you so fast even Usain Bolt would catch me !!

[Asker]

Wel to each his own. You really think he is a cuck deepdown?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I think he is ! Why else would he want to stay with you otherwise?

[Anonymous]

Some guys are turned on by sluts.
It's not usually what they want in a woman for a relationship, but part of him likely gets a weird thrill out of seeing your sexual past.

[SunnySonia]

Since it was your past and you not doing it now, he seems to be ok with this.. probably it rather arouses him to see your slutty side. He may even be a cuckold.. no disrespects.. everyone's own choice.

[ChrisMaster69]

Have we dated?

[Asker]

Haha don't think so. Know someone with a similar past?

[ChrisMaster69]

Oh yes lol, and a barmaid

[Asker]

Haha on the curvier side as well? And I didn't really date the guys. It was just a quick pleasure thing. Or were you actually with a girl that did that with random guys before you?

[ChrisMaster69]

Bit of both, I have a chequered past with bar maids or Bare Maids lol, curvy and slim. Some were just a quick pleasure, we have one that did a full cricket team We did however ban cams etc Although she did need a shower lol

[Asker]

Lol ! not to brag but I also have half a soccer team on my list :) However I did not do them all at the same time. You did mean she was gangbanged or did I interpret that wrong?

[ChrisMaster69]

She was gang banged but in a civilised train fashion, we had a room for her and sneaked guys back to keep her happy

[Asker]

Aha ok! Then it's already closer to some experiences I had. Still not the same thoug. Damn she had quite a long day haha

[ChrisMaster69]

It’s never all the same lol. It was a bonus she did not do underwear

[Asker]

Awesome :) you said you also dated some girls with quite a past. Did it never bother you that so many men had her? Like for instance, if things clicked with that barmaid from the gang bang. Would you be able to date her? Or would you not want her knowing your buddies from the cricket team all got to take her for a test ride?

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes and not really a concern at the time.

[Asker]

Cool. most guys would be concerned about that I guess.

[ChrisMaster69]

When you have dated a girl who you find out has a thing for her dog, things tend not to concern you overly lol

[Asker]

LOL that is another level. Big difference between liking it doggy and liking dogs. She probably got confused XD

[ChrisMaster69]

Lol that and loads peanut butter lol. It’s now my thing on dates, do you buy much peanut butter, big red flag if they say yes

[summiter]

Did he ever say he found the pics or that they bothered him? Maybe he was secretly turned on by them. Good for you in leaving the past as the past and that you have moved on. We all have done things in the past that we probably would like to forget.

[Asker]

He never said anything about it.

[Leavesbound]

I'm bi so it could be fun. I don't like her sneaking around behind my back but if she informs me she invited a hot guy over for a blow job I probably won't get upset.

[TheBigGuy9]

Work hard play hard

[The_Maphio]

I wouldn't know where to start with the smackdown. But she'd be the first happy candidate.

[wankiam]

i would react by wanking off while i watched you or if i wasn't there at the time i would want you to tell me all about it while i masturbated infront of you... i love that sort of thing

[exitseven]

This is a real cautionary tale. I would be disappointed but it would be even worse if you would not do it to me.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Isn't it funny how you jump straight to assuming there's something wrong with HIM, when it's YOUR pics you allowed to have spread around god knows where?

If it's really bothering you, just fucking tell him about the pics, ask if he seen them, and what he thinks of it all. Not difficult. Either that or let it go and just be grateful he's not taking it badly enough to bring it up of his own volition.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Sorry if my comment sounds harsh, your question caught me while in ab irritable mood

[cth96190]

Honestly... it would turn me on.
There is more than a slight atreak of voyeur and cuckold in me.

[Asker]

So you also think cuckolding has something to do with it? Can you describe that feeling?

[chriscdi]

there's people for everything, i wouldve caught a murder charge for sure or at least and aggervated assault and battery charge, or a few, or maybe not, maybe id have enough strength to hold myself back but i doubt it

[Browneye57]

I surely wouldn't tell anybody. Dear lord.

[es20490446e]

That would be a warrant that she sucks so well.

[Oppressed_Leecher]

lol.

[Ironic_Method]

Some people are into it, some aren't. I personally am not.

[Wiredone]

As long as it was in the past it wouldn't bother me. It would bother me if she was still doing it behind my back

[Wise4myage]

She'd no longer me my girl friend.

[joeldalton]

Yeah, I'd dump you.

[vald9inches]

As long as she was happy i would be happy for her!! 😊

[jahaims]

She wouldn't be my girlfriend

[TheBigGuy9]

For the future. Don’t ever let yourself or take a pic of yourself in a sexual manner showing your face. With that said. I wouldn’t worry, yet. You don’t know if he accessed that the night before or a while ago? Give it a couple weeks.


If your boyfriend is still talking with you shows he’s a good dude. Maybe he’s turned on by it? Just remember, we all don’t think the same way.