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How would you respond if your small breasted girlfriend wanted to get implants?

How would you respond if your small breasted girlfriend wanted to get implants?
Sometimes, the mention of small boobs makes some girls cringe. They know what happens next: comments such as "You look like a little girl" or "Don't worry. They'll probably get bigger when you have babies." Another user wanted to ask this question but was afraid that she would get derogatory comments about being insecure, so I am asking the question for her.

Suppose you are dating a girl with small boobs. According to a recent poll on this site, about 70-80% of all guys either have dated, or would date, a girl with small boobs. So what if she comes to you and says that she wants to get implants? She wants to increase from a 32A to a 34C. How would you respond? Would you agree with her decision? Would you be concerned about the risks attendant to all surgical procedures? Would you be concerned about the procedure not having a good outcome? Would you be concerned about the "playground" being off limits while she recovered? Would you be concerned about not being attracted to her after the procedure? Would you be concerned that she might become more attractive to other guys and you would have competition for her affections?

Guys, how would you react? Ladies, if you have been through a breast implant procedure, how did your boyfriend respond before and after the procedure?
I would never date a small breasted girl
Vote A
I'd tell her that I probably wouldn't be attracted to her after she got implants
Vote B
I would be opposed but would also try to understand her insecurity about her boobs and be supportive of her decision
Vote C
I would not be opposed and I would support her decision
Vote D
I would agree with her decision but recognize the risks of any surgical procedure and therefore reluctantly support her position
Vote E
I would agree with her decision and fully support her
Vote F
Something else and I will explain in comments
Vote G
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  • I would not like it. I'd tell her I'm against it and tell her why.
    I wouldn't give any ultimatums, I'd let her know I don't think much of women willing to pay to have their chests cut on and fake goo bags inserted and let her know how perfect I think her breasts are and that I think women with implants are less attractive and are fake, but I wouldn't give her any ultimatums... I'd just give my 2 cents worth.

    After that it is up to her. I wouldn't tell her it's a deal breaker but if she did elect to get a fake chest I'd break up. Her family and such would be the ones going to the hospital to take her and visit her and pick her up. I'd already be her ex by that point and I'd be moving on to someone else.

    I don't date women with fake boobs and jelly bags inside her chest and women who are so insecure that they believe small breasts are less or undesirable. Small breasts are AWESOME.

    So to sum up. I'd give my opinion about how I dislike cosmetic surgery and I dislike fake boobs and how much I love hers.
    If she decides to do it and visits a boob doctor... I'll just swiftly and cleanly break up and move on. She's not for me.

  • the girl in the pic is smokin hot

    • Yeah, that's what I thought when I saw that picture.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Too bad technology can not find a way for girls who want reductions and girls who want enhancements just can't trade tits. I'm pretty sure after a while the small breasted girls would want their A's back.

    • You’re not actually serious are you?

    • @TheBigGuy9 No because I know it couldn't happen. But then if they can transplant a face who knows what else they can do.
      https://youtu.be/3VHTquIQBBo

    • Lol I have Bs and I don't see myself ever wanting them back if I get them to a C or D

  • Small breasts are nice. They're cute and perky. :)

    • Amen.

    • Not all small breasts are perky. They can still sag when you are 18. It just depends on your genes.

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  • It's her body and her choice, but being in a relationship with her, I would feel that I should at least be allowed to voice my opinion.

    I would much rather she didn't go through with the operation due to both risks and the fact that I find natural breasts more aesthetically pleasing than enhanced, and rarely understand the appeal of subjecting oneself to the procedure.

    I would also ask her whether it was a personal choice or based on some external factors such as peer pressure or the general assumption in society of how to look.

    If she was hellbent on going through with it, I would do my best to help her ensure that she goes to a good clinic. When it comes to plastic surgery, you should not be cheap! Better to save up and wait a little longer.

    The surgery would most likely not change anything in terms of my love towards her, but it might make me wonder if her choice came from an insecurity, whether I was causing it, and how deep and big of an issue this insecurity was.

  • I would suggest
    Breast augmentation via fat grafting
    Breast augmentation via fat grafting is a closer to natural process where fat is taken from other part of the woman's body and transferred to the breast. In the link above it speaks about it but it also has an age restricted (18 and over only) video of the procedure.

  • I would be opposed to breast augmentation because of 1) risk of bad outcome, 2) a number of possible side effects and medical risks, including future leakage, and 3) I've never seen fake boobs that didn't look and feel fake. I find them rather repellent.

  • I would go my best to convince her that she absolutely does not need to get implants because to me her small breasts are just perfect.

    However I'd also have to acknowledge the fact that it doesn't matter what I think, it only matters how she feels. So if I fail to convince her that it's unnecessary, then I would reluctantly support her and go along with it.

  • It’s between C and B for me.

    I actually prefer small, however it’s her body and her decision.

    also it maybe causing her mental health issues via insecurity, lack self confidence etc.

    the B comes in to it if she goes from lovely small to two beach balls etc.

    I really don’t care for fake boobs overly much, some just look stuck on, some are good in that they simply build some definition.

    I would be very supportive but also really want to understand why.

    I blame a lot of porn, social media and guys fixation on the porn star look.

    the irony, they would never marry a porn star, but are happy if their partner has the body like one.

    • I think girls do just as much as guys do to perpetuate the myth that "all guys prefer big boobs."

    • Yep they do. I find smaller more sexy.

    • Me, too!

  • I likely wouldn't have a small breasted girlfriend (or probably any girlfriend, considering my looks). But hypothetically, I'd say "whatever makes you happy, s long as you KNOW it'll truly make you happy." So both options A and D.

  • I would say that, you can if you want. Also I love you with your small breasts.

  • I would be opposed on principle. She is who she is and it's enough. However, it's a major insecurity, and sometimes people just can't accept this about themselves, getting implants isn't as bad as some body issues, and I probably wouldn't end it afterwards. I'd still be attracted to her, and not playing with her tits as she healed wouldn't be a catastrophic thing. I could probably find something else she likes in the meantime.

  • I would highly discourage it.

  • I have been, almost exclusively, with what you would call, "small-breasted" women, and none of them ever suggested that they wanted implants, or that they weren't totally satisfied with what they had.
    I loved them for WHO they were, but maybe a part of my attraction, to them, was those smaller, perfect breasts.
    Is it a 'deal-breaker' in a relationship? I can't say, until I am in that place.

  • If she wants to get them I say more power to her as long as she’s paying for them. On the other hand good things come in small packages & I would suggest she doesn’t change a thing.

  • If she’s insecure about her breasts. Maybe she should get fat transfer instead of implants. More natural that way. Or change her hormone levels to get bigger breasts like birth control or herbal supplements for women.

    • Exactly

  • I have a lump in mine that would take my entire left boob if I got it removed. My boyfriend doesn’t care as long as I’m happy 🤷‍♀️

    • Better to lose on boob than your life if that lump turns out to be breast cancer. You don't have to be old to get it.

    • @Daniela1982 I get it biopsied regularly. It’s benign and it’s from trauma. My heart isn’t good enough To be put to sleep to remove it so I’m gonna pass on that

  • That toy boobs are not the answer and she's beautiful the way she is, or I'd have dumped her ages ago.
    I won't leave her if she goes on and gets her toy boobs implanted. But I won't be playing with them evermore.

  • I'd be fully supportive of it, as I prefer big breasts, compare to small or medium ones.

  • If I was with her in the first place, then her boobs must have already at least been big enough for me to find her attractive, so in that case implants would be unnecessary if she was doing it for my sake. However, I wouldn't really have any reason to be staunchly opposed to it, so if she wanted to do it for herself, then I wouldn't care.

  • Fake boobs look, but are not fun to play with. She would be fun to stare at, but at the end of the day I would not like the firmer feel. I want supple soft, bouncy fun.

  • I'd discourage her from doing that. It doesn't seem necessary to me.

  • If you truly love someone, it’s much more than just the physical attraction and sex that is important, while I personally adore small boobs, appearance changes over time and is in my opinion overvalued especially to us males. I would fully support her and make sure I understand her decision and be sure it’s what she wanted for herself and herself only really, feeling confidence in yourself upon your body and physical appearance is important and I believe ultimately I believe that doing it for yourself is essentially doing it because of how you connect with society that way, I’d be upset that she doesn’t feel as though she’s perfect the way she is, but if you truly love someone I think you can work through anything like that

  • If she wants to she can but she doesn’t need to

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