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Sexual Health Husband wants a threesome but I don't like girls?
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Yeah he's been talking about it almost non stop. I know this means that I need to probably give in and satisfy his needs. But I cannot sleep with a girl, sorry, it's just not for me. I'm also fairly certain he's not going to want to bring another guy into the picture. So... is there any way to compromise on this at all? Any ideas would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
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19 50If you guys are married I don't see why another person should be brought in anyway
Well do it with a women then with a men that's a compromise
;) haha
He shouldn't have to accept a men if you won't accept a women in it
True!!!
I don't want a man... so
Then you've to talk to him.. you can't just do what you don't accept...
Yeah never do that it ruins relationship so if you can't compromise tell hin
Become swingers he bangs another MRS you bang another MR then you ultimately break up cause someone gets offended or is better in bed
If he can't handle being with another man and you can't handle being with another girl then why have a threesome or a foursome.
No, you do NOT have to give in. If you are not comfortable with it, then he should respect that. A marriage is about communication and respect. If it is something you DO NOT want then tell him calmly, but firmly that you are not going to do that. Look at it this way: What if you told him you thought it would be sexy to anal fist him and you couldn't stop talking about it, but he was absolutely not going to let you do it. Do you think he should just give in and let you ram your fist up his ass? No he would expect you to respect his decision and expect you to drop it. The respect goes both ways.
Bingo!
It's not mandatory to share yo husband with others,.. It's always yo decision,.. Besides,.. If he's ready to share u with other guys,.. Then u think about it.. If he's ready to share u with other guys, then he definitely doesn't deserves u..
Adding a third person to a relationship, especially a marriage doesn't work out well that much.
You don't have to sleep with her. If you're careful you can probably get away without even touching her, but you're going to be in close proximity. It's ultimately up to you what you will or won't do, but personally, I'll try anything once. Discomfort is not the worst thing in the world. It helps us grow.
It's not about you it's about him.
marriage works when there is equality as its pulse
this defies this. if you facilitate it you allow cracks in the union
Do you want to do it with 2 guys? If that is something that interests you then you should tell him that you will do it with another girl only if you also do it with another guy.
No I really don't.
Do you think a good compromise could be to swap with another couple. He gets to play with another girl and you get to play with another guy?
Here's the issue: I'm very shy and reserved and I don't really like letting new people into my life like that. I have only had sex with 2 people because it takes A LOT for me to open up to someone like that. So I don't know if that would be the best option for me
It sounds like being shy is something you have to work through personally. I use to be the same way, but after doing it a few times I got use to having sex with others. You should never do anything you are not comfortable with, but realize you might like it after you try it so if you dont try it you might be missing out.
If you don't want it then you shouldn't do it. . tell him clear. He should respect your sexuality. He can't force you.
I’d just refuse. Say you won’t have sex at all for awhile if he keeps bringing it up.
I see 2 options here:
a) have no threesome
b) have 2 threesomes (mmf and mff)
This would be fair
No threesome it is haha
Yes, everything else doesn't seem fair. But you keep it in mind as a bargaining chip if you at some point wanna do something really bad but your not husband.
Tell him to grow up watch porn and wipe the screen down afterwards.
I have a good one. Ask him what happens if you fall in love with the woman. Lol! Please let us know how he reacts if you can.
What a real loser husband you have. The dude is willing to disrespect and humiliate you before another woman by sleeping with her right before your eyes.
Don't do it.
You should not do this if you're not comfortable. He is not respecting your live in forcing this on you either. Have you told him you're not into it?
Wow you can put up a new Idea of mmf you will enjoy more.
I don't want another guy either haha.
Tell him to call a his friend for double penetration, if he agrees come have fun. If he denies and ask for ffm then tell you can't do mmf why will I do ffm.
I just said I don't want another man haha
at least tell him he should be scared and may call off plans.
No, give in and be done with it.