I gave him a blowjob on the first date?
I met up with him after he finished work on a Saturday night, we went for a few drinks, but I’d already had a couple before. He then suggested we go back to either mine or his, and I agreed to let him come back to mine.
When we got back, we were kissing in my bed, but he got an erection so he took off his pants and I touched it. He then started to touch my body, and I sucked his dick a little. He was heavy breathing. I jokingly asked him if he was a virgin, which he laughed and replied with “no but you’re making me feel like one” and told me the last girl he’d slept with was his ex nearly a year before. He then wanted to have sex, I said no, and he continued to touch me, I think to try and make me change my mind, but I didn’t. The next morning he also tried for sex but I said no again. When he left he apologised for being persistent, said that he just got too excited but that he hopes I still want to see him again.
He seems to be a very cute, slightly nerdy, sweet and sensible kind of guy. Since that night, we’ve met up twice, the second one being with me and my friend at a bar (where I had also had too much to drink), and the third time we went for dinner and then to the cinema. He’s asked me if I’d like to go to the cinema tomorrow as well, to watch a movie we both want to see.
He seems interested, we text every day and he never says dirty things. As I said, so far he seems like a very sweet “nice” kind of guy. However I’m just embarassed about my behaviour the first 2 times seeing him! Both drunken times! Do you think this has somehow made him think I am an alcoholic slut? The first time meeting was the only time we did anything sexual. I’m just so confused :/ he seems interested, but due to past dickheads I’m worried that maybe he just wants sex or something? He doesn’t seem to just want that… but obviously he must like it because he did want to when we first met.
What are your thoughts on the situation?
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