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Sexual Health I had a vasectomy 5 years ago. My girlfriend says she's pregnant with my child. My question is when should I tell her the child isn't mine?
DrTruth Xper 6
I know for a fact the kid isn't mine and my sperm count is zero. From what I gathered from her friends, she was a slut in college and her cock count is well over 20+. At the same time, she was looking for a guy that has "potential" to make money... ME! Two year ago, I met her at a college bar where we connected while I was continuing my master's degree. We banged for months with a condom plus birth control. She was just a booty call to me for the first month and I didn't mind that she saw other men while we had a sexual relationship. She was just a friend with benefits to me. After a couple of months of dating, she wanted a serious relationship because I was "marriage material". I got a vasectomy at a young age of 25. So my vasectomy was never in question because I warned her in the beginning that I never wanted kids. She laughed in what I said and agreed to my terms. After dating for 6 months and through immaculate conception, she says that she's pregnant while we're using all the precautions to prevent pregnancy. This happened after she found out that I landed a job that makes 90k as an engineer. I knew that she was full of shit and nodded my head and acted happily that I will be a dad. My query is should I bring up that the child isn't mine, or wait till it's too late to abort the baby? Personally, I should tell her now because I don't want my fellow citizens paying child support for a bastard through taxes for a cheating whore. But also at the same time, I would love her to pop out a bastard that's a couple skin tones darker than both of us and I would question the paternity. I would love to see the look on her face crying in the realization that she failed to lock in a man to support her and another man's child. However, I can see her lawyers going after me legally because I was vindictive. If you're a family attorney, let me know the legal ramifications.
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20 39If you had a vasectomy, WHY did you use precautions to prevent pregnancy?
id go to the doctor one last time and see if the vasectomy has come undone. i would do you one better man. id be in the delivery room with her and then tell her then. lol
well the first thing you should do and I mean the first is see if the vasectomy worked and the second would be a DNA test. Pregnancy is a natural consequence of sex so precautions or not it can still happen if your vasectomy didn't work but if it did and the dna test comes back quite simply the baby is not your problem.
I would challenge it. The probability of her getting pregnant with my child is 1 out of 1000 without a condom. I used a condom 100% of the time because I had a gut feeling she was fucking other men.
then no worries DNA test problem solved and flip her the bird while leaving the court room
Next time she starts talking to you about the pregnancy, ask her, "So when are you going to tell the father?" That's when you lay it on her.
Lmao love !!!
Wow, what a crazy bitch! That's awesome that you can have the last laugh there!
She deserves being screwed over... in my opinion.
Let it be a lesson.
You should told her quickly. But i didn't get it right, does she know that you had a vasectomy? She should go and find the Real dad. Thats not nice trying to trap men like that !
Dump her gold digging whorish ass right now. Save yourself the trouble, that would otherwise occur later.
Get a DNA test and kick her out if she if pregnant with some other guys child... No don't have to father someone else's child and be with a slut like that...
Actually its possible that the vasectomy failed.
Sometimes and ESPECIALY
WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG the tubes that get snipped can heal and reattach. So yeah its possible that you are a dad
I test for sperm count every 6 months. Doctor confirms I'm shooting blanks. Also, I use condom 100% of the time to prevent STDs and most important of all... pregnancies. I'd say the chances of me being the father are same as me winning the lottery.
Hm interesting, didn't know that they could heal. He just needs to see, today, if he's actually producing spermatozoids or not. Do a new test asker.
Tell her now... and dump her.
So she may... sadly... do an abortion.
That child life would be miserable with that mother. The kid would pay the consequences.
troll...
oh wow...
Tell her now.
You should tell her that it is not your child.
If you were me, now or later?
gather her friends and family for a party to celebrate the kid
tell in front of them
no more cunts
I would pay Maury Povich to come to the baby shower and tell them... "He's not the father!" =)
yup i wish i can come and say not the father bitch
Oh well i guess you just couldn't satisfy her needs.. Now you want to fuck her over... I this how your going to play your game... You never want kids? She does.. I don't blame her... Maybe your mother should have not wanted you... You want to play the game your way then find a girl that does not want kids... But you just want everything your way... Just a thought..
i wll try to chek out your balls status before judging her. it seems that sometimes the operion will be reversed in time... no need to add that if your balls are alright and its proven you can't have a child, eh, you may have a fucking problem
Get rid of her asap it will only get worse for you later and later