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Sexual Health I have perky B-Cup boobs that make me self-conscious to take my shirt off during sex. How do I get over this?
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For context, my boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and I still have this issue.
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8 51Bigger isn't always better. There are pros and cons to having huge boobs. You might feel more confident and think they look nicer but not every guy likes huge boobs and I think your boyfriend loves yours. Also the weight and strain on the body with huge boobs gets overwhelming and annoying; also later on in life after gravity has does it's work over years they will sag more than if the were smaller. It's all in your head. You'll just have to be able to look in the mirror naked and tell them you love them and are thankful for them just the way they are. Your boyfriend probably tells you how wonderful they are and I hope you'll be able to see them the way he sees them :)
I'm trying so hard to work on this insecurity but I'm literally scared to look at my own boobs because I always end up crying. it just makes me feel horrible if I look at them or think about them too much so I don't know how to move forward.
Has your boyfriend complained, or asked you not to take your shirt off? Free the twins, girl. Just... take... it... off and enjoy yourself. I'm sure he is enjoying you !!
I prefer b size ones, a lot of guys do.
You shouldn't be self-conscious about that.
Come on, you're trolling right?
lol, I have perfect boobs, how do I get over this?
that’s far from perfect. if they were perfect and so desirable that opinion would be more expressed and more represented in fashion and beauty. but it’s not. i can’t even do lingerie shopping without crying after at max ten minutes. none of the models on the sites have small boobs and all have beautiful large breasts so it just makes me feel horrible and i end up depressed. if they were so perfect then small breasted women wouldn’t be searching “how to get bigger boobs” which is one of the most searched questions on youtube.
You have a mental illness.
thanks
Seems good to me? Are you self conscious because you think they're small?
yes correct
I see. Well, if you directly don't like small breasts, there isn't much we can do. But if you don't like small breasts because you think guys don't like small breasts, you'd be mistaken. Plenty of guys do, and trust me when I saw plenty. And a large number of them like the perkiness in particular. Lastly, if it's any consolation, B-cups are on the larger side of the small breasts spectrum, lol.
thanks. i’m still gonna research implants lol but i will try to keep this in mind <3
Glad to hear it. Best of luck!
B is more that enough. Don't buy into the big boob is better thing.
I'm sorry you feel self conscious about your boob size. I think you'll find there are a lot of very famous women who share your cup size.
There's a quick Google search for you.
https://www. google. com/search? q=celebrities with B cup&oq=celebrities with B cup&aqs=chrome..69i57.21343j0j7&client=ms-android-att-us-revc&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8
None of those celebrities are ACTUALLY B cups. They're mostly all DD+. I am a bra fitter.
@softlyautumnal are you able to tell boob size just by looking at them?
I can't tell...
In person yes, from photos I can make an educated guess
Well I guess you just didn’t hear enough of compliments about your boobs to be confident.. and that’s why you have this issues. So here is the first one from me: Darling.. guys doesn’t focus on size only.. Nice boobs is about the shape , the feel, the way they sit on our palm.. some smaller sized can be much attractive then D cup.. it all depends on a girl. So remember it : you re hot girl with wonderful b cup boobs and let those cuties out 🤗🤗
He loves your boobs. Guys that only like big boobs don't date girls with small boobs. Plus guys like seeing naked girls. He wants to see you naked. Heck, i don't even know you or what you look like and I probably want to see you naked. A lot of guys like small boobs, tbh I prefer smaller boobs than your's. So he wouldn't date you if he only liked big boobs.
I mean, B-cups are lovely, so it's really in your head. I can't tell you how to fix that, that's more of a therapist thing. (Asking questions and probing why you think it's a problem in the first place and healing some pent-up emotional damage)
I will try to look into therapy. thank you.
If he would throw you out of bed for perky b cups. Then he doesn’t deserve the rest of the package.
If I were him. I would want to see them!
If he likes you, he likes you for you
If he really loves u, then he wouldn’t care what size ur boobs are. I’m not a boob man myself so they wouldn’t bother me at all. I’d still love them and play with them.
I adore “B” cups and think they are the most beautiful of all of the cup sizes. I am sure your are absolutely gorgeous.
Honestly it sounds like you have the perfect size boobs! Every guy would want to see and play with them during sex I’m sorry you feel self conscious about it
You're fine you should not worry about that.
Perky B cups are fantastic.
They are a perfect size. Many women would be happy to have what you have. Let them out and your boyfriend will be happy to show you how much he appreciates and loves them