Guys, I just found out my boyfriend has two snapchat accounts. The new/second account is filled with porn stars. I'm hurt/torn. What do I do and say?

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. 1 yr into the relationship I downloaded snapchat n immediately hated the app once I started reading about it being a sexting app. seeing my boyfriend had a previously super high score didn't help so I told him I wasn't comfortable and I was just going to delete it. He assured me he only uses it for sending silly pics (I was still skeptical) but I told him a cple guys tried asking me for pics which also is why I was uncomfortable and deleting it. He said he didn't want me to worry so he was going to delete it. I told him I wasn't asking him to but he insisted he wanted me to feel 100% comfortable n he deleted it too. 6/7 months later, I saw on his phone he downloaded it again. I asked and he said he only downloaded it once to see a pic his friend sent, then deleted it. I let it go. Then a wk/or two later I saw again he downloaded it. I logged in and saw he had been using it with many others. I confronted him n he admitted he had been using it but didn't want to tell me bc he didn't want me to worry. I was very hurt that he had been using it deliberately behind my back for the past few weeks. He admitted he kept downloading it n deleting it so I wouldn't see it when he came home. We had a huge talk about trust and honesty going forward. We've never had an issue with that before snapchat.. he kept saying he just didn't want me to worry and promised he wasn't doing anything wrong or talking to any girls. I made him log on to show me his friends list and there were a cple porn stars in the feed. I told him I am not comfortable with the app n I dont want it in my relationship. He told me he would delete it.. Again. I said if he ever felt the urge to download it again at least tell me, dont hide it. He said it won't ever happen again. Now 6 months later I was snooping n found out he created a 2nd username. I logged on n its entirely dedicated to pornstars! I dont mind him watchin porn but Im not ok with snapchat! I feel completely disrespected.
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I dont know if he is personally snap chatting with them But it certainly makes it that much easier! I would much rather him go on friggin pornhub than to look up "dirty snap chat usernames" and "sexy selfies".. In my opinion, snapchat brings it to a more personal level.. he's basically getting naked pics from other girls wether he is responding to them or not- thats whats happening and Im bothered by that. If the tables were turned he wouldn't like me to have my snap chat filled with naked men
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