dont be afraid to be yourself... if you like sex, dont be ashamed of it.
BUT... why should your friends or anyone else have to know that you have had sex?
most girls dont like it when a guy they had sex with, blabs it all over the school... but depending on the girl, there are positives and negatives to letting others know they "put out"... first, it can cause the girl to get a reputation as being a slut... and on the upside, with a reputation that one is a slut, it will be good advertising to get more boys headed their way to see if they can "score" also...
as far as you being with him for only a month before having sex is no big deal... some people have sex within hours of meeting, and its not wrong, but people who find out about it can make you feel like you have done something wrong, for many reasons that are known only to them... we call them hypocrites, because they would have done the same thing if the opportunity would have been offered to them...
sex isn't bad at any age, but there are many emotions playing at the time that can be very harmful, so its best to keep it low key and do what YOU want, with WHO you want, and NOT what someone else wants you to do... and DONT "kiss and tell"...0 1 0 0
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Why do you feel the need to tell her? Personally that's private and nobody's business, but for you, do you have other "better" (non judgmental) friends you could talk to instead of her? I don't know if this is just your fears, or if this is actually the type of person she is, but if that's the case, I wouldn't tell her at all. Not her business and you don't need her judgments. There's nothing wrong with what you did, and if a "friend" tells you otherwise, they aren't your friend. A true friend isn't going to do that to you.
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Girls can be complicated sometimes. Do what feels right to you. We don't know you and your friend, so we can't really decide for you. I definitely know what it's like to have a friend like that. I stopped telling her things and I'm keeping some distance. But that's just me. You do what feels right to you.
0 1 0 0If she's your best friend she'll support your choice. If she doesn't then you'll know she isn't your best friend
0 3 0 0You look great are those huge boobs real?
@Horny4lifecuatro lol why are you saying that on a serious comment? 😂 They are.
Im not sure😂😂 and wow your perfect in and out😋😋
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2 21What would you think of your boyfriend if he started telling other people at school that he had sex with you? If you tell your judgmental friend, there is a chance that she will tell others and the word will spread.
0 1 0 0If she is really a true friend she should not judge you. Just be honest and tell her that you felt that he was the right guy at the right time in your life. I hope you used condoms? Do you plan on having more sex with him?
0 0 0 0Perhaps a real friend would not judge and would be confidential about things.
Follow me if you want to talk about it0 0 0 1Then sorry to inform you, that’s not a best friend, just a title that sounds good.
0 1 0 0No don't tell her anything.
0 1 0 0That's your choice if you want to tell you don't have to kiss and tell guess what you might be surprised is probly others and their group that I've given it up and aren't saying anything or given up to the ugly guy that nobody likes Besides that in 2 years it proud will make no difference who knew his love and people won't be in your life then that to get for your paired anyways I'm Just saying
0 0 0 0A good friend shouldn't judge unless you ask for their opinion. If you're worried she's going to be judgmental don't tell her. It's your body and your business alone.
0 1 0 0Look for better friends. If she thinks you slutty she jealous and being together a month before fucking is long time. Me my girlfriend been together 3 years and fucked on second date. Just tell her about it if she gets mad ignore her. Sex after a month isn't slutty at all. NOTHING IS IMMORAL ABOUT SEX
0 0 0 0Too late. You're a used up slut and always will be.
0 0 0 1Why is it any of her business?
Just because someone is your friend does not give them the right to know everything about you.
Keep it to yourself.0 0 0 0Why the urgency to tell her at all? Losing your virginity is personal, so Its fine if you don't tell her or anyone else.
0 0 0 0If you are scared to hell then obviously she is not a good friend right?
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Sorry , but don't tell her. It's not really any of her business...
0 1 0 0you're under 18, you shouldn't be having sex at all
0 0 0 0Why do you have to tell anyone. That’s your business.
Girls can get really nasty with each other.0 1 0 0Dont worry about her you'll always have me and i won't ever judge you☺
0 0 0 0get better friends
0 1 0 0A best friend should be understanding, not judgmental...
0 1 0 0Why do you feel the need to tell them?
It's none of their business, and they might also have lost their virginity but don't feel the need to tell anyone about it0 0 0 0If you 2 are best friends tell her
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