I really want him to eat me out?

My boyfriend and I have had a great relationship an sex life for around 2 years I've always been self conscious about myself and when it comes down to oral I always try to brush the idea off as I get to nervous but recently I really wanted to try it an it's sometimes all I can think of but how do I now initiate that I want him to eat me out?
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  • Sometimes, it 'just happens" and for me it was a spontaneous thing with a girl that I had dated for a long time, and I had never eater her pussy, and she had not done more than jack me off in my pants while kissing.

    Many guys are 'jealous' of a girl having sex with others. I was never that way, and with her especially. She told me about other guys fucking her, how they fucked, how long they could fuck et cetera, and even how she had sucked off a guy, and him shooting in her mouth. That ALWAYS gave me a hard-on, and I jacked off to it many times.

    One Sunday evening, in her parent's drive, she was talking about fucking on Friday night, and I got hard, and laid over the seat, head in her lap and proceeded to lick her through her jean shorts. She let me know, by putting the window up, putting her hands on my head, (she was a 'smoker" and threw her cigarette out- I hated her smoking)

    I knew by that, that she was 'hot' for it, and quickly had her shorts and underpants off and was full face in her pussy.

    That might not work with him, as I said most guys don't want to hear about your past fucking, but I, of course, did and it led me to eating her out, and I continued to eat her pussy and ASS later on in our relationship.

    Good luck, nothing like it from my experience.

    • Thanks for the "like" "FAITH18letsgo" and "ANON" I guess I was not too graphic for your taste.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Tell him to do it because you want to. Remember to keep it really clean front and back plus shave it smooth (wax it if you are take the pain). Get into the shower, get some soap and rub it in. So ick your finger into your Virginia as well as the flaps around it. You also need to shave off all the hair around your ass and clean everything you with soap and hot water. Do this for at least 2-3 days in a row (make a habit of doing it everyday) before the smell will be really clean.

    This is absolutely important until you know his preference to the smell.

    Most guys love it to get their girl all horny and orgasm with their "incredible" tongue. So they can't wait to show off their skillz.

Most Helpful Girl

  • 1. Ask, “would you like to give me head?”
    2. Next time he goes in for an intimate kiss lean back away from his lips and look down at your crotch.
    3. Gently push his shoulders down

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  • Why don’t you just ask him what he thinks about eating you out and u wanna try it

  • Ask him straight up. He'll love you for that. Alternatively, you could have him laying on his back and try kneeling over his face. Or, start by sucking him and then swing your leg over him.

  • All you want is sex. Nothing meaningful.

  • Take a shower with him and ask him to include it in the foreplay pathway. You can go for two O's. It will actually help him find your G spot

    • Oh, and remember to tell him it is not a game of darts, where your toss pointy things at a target from half-way across the room. Get in there.

  • You and your boyfriend have a great relationship. You can either tell him what you want verbally or push him down between your legs when you guys are doing foreplay. If he doesn't pick up on that he's either clueless or he has a mental block about cunnilingus. Hopefully he doesn't.
    It's perfectly okay to tell him what you want to experience sexually.

  • Very simple. Just talk to him. You might want to bring it up while you both are really aroused just to see what happens. I really liked eating pussy when I was in college, and I often had really good experiences that way. Word got around and I would actually get dates over it. My biggest two points to my partners were 1) you cannot get pregnant that way and 2) a woman can often have multiple orgasms that way and keep going even after a man exhausts and has to wait to 'reload'. I had one girlfriend whose fiancee would not even think of it He was also prone to premature ejaculation, and left her unfinished quite often: as so, often she would call me after a frustrating night and I would eat her out for extended periods of time. More than once, I realized that I was tasting his condom. But she made it worthwhile for me.

  • Try offering him a reward if he does what you want and does it well.

  • You have different options. Get a sexy card game that involves doing things to your partner and that would be one way. Another would be doing foreplay, remove your bottoms and guide his head down there and tell him what you want. The other option is to just communicate it to him one evening when you're kissing.

  • Just come right out and tell him that you want him to eat you out.

  • Say "hey, I'd really like to try having you go down on me... could you do that for me?"

  • Just ask and you shall receive.

  • if he knows you normally don't like it he isn't going to initiate it, you have to tell him you want to try it.

  • Lay him down and sit on his face make him eat that pussy

  • i would like to be ur boyfriend..
    am a giver i like it so much..
    u ask ur partner to do it directly without be shy

  • Just be honest. It takes courage bust is the best way to know how he feels about that

  • Ask him to do that - and enjoy it!

  • Ride his face. It should be great for both of you

  • tell him what you want.

  • Just tell him

  • Ask him to do it!

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