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I think I'm addicted to sending nudes. Should I get help?

I can't stop sending nudes. I've sent to over 10 guys some who I barely know. One time I sent over 230 nudes to a guy in less than 2 weeks. And the number just keeps growing, I think I'm up to somewhere around 400. I feel bad and guilty and I'm physically sick. But I also kinda like it. When a guy leaks I don't even care. By now almost every guy in my school has seen my nudes and I don't know if I need help or not. I flirt with every guy I talk to and I don't even know it. I'm ok with people calling me a hoe and a slut and I even call myself that publicly. If you have seen this before. I have another account but it didn't have my real age on it. Anyway Do I need help?
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  • Yes you are addicted and yes you should get help. 230 to one guy means that you had 230 different pictures of yourself nude to send. I cannot imagine that many different poses to take photos of.

    I am very much in favor of allowing nudes, but that is between adults who know what they are doing and are comfortable with it. But you are not adult, and you are not really comfortable with it or you would not be asking for help here.

    This place is not the place to get help. You really need to see a counselor who can get in deep with you and address all the issues. If you do not take care of this now, it will grow and hurt you more over time. I am a bit leery of the school counselor. Too much contradictory things about reporting and such. Check with local women's support groups for a counselor that can help. And if nothing else, start with Planned Parenthood. That is not what they are for, but they do have many resources.

    Please get help.

  • Have you been sexually violated in the past or sexually imposed upon or insulted? You may be acting out of that wound. Yes, you need help... its kinda like an addiction to a drug... it feels good, but it is really bad for your self.

    Professional relationship counselor is now in order. Tell parents, get help, dispose of the phone, do not send photos.

    P. S. There is nothing wrong with a naked picture of you, but it isn't good to impose that photo upon other people, trying to seek their praise to fill an emotional void that needs filled some other way. we all want to be loved and desired (sex), that's normal. You've gone off the edge though.

    • I've never been sexually violated. But I have been insulted. It happens all the time... I did get at takes once but I don't like to talk about it..

    • what is "at takes"? insulted is bad of course if you absorb it and it becomes you... as the insults are lies. who does that?

    • a lot of people. And sorry I ment attacked I suck at spelling..

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  • Hey I’m pretty sure I’m addicted to sending nudes too I’m also underage and I just cut off lol my ties to the guy I’m sending nudes too but every time I do that I find myself talking to him again and sending nudes I just made notes on my phone telling myself why I shouldn’t send nudes and hopefully it works I wrote stuff like it’s iligal and when you older and have a good future it’s going to come back at you and it also causes me tons of stress yet I still do it over again and I’m tired of letting myself down I think you should do the same thing my face stopped breaking out from stress and the first month was hard but you got it I totally understand what ur coming from

  • based on just reading what you wrote here, it sounds like you're just addicted to the attention, which could be a psychological issue you need help with. you have to be careful with sending nudes - it could come back to haunt you someday. and you're under 18 so technically it's child pornography, so it can come back to haunt you and the guys you send them to. i think you should figure out how to stop, for your own sake and the sake of your future. last thing you need is to become some business woman or something 5 years from now and for your boss to get wind of these photos. it could not end well. just some things to think about.

    • Thank you that helped a lot

    • oh good, i'm glad i could help :)

  • I would question why you feel like you need this fulfillment and validation from other people. You're young and it can really ruin your life when you're older, not to mention getting it into the wrong hands you can be charged with essentially distributing child pornography. However if you're older than that, it still can ruin you in the long wrong, you have extreme self esteem issues not due to the fact that you take nudes, but you accept these awful words about yourself.

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  • Nah you don't need help. If you like being a hoe then you like being one because you just said it for yourself. Can't really judge you on something that you're aware of yourself but since you don't care then what more is to say? continue sending nudes?

  • As long as you take precautions, like not showing your face, and you're actually okay with what you're doing, it's not too big of a deal. But don't let yourself get tricked by anyone.

  • As long as you keep yourself safe, I suppose it won't prove too big a problem. If you seek help, it should be because you "want" to stop..

    in before guys here start asking you for them.

  • You love the attention but at the same time you feel guilty. You have self-esteem issue as well lol.

    Yea you should get help, that is not healthy at all. Speak to a counselor or an adult whom you can trust.

  • "Should I get help or not?"
    I think a professional could help you.
    First of all, you wouldn't need to hold the camera any more so you would be free to take more wild poses Also, the picture quality would be much better. I really think a professional photographer could help you.

    • Uhh I don't think I'm old enough to do porn if that's what u mean

    • lol 😂 It was only a joke my dear

    • 😂😂😂😂

  • Loooooool I'm sorry I shouldn't be laughing.

    • Naw it's good I would laugh to 😂

  • Personal I don't think so if u like to share then share if ur doing it because of a Self esteem issue that's a different story but if u just enjoy sexting with a guy then go for it just make sure to not give to much information like where u live and not include things in the background that can lead to where u are as much as possible also if ur that much in to it like it's a turn on for u to have people see u naked maybe u should look in to other means of fulfilling that need like an onlyfans or something of that nature

  • Yes, you probably should get help.

  • Nice trolling, "thotty" XD

    • This isn't trolling. I'm dead serious. And also I choose Thotty V cause that's my nickname at school. Well it's what my friends call me

  • this is a perplexing situation. send me a few nudes so i can review them ad see what you're doing that causes this to happen /s

    • 😂😂ur funny but. Be honest is this normal. Ik it's normal to send but Ik that I'm over doing it should I or shouldn't I get help

    • you might be an exhibitionist and get off on showing off your body.

    • Thx☺️

  • Is it really about the nudes or are you just seeking attention from guys?

    • I don't know I get enough attention at school from guys checking me out and saying stuff to me. But that might be just because of the fact that my nudes got leaked to everyone. So it might just be about the guys

    • My guess is that it'd be about the attention... a way for you to validate your worth. You said from guys at school? lol how old are you?

    • I'm not 39 that's for sure 😂😂😂

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  • Yeah, you need help. I've never sent nudes to anyone ever and I'd never do it. I don't trust people enough because you don't know what their intentions are.

    Get help, ma'am.

  • Well if it causing you to become distressed , Yes, I would say you should get help, but if you have no problem sending nudes to others, no you don't need help.

    • Well before I do. Like when they first ask it feels wrong but I do it anyway. Then while I'm doing it I just don't care. Lately I've stopped caring about everything. My grades my clothes they way people look at me. I just can't find a reason to care about anything

    • perhaps you are suffering from depression, or you are depressed about something. I suggest you need to look at what is causing this depression because this depression seems to manifest itself as what you interpret as poor choices and behaviours (not maintaining grades, and general apathy towards your appearance and what others think of you)

    • Thank you a lot ☺️

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  • You probably should; identity theft and memes would be my concern

  • https://i.imgur.com/gTOJH0E.jpg
    Are you being for real here? How did you let it get this bad?
    If I were you, I would just close up shop, and stop sending nudes altogether. Just... stop. Find something else to do whenever you start thinking about it. You'll find it's not that hard :)

    • But people r constantly asking me. In person and over the phone. They even do this thing just to piss me off. So a guy spred a rumor that I sent to him as a b day present. But I didn't. Now I have guys coming up to me and saying. Hey it's my birthday can I get a present bb girl😉. I just don't know what to do

    • Just say no. Not that hard :)

    • Yea Ik it's just annoying and I feel like I have to even tho I'm I don't. thanks for the advice ☺️

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  • Girl you're sixteen you shouldn't be doing those stuff

  • Sounds great to me. Don't be embarrassed. If he isn't complaining. He must be ok with it. If he isn't ok well. I can give you my number. 👿😈😍

    • Haha that's funny and good advise but still I forgot to mention that I'm under 18

    • Then you should cover your entire body. And put under 18. Instead of 36-45.

    • Yea sorry about that I just hit a random number

  • Just hide your face.

    • I do in all of them

    • Then there's no risk if you avoid sending them to minors.

    • but I'm a minor so insnt there a risk

  • Wait... wut? :v Welp... sounds a bit like you get a thrill off of sending nudes :v
    Heh... heh heh kinky.

    But at the same time I'd say take it down a notch.

    https://youtu.be/HSVltEYE6V4

  • Do u have any social media if u don’t mind replying to this lol? Ig u shouldn’t send it to people u don’t know and stuff and since u already did fuck it shit happens. Life moves on and ur friends and others gonna forget eventually

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