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I was raped today and I don’t know what to do I need help?

  • I was with this guy and I told him my sexual limit. He wore a condom and promised he wasn’t going to penetrate and soon while he was stroking me he held my hands and forced himself on me. I had to bite him really hard to be able to push him away from me. I was hysterical and soon I noticed I was bleeding. It wasn’t just a drop of blood but it was more like something you’d see when women miscarry. (Is that normal) It kept dripping down my legs and I had to run to his shower and wash off but the blood continued flowing so I wore a pad. My virgins aches like he was still forcing himself on me. And he wore a condom but I’m sooo scared it came offf. I’ve never had sex before and I feel so depressed and I have no one to talk to about this
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  • First of all, relax. Do you know this guy? Was he your boyfriend? If you were talking about your sexual limits and that you were both naked, I think you were closer than just strangers. But he should have understood you and not go inside you. You have all the rights to press charges and your parents don't need to know that you did that, if you are over 18.

    On the other hand, the blood is completely normal. It is normal to bleed when you first have sex, especially if the guy had a large penis or if you weren't aroused enough. The hymen is definitely broken. But if you feel like the blood was too much, or after a few minutes, after you wiped yourself clean, you were still dripping blood, then you should probably visit a doctor as soon as possible. But again, bleeding a little when you first have sex is normal.

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  • You say "this guy" rather than boyfriend so who was he? Just some guy you met up with, got naked with and let him put a condom on. What did you think was going to happen? Good luck with the police taking this serious, they've real rape victims to deal with not cockteases.

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  • Sounds like you need to call the police.

    • I can’t call the police because my parents would disown me if they found out.

    • So you'd rather let him get away with it?

    • If you do nothing he will keep doing it. It is your body, not his. I can’t give you any other advice other than you need to tell someone who can do something about it.

  • @Gwenhwyfar please help her, you are a lawyer can you help her Gwen?

    • Go to the police and report this right away. Pm me if you want to talk. But now right now I can’t I have to get back to work soon maybe tonight.

    • Politely but firmly insist on talking to a female officer

  • Call the cops and report his ass.

  • If you were raped, you need to go to a hospital immediately and, let them collect as much evidence as they can. What ever you do, don't take a shower!!!

  • It has happened. Learn from the experience. This is a cruel world. Just because a guy seems nice and pays for food doesn't mean he is a gentleman. In my experience gentlemen marry ladies before they even kiss her. The rest are creeps.

  • Honey...
    And you decided gag was the best place to discuss it..

    You need therapist...
    Not this website..

  • Call the police

  • At least you bit him and got him off you, lots of victims dont have that chance

  • If you know his parents, tell his parents and also tell the police, and file a restraining order. I’m very sorry that this has happened to you.

    • and therapy.

  • Well it's up to you too decide. If you decide to press charges, go to a doctor and see if you can gather evidence. Get in touch with a lawyer and if you can, get in touch with a therapist or at least a help hotline.

    • I'm sorry. I sometimes am too pragmatic and forget the emotional part. Are you ok? I bet this was a really crappy experience. But really, the only person who can decide what to do next is you.

  • Call the cops and don't take shower.

  • Go to a hospital immediately and tell them what happened. They will call the police for you.

    • I can’t go to the hospital because my parents would know and they will be embarrassed by me. I just need to know if the bleeding doesn’t mean anything is horribly wrong

    • Then go see a doctor.

  • I'm just curious if everyone else actual read her full story instead of just commenting from just the title?
    Anyways call the police and report it and ensure u tell them the story exactly as u told us because that story isn't exactly rape in the traditional sense.

  • That's epic

  • Go to hospital and call the cops

  • Did you go to the police and why not.

  • Dont shower, call the police and im so sorry that happened to you. Dont let him get away with it bc he will do it to someone else

  • Call police! Go to the hospital! Now!

  • Call the police and do whatever they say or just hire someone to rip his arms off then shove one up his ass and the other down his throat, one might get a result and the other will deliver one

  • I don't believe any of this.

    • I have the doubt too, since she is not anon. anyway, it is good giving her some advice about it, just incase

    • @S3ntnl. I understand. But if she's unwilling to go to the police, tell her mom, etc. it's just leaving everyone wondering just what it is she's looking for. I don't know what she wants to hears. I think it's just for the attention and not real.

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