Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health If a guy guilts a girl into having sex with him, is this a type of sexual assault?
Anonymous
i feel like i don't actually know the definition of sexual assault. i know what rape is but i don't know what assault is, and i also don't want to be that girl that regrets having sex with someone and so just blames the guy and says he assaulted/forced her. one time i went home with a guy and didn't want to have sex with him so i was going to just leave and go home. but he said some things that made me feel really guilty (i can't remember what, i was pretty drunk and had also just had my heart broken by another guy earlier that night) so i agreed to have sex with him. was this a type of assault, or was this just my own mistake?
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everyone can stop arguing, i found an article on coercion and everyone who is being ridiculously rude is actually wrong - coercion is a type of sexual assault. if you google sexual coercion, you can probably find a lot of articles on it, i only just read a few. thanks to everyone who was nice or at least respectful, those of you who were assholes, well, you probably have yourself guilted someone into sex and can't deal with that so you have your own problems. thanks for the responses.
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i only looked this up because some people are being extremely mean to me. "Coercion is used in many sexual assaults. It can look different in different situations, but ultimately all coercion is manipulation. It can happen through:
pressuring (e. g. repeatedly asking someone until they are worn down)."
http://www.consented.ca/consent/coercion/
pressuring (e. g. repeatedly asking someone until they are worn down)."
http://www.consented.ca/consent/coercion/
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What Girls & Guys Said
6 21I know girls who do the same thing, so, it's not just men
i didn't say it was just men. there is literally nothing that even implies it is only men.
Your question title was aimed at only men
because i only have sex with men, and it's about my own situation. which you would know if you read the whole post.
I answered the question title. The description is just decorative, meant to have you complain
The point is just to answer the title
She should just say no. Tbh, people will see it as bad if a guy does that, but no offence but the girl has to be silly to fall for it. It's happened to a lot of girls and some fall for it some don't
? What are you talking about cos it sounds like a load of victim blaming bullshit
It's not hard to say no.
Are you at all an abuse survivor? Have you ever been scared that had you said 'no', your partner may smother you with the pillow right there on the bed, because they had tried to do so before? If not, do not tell me that it is NOT HARD to say no.
How do you know what I've been through first of all? Prick. And nobody was holding her down dumbass, she said yes to sex, she just regrets it now. How the fuck is that anything like what you're describing? The two situations are totally unrelated. She could have said no, but she said yes, end of.
You're probably an abuser yourself.
Oh fuck off you silly bitch
Ah, yes, for being traumatised: I am a silly bitch, for being angry that people dare to obfuscate the realities and abuse and silence survivors, I am a silly bitch. Indeed. Why do you hate survivors of abuse so much?
Jesus fuck, you really are an abuser, to dare to say it is my fault I was raped, and threaten violence against me, a survivor of years of domestic violence, repeated rapes and physical, sexual and emotional abuse- what the fuck! And you are older than me, too. You have no heart, no compassion. What the fuck is wrong with you