If a guy kinda told me he fantasizes about having sex with me?

How should I take it? He insinuated that he wants to have sex with me

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He is attractive and I do find him attractive. He's super fit as well and has a great body.
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  • Well I guess somehow the convo went there…so this isn’t a stalking thing. All guys do think about sex with probably every chick that crosses their eyesight. So he’s being honest.

    And yeah he likes you. Doesn’t mean sex is all he wants. Or wants it right away. We like relationships and daring too.

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  • Lets me say this when I tell a Woman that she got a nice ASS or I am thinking of her on a sexual way an she don't make it happens I'm gone because then she done told me she don't want me so it's bye bye time.
    God Bless

Most Helpful Girls

  • He’s bringing it up to see your reaction and discern whether you might be interested. Whether you pursue it is up to you. However, if he’s bringing up sex first and not a date, then sex is what he mainly wants.

  • You can take in both ways. But I would play it safe and think he's only after sex, a short term relationship.

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  • How do you feel about it?

    • Well I felt shy.. he was kind of forward about it.

    • If anything makes you feel uncomfortable never... don't go through it.

  • I think that's a compliment and an invitation. Up to you how you process it.

  • Well depends on how attractive you find him.

  • It it's someone you like and could see yourself having sex with, I would take it as a compliment. If not, tell him it's inappropriate and not to mention it ever again.

  • Update: fuck yet?

  • Play it safe and assume that he's only interested in sex, until you get a concrete reason to think otherwise.

  • If you want to you go get, if you don't then you leave it alone. Easy.

  • So date him.

  • that's for you to decide

  • He is testing the water…. seeing what your reaction / response is. If positive…. he will try harder to get into your pants.

  • May as well have a go. Whenever I have insubstantial sex I always make sure it's vigorous. Give him a spank.

  • It's a compliment. It may be inappropriate, but it's still a compliment.

  • if all you want out of it is sex then go for it...

  • Yes he wants to have sex with you.

  • Do you want to?

  • How ever u feel.

  • You can take it however you want. It doesn’t seem like you’re offended by it

  • He's made you a direct offer. IF you want to fuck him, what are you waiting for? Tell him "I'll make your fantasy come true, but first you have to do __________"

  • Well... That's floating it to gauge your interest. Certainly an invitation if you want it.

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