Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I was watching a show and the guy called it quits because the girl screwed someone while trying to build up something with him as well. It wasn't cheating since they both knew they were getting to know others, but i do find it disrespectful.
She got mad at him for finding out and at the other guy for possibly ratting her out. But you’d think she’d be mad at herself for even doing it or keeping it secret. She claims it no one elses business what she does but i feel others should be told that they’re not the only one you’re likely banging within a short period of time. What if one of them would’ve caught something or given her something?
I’m glad he had the standards to walk away. But I dont expect others to agree and just want to see where everyone stands. I’ve stated before that I’m not for casual sex and have to be in a longterm relationship to consider sex. If he just goes around banging people while getting to know me, I wouldn't be able to take him seriously. I’d assume he lacks patience and/or acts on impulse and easily gives into temptation. #FeelFreeToList #RomancingTheStone
If you’re getting to know someone and on the verge of dating them, but they sleep with someone else during that period, would you still pursue?
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On another show, the guy slept with two girls and told the third, “But you’re the one i love THE MOST.” Lmao she wanted to save sex til later in the relationship and he thought by telling her thag, he’d still get to hit. She had so called standards and broke up with him. But she came back like a month later and is now dating him 🤣 I guess she just needed time to make sure he was “clean” again
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To go into more detail about this first scenario… So its a show similar to the Bachelor/ette, so of course all of the men know she's dating them/getting to know them. Bt i just find it disrespectful that you sleep with em (especially so early on in the show) and expect more than a handful of guys/girls to still Want to date you. Of course she felt no shame and said she was an adult and could do adult things but still. She had no respect for the other suitors in my opinion
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11 39If he sleeps with someone else while we are dating that ends it.
I'd still pursue her, but not likely for a relationship, and I wouldn't put much effort into it either. If I saw her as a potential relationship before, she'd now be at best a friends with benefits. I only consider women for relationships if they make me a priority in their lives. But if she's out there sleeping with other guys then clearly I know where her interest level in me is at. And if you're not first, then you might as well be last.
But why would you want to take a dip right after him anyways
To satisfy my needs. If guys didn't bother pursuing girls who've been with other guys, then all the guys would be after a small handful of women. That being said, it's not like I'd commit to her. I'd know what she's about and I'd use her accordingly.
Im not saying anythingn wrong with then having been with someone in general. I just wouldn't want to be with someone whos been with someone else that early on. For some people, they can do same day. Others may need a couple of days or weeks. I’d need months to a year
No, why would I?
Hell NO!
Screwing 20 dudes hope she's getting payed goo she gonna need a stitching doctor. She a ho ho.
Lmao its a tv show. she's dating them all but only slept with one 😂
No, that would be the end of our correspondences.
I agree
I would still pursue the girl even though I knew she slept with someone else before me and her started dating but if she slept with someone while me and her was dating me I probably break it off.
Well she's technically dating them all since ifs a tv show about them pursuing her
Depends on what we are to each other
No. If they do that and don't even hide it, that means I'll be a "backup", so no, I wouldn't. At least not for a romantic relationship. But I would pursue to be the other guy for sex, maybe even having a threesome.
No no
So many no’s haha
Probably not.
Dudes can dish it out but can't take it. Single until married. She didn't do anything wrong they're not together
Nah I'd stop
Nope nope nope
Imagine if he banged you both same week... same day 💀
Nah I'd leave him so fucking fast 💀💀💀💀
And go get tested lmao
Most definitely
I will not
For some people it takes time to see you. If she is worth having, she is worth putting in the time to get her to see you. Yes she is going to see and probably sleep with other men until you get her attention. Not a big deal. Again if she is all that it will be worth it in the end. Who thinks they are marrying a virgin?
It depends in my opinion. Maybe it's just you who feels that you're on the verge of dating them but the other person doesn't feel the same way. But if the both the people shared the same feelings and then the person you're interested in , sleeps with someone else , than you should look for someone else.
She would not be worth dating g because she has no respect for the guys she dates. She will be left with nobody that wants her , just guys that want to have sex. In the end, she will be lonely and alone. Choices have consequences.
Yea i wish she wouldve waited it out
No I’d be too heartbroken to pursue that person.
I likely would not pursue thay person any longer...