If your sex partner says no when you want sex, do you get offended?

[Anonymous]

If your sex partner says no when you want sex, do you get offended? get angry?

[Kabluie]

It's fine, it'll generally happen the next time kind of thing.

I can think of a few reasons. Like I remember one time I got up very early, hard and ready to go, we were naked already. Started to insert inside her vagina but she was too sleepy, and kind of hinted that, so I let her sleep. She always said I had permission to go inside even when she was asleep but always wake her up for sex. So I had to address this crazy hard-on, so I went to the next room and wanked it off. More like dreaming how I'm going to rail her later that day.

[DonkeyDan]

Not at all no, I'm a big boy and I can take it, I also respect her.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Maybe disappointed if I'm in the mood and they're not... People need to realize it might be the timing they're rejecting not you... Now, if it happened all the time and sex just wasn't happening at all in the relationship, that's where I'd say there an issue in the relationship we need to address...
I knew someone who thought of he asked his partner for sex and she said no, then it's okay for him to get it from someone else and it's not really cheating... Like WTF.. that's just messed up thinking to me🤷🏼‍♀️

[KatherineJ]

Nah, but I reserve the right to pout.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

No. Not offended. I know he wants to but there’s probably a reason why he rejected it.

[Destiel_24]

Of course not, they need to be comfortable and tell me what they want or not, if I get mad (which doesn't make sense) they wouldn't be as comfortable

[TrueConfection]

I've been told no a handful of times and I admit I was both offended and pretty mad. 😡

[summiter]

Not really. No means no. Usually I can at least talk her into a handjob!

[Apple1996]

I just ask again at a different time. If still no I assume something is wrong

[EmmaMary]

Perhaps disappointed but never offended.

[Agape93]

Nope

[exitseven]

Not offended but disappointed.

[sdsalyer1979]

I am disappointed but not angry. I understand that sometimes the timing isn’t right.

[VikingWarLord]

oh hell ya i do!
I'm gonna go find it somewhere else if the biitch says NO

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

So if you can't get it up or say no, she can go get it somewhere else too then, right? 🤔

[VikingWarLord]

@Brainsbeforebeauty I don't have that ED problem. But I'd rule over her with an iron fist and not let her play unless it was with another Biitch!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

So you think you have a right to fuck someone else, and also think you can have total control over your partner... Yeah okay... Just the fact you keep using the word bitch instead of woman or partner says a lot 🤦🏼‍♀️ good luck with that

[VikingWarLord]

@Brainsbeforebeauty I have a lot of good luck wit that, I have a few BDSM Submissives in different area codes! Hot ones too

[VikingWarLord]

@Brainsbeforebeauty I can already tell from your pic that you're definitely into the hot, alpha bad boy type like me too. You'd be putty in my hands for damn sure.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

🤣🤣 keep dreaming lolol

[SmokyOne]

Why? Just rub one out and move on with your life

[Chattyguy44]

In all honesty, yes I do get a little grumpy little angry, makes me feel a little less significant really, oh well, play it solo then. Another night or another time perhaps.

[jahaims]

No, I know what it's like to not be in the mood.

[Twalli]

If it happens often, yes. If it's very rare or only on specific occasions, no.

[bananathunder]

i don't get angry... it can suck, but that's why we have hands that can reach our genitals ;)

[medic912]

Nope

[Anonymous]

I got offended yes, but not angry. He also have his own choice.

[Anonymous]

It's more disappointing than offending.

[Anonymous]

Annoyed or disappointed

[Anonymous]

I know when they are just as interested, so never had this problem. You learn to read people’s “tells”. It’s okay for someone to not be in the mood. What is odd is getting angry over it.