If your sex partner says no when you want sex, do you get offended?

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If your sex partner says no when you want sex, do you get offended? get angry?

Kabluie · Accepted Answer

It's fine, it'll generally happen the next time kind of thing.

I can think of a few reasons. Like I remember one time I got up very early, hard and ready to go, we were naked already. Started to insert inside her vagina but she was too sleepy, and kind of hinted that, so I let her sleep. She always said I had permission to go inside even when she was asleep but always wake her up for sex. So I had to address this crazy hard-on, so I went to the next room and wanked it off. More like dreaming how I'm going to rail her later that day.

DonkeyDan · Accepted Answer

Not at all no, I'm a big boy and I can take it, I also respect her.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Maybe disappointed if I'm in the mood and they're not... People need to realize it might be the timing they're rejecting not you... Now, if it happened all the time and sex just wasn't happening at all in the relationship, that's where I'd say there an issue in the relationship we need to address...
I knew someone who thought of he asked his partner for sex and she said no, then it's okay for him to get it from someone else and it's not really cheating... Like WTF.. that's just messed up thinking to me🤷🏼‍♀️

KatherineJ · Accepted Answer

Nah, but I reserve the right to pout.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

No. Not offended. I know he wants to but there’s probably a reason why he rejected it.

Destiel_24 · Answer

Of course not, they need to be comfortable and tell me what they want or not, if I get mad (which doesn't make sense) they wouldn't be as comfortable

TrueConfection · Answer

I've been told no a handful of times and I admit I was both offended and pretty mad. 😡

summiter · Answer

Not really. No means no. Usually I can at least talk her into a handjob!

Apple1996 · Answer

I just ask again at a different time. If still no I assume something is wrong

EmmaMary · Answer

Perhaps disappointed but never offended.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

exitseven · Answer

Not offended but disappointed.

sdsalyer1979 · Answer

I am disappointed but not angry. I understand that sometimes the timing isn’t right.

VikingWarLord · Answer

oh hell ya i do!  I'm gonna go find it somewhere else if the biitch says NO

SmokyOne · Answer

Why? Just rub one out and move on with your life

Chattyguy44 · Answer

In all honesty, yes I do get a little grumpy little angry, makes me feel a little less significant really, oh well, play it solo then. Another night or another time perhaps.

jahaims · Answer

No, I know what it's like to not be in the mood.

Twalli · Answer

If it happens often, yes. If it's very rare or only on specific occasions, no.

bananathunder · Answer

i don't get angry... it can suck, but that's why we have hands that can reach our genitals ;)

medic912 · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

I got offended yes, but not angry. He also have his own choice.

Anonymous · Answer

It's more disappointing than offending.

Anonymous · Answer

Annoyed or disappointed

Anonymous · Answer

I know when they are just as interested, so never had this problem. You learn to read people’s “tells”. It’s okay for someone to not be in the mood. What is odd is getting angry over it.