In terms of a straight heterosexual relationship, why are girls minds on the romantic aspects while guys minds are more on sex?

ROMANCE: A feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love.
In terms of a straight heterosexual relationship, why are girls minds on the romantic aspects while guys minds are more on sex?
A. It's because female brains are wired differently and don't put sex in as important a category as guys do
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In terms of a straight heterosexual relationship, why are girls minds on the romantic aspects while guys minds are more on sex?
B. There are a lot of things most girls want to know and understand about a guy before having sex with him
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In terms of a straight heterosexual relationship, why are girls minds on the romantic aspects while guys minds are more on sex?
C. The wiring to the sensors that operate guys brains run down to a location between their legs... lol
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In terms of a straight heterosexual relationship, why are girls minds on the romantic aspects while guys minds are more on sex?
D. IT'S DEFINITELY "ALL THE ABOVE"!
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In terms of a straight heterosexual relationship, why are girls minds on the romantic aspects while guys minds are more on sex?
E. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Girls Think Romance/Guys Think Sex" survey
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  • A man who’s sexually satisfied will want romance too.

    It’s about maturity, most guys don’t mature before 30 so it’s wrong to say that’s what we want.

    Why do you think so many girls go for men double their age? It’s because men don’t develop half a brain till then

  • simple, cuz guys suck. They only think with their little head.

  • Guys value the physical pleasure more than the emotional fulfillment. Girls value the emotional fulfillment and connection more than the physical pleasure. Both value both, they just value them differently.

  • I want sex a ton, but I still want romance more. I’d choose romance over sex if I could only have one. Sex without romance seems pointless.

  • No, it depends on the woman, generally mine are unusually more sexual. Even more than I am. And that brings out something more primal in me

  • Because girls want to feel wanted, and usually have been over-sexualized (if that’s a word). Also, it’s what’s in books and movies and that’s how they are raised to think that’s how a man is supposed to treat them as a woman... and as we know society is rarely right in aspects such as this.

  • Not sure where you heard that but Men are very deeply romantic. They just don't talk about it. It's the main reason why most men well say the thing they want most in a relationship is loyalty.

  • Uh uh. Sorry Laurie in my experience it is the other way around. I have always had my mind on the romance but my exes had their minds on the sex. Lol

  • Beats me. Your sex can have multiple orgasms yet act way more prudish than men.

    What a waste.

  • Evolution.

    Guys are meant to spread there seed as much as possible so usualy the first thing we want is sex, after vigorous love making, then we can talk about meeting parents and getting a dog and stuff. That might just be me but I can wait a while before asking for sex so... I don't know

  • Guys are biologically inclined to spread their seed as much as possible for the survival of the human race. Women are biologically inclined to select the best partner so the baby they carry around for 9 months has the best odds of being healthy and strong.

  • Okay you had to know people would disagree with this, right?

    • Sure, but there's a nice way to disagree... isn't there? ... or do all disagreements have to be mean?

    • I'm mean when I agree too... BEEEITCH!!! XP~

  • Just look at other things in nature. Females nurture (train the young) while males are nature. (pro create)

  • Is what the media would make you lead to believe

    Women are actually the more sexual of the two genders

  • Guys are players they will do or say anything to get in a girls pants it's rude and makes me sick

  • I was hoping for an "all of the above" choice and you did not disappoint bby!

  • In my experience, girls ask a LOT more Qs than I do. They are like detectives trying to catch you in an untruth. They ask the same Qs in a zillion different ways at different times. Its like trying to breach multiple firewalls with laser sensors.

    Frankly, it's a major turn-off.

  • Because men and women are wired differently LOL men are 110 volts and women are 220 volts 🤣🤣🤣

  • F it is a perfect cliché made up by the movies

  • A guy's sexual desire is more urgent and potentially painful than a woman's. It's difficult to think of romance when your balls hurt.

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