In terms of experience, are you more comfortable dating virgins or someones whos had several sex partners?

Im not a virgin although i wish i was lol. Even though i was forced into some shit with my first ex at 15 and I willingly enjoyed sex with my other ex at 23, I’d still prefer to date a virgin. I get that people can be experienced but there's always more to learn... And well, I like to teach. With a virgin, i can teach the little I know but we can also learn together and build up an awesome sex life. I’d of course still date a nonvirgin, but not if they’ve had a lot of sexual partners in the past. That just makes me uncomfortable, but I’ll try to respect those of you who say numbers shouldn't matter. by the way, you can still become “experienced” even when fcking the same person all your life. Bt some feel you need to be with some of everybody in order to be considered experienced
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Im a virgin and prefer to date other virgins
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Im a virgin and prefer to date someone whos had sex at least once
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Im a virgin and prefer to date someone whos sexed several already
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Im not a virgin but prefer virgins
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Im not a virgin and prefer someone whos been with at least one person
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Im not a virgin and prefer someone whos had multiple sex partners in the past
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Im asexual
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Lmao so me and only 2 other girls seem to like virgins 😂 the poll has the guys all like wanting a VIRGIN and all the girls are like wanting a NONVIRGIN
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  • I used to think it would be fun dating virgins and girls with little experience but after dating those types of girls I’ve learned that I prefer experienced women.


    I’ve learned that if a girl is in her 20s and hasn’t had an average amount of sexual/romantic experiences then there’s probably something wrong with her. She may not be a sexual person or might have a lot of insecurities that prevent her from being sexually open. Basically there’s a personal reason “why” she hasn’t had a lot of sex.


    My ex couldn’t look herself in the mirror and say “I love myself,” let alone be free and comfortable in bed. She had only one sexual experience before me and she was 20. But there were other issues too like her needing validation from her friends and having really low self esteem. She was very impressionable.


    My other ex suffered from seasonal depression which I didn’t read as a red flag until later into the relationship. She admitted to dating a lot of weirdos on our first date and told me it was a relief I wasn’t weird. Another red flag I should have read. Then there was the three cats and smelly apartment. The only things I picked up on was out sexual incompatibility. The first sign was her being a bad kisser. But I liked her so much that I just taught her how to kiss then she was a pro. But then she didn’t like doing little things like holding hands, cuddling. I eventually broke it off because I need sex in a relationship and I don’t want it because I asked. I want it to be mutual. Anyway that’s when the crazy of her REALLY came out. She showed me a completely different side of her.


    Anyway. Results may very. But in my experience minimal to no sexual/romantic experience is a red flag unless they’re religious or celibate. You have to look out for other things too though like low self esteem or bad personality traits. Not having sex isn’t bad by itself but when you add it with other factors it can be a telltale.


    Sorry that was long. I sorta just vented 😂😂

    • No im glad you vented. They really went through it and yea their self esteem effected them. For me, i may not be proud of my looks rn but that wouldn't stop me when in the moment haha. What would stop me is like you mentioned, a religious stance. I always guilt trip myself if i have sex outside of marriage. So yea im not comfortable screwing around until married. That first ex was more so taken advantage of/peer pressure. The second ex was more so, us just being dumb and it just happened. So yea we banged tf outta eachother from 10a Saturday to 3am Sunday. Then went back to celibacy after 😂 sounds awful but yea

  • I'm a virgin and prefer to date other virgins.

    There's nothing wrong with one having a lot of sexual partners in the past, but I'd rather a virgin, because I'm one myself and I don't think protection would be necessary, when it all goes down.

    Experience is limited and I feel like you can always gain more, though an experienced partner will probably be more enjoyable for me, than someone who's not, but the idea of growing together sexually, as virgins can be great, especially if she's dominant sexually.

    Ultimately, as long as I love a partner, I don't think that them not being a virgin, would be a deal breaker.

    • I still make virgins get tested. A person could be a virgin and catch something from even stepping on a nail or fcking with needles

    • Lol, wow. I don't do drugs, but yeah, I have heard that people can get it from other things too, better to be safe I guess. Thanks.

    • Lol i dont do drugs either. Just saying its hard to trust people are truly clean these days

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  • I'm a virgin and I don't really mind if my partner is or isn't, it's not something I think about too much when I'm deciding whether to date someone.

    However, I probably would like to be with a non-virgin just because I feel like he could take the lead when we finally have sex. I feel like I won't know what I'm doing and I've heard that a woman's first time is always painful and difficult. So in that regard, I'd like someone to guide me along lol.

    I wouldn't want somebody with too many previous partners though, because my ex was like that. And although he promised he'd be gentle with me and take his time until we had sex, he didn't wait for me and therefore I don't really trust anyone who's had a lot of sexual partners/a promiscuous past. Not to say they're bad people at alllll, but just the type of people I wouldn't date.

    • I feel you in that. Thats prob part of the reason i dont want someone whos been witj lots. But the good thing about 2 virgins, you both get to experienve it together and learn from porn/research

    • That's true!!!

  • Girl this is rubbing salt on my wound... I am virgin so was my ex boyfriend until I recently found out he was unfaithful and lost his virginity. I can't accept it. I already had a hard time accepting the fact that he did other physical stuff before meeting me and now he did the final deed... I am devastated.

    I haven't even kissed a man, I dress modestly, I am saving not just the physical but also the visual for the one and only man who I believe is worthy of it. I want the same from my man.

    • Yea im sorry he did you like that :(

    • That one stings but don't be too hard on yourself. A lot of guys think with their dicks sometimes... but a lot of guys are gentlemen too. You dodged a bullet.

    • It stings like hell.. now I'm wondering what's the point in suffering on my own. If everyone's having fun I might as well join the bandwagon, lol.

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  • I'm not a virgin, honestly I'm attracted to experience, both life and sexual. I like my men to be a bit more in control and kind of teach me stuff in bed, so I don't think I've ever even dated a virgin. I'm not saying it would be a dealbreaker if I met a virgin who I liked and we hit it off for a serious relationship, although the older I get that posbility would be harder to find. I've never minded that my current partner slept around a lot in the past and I never ask about it, as long as everyone is *healthy*.

    • Lol the virgins i know are dominant af and take what they learned from porn. I find it hot haha

  • I want someone who has experience and the confidence in the experiences he's had. Of course wanting him to be being clean is a given. If he's had several sexual partner's I would know he has already learned how to best please women as many have different ways of what they enjoy in sex. Honestly do not feel like teaching someone as it is awkward to say the least and can ruin the moment especially if I'm very much aroused

    • I teach through seduction lol. They catch on fast. Plus I've met some confident virgins 🙌

  • Hmm I don't know. I would prefer a virgin I guess. I don't really know how I feel about nonvirgins anymore lol, but I know that I detest the idea of my partner being inside of someone else at one point, that makes me uneasy.

    • Yea same

  • Experience don't go by number of partners, but quantity of sex and quality of the person and how giving or selfish a lover he is..
    So while would prefer experience, would not prefer someone that had too many partners, because that don't mean they're a good lover, just means they had lots of partners. (No thanks)
    A-Someone that has 50 or more one night stands,
    versus
    B-someone that's spent years sexually satisfying one person
    Well, I'm going for B all the way

    • Yea i said the same in my paragraph above the poll that experience isn't based on number although many base it on that

  • Virginity has no appeal for me. I want a woman who likes sex and is good at it. I don't care how many relationships she has been in, as long as she is into relationships and not hook ups. No girlfriend I was ever with was a virgin, but they were good girls.
    I don't consider sex to be taboo or something that should be saved for marriage. Sex is part of life and should be enjoyed to the fullest.

    • I dont think its a taboo but i do think people should save themselves and not spread it here and there. But to each its own

  • I lost my virginity when Gerald Ford was the president, so it's ben a long time. Women do not lose their virginity in their 50's or 60's, so any potential partner for me has a sexual past. If I did meet a woman who was a virgin and who wanted to be my partner, I certainly would not reject her because of her inexperience. I would simply accept the role of teacher and hope that it would be a very pleasant assignment.

    • Haha thats nice that you’d let her sign up for the next session

    • That's just the kind of nice guy I am!!! :) :) :)

  • Being someone's first is special. But people with at least a little bit of experience have already found out what kinda things they like. So they are usually a little bit better in bed.

    • Hmm that makes sense

  • Desii i just want a person that is happy in life thst loves sex as much as I do. Because that is a way I can show my love and the way I want to make her feel by making love ,, or even fucking if she's a virgin cool if she's not cool it doesn't matter , the only thing that matter is I can read in her eyes the way she wants to be pleased and I take her there and beyond every time we make love

    • NIice

  • I'm not a virgin but have never been with a virgin so can't say first hand but what the experience would be like.
    I think I'd be comfortable dating a virgin and would be considerate towards them for there first experience and try to make it as enjoyable as possible!

    • Thats so sweet

  • Well I'm a virgin and I can't really have a preference on dating virgin, few partner or many partners cause i haven't done it🤷‍♂️

    How could I have a preference?

    • Yes you can have a preference. Who ever told u u couldnt

    • Look around. You can choose if u want another virgin or not

    • I know I'm aloud to choose, I just can't know what I want. A skilled experienced teacher would be nice. Learning with another virgin would be kind of a release tho I don't know which would be better🤷‍♂️

  • I prefer a guy that has had sex a lot. I like a confident man.

    • I know some confident dominant virgins. Its sexy to me

    • I also have a theory men need to get around first, so it's just my preference.

  • I’m always confused when people assume someone is good in bed just cause they had a fair amount of sexual partners, the two are not always linked, you can have a high body count and suck. To me sex is about intimacy and how we click and if the energy is right and not him being experienced. He’d also save me the whole “my ex loved that” stuff and would rather learn how I work so I wouldn’t mind dating one.

    • Yea i mentioned above that even being with the same person forever still counts as becoming experienced. But a lot dont get that

  • when i was a virgin i wanted to be with someone to be like me and i found him and now soon 13 years together
    to be equally sexually awkward hehehe

    • So happy for y'all!!

  • I guess id like to have sex with a virgin like myself but it would be cute for a girl to show me how ☺️

    • Thats sweet

  • I'm a virgin and I'll date anyone I feel a click with ❤.
    That answer was not in the poll haha...

    • Cause thats too easy lol

    • Haha I'm just a simple Belgian Desi 😁

  • I don't want a slut for a partner but I don't want a virgin either, I just want someone who has a little experience in taking big dick and is comfortable with a big man with a big dick because I've learned a lot are scared of it.

    • 😂😂😂 my first ex was 8+ inches and i could never take the full thing except maybe once but it hurt like hell and felt like it was in my stomach. So i def prefer he be 5-7 inch instead

    • I am 8-9 inches every girl I meet up with is like "Nahhhhh" they talk about wanting it but when they see it, its a lot girthier than they though and it scares them away.

    • Yea nahh i’d be scared

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  • I'mma virgin and I just prefer some girl who is gon be my wife and love me.. That makes a whole bit of difference.. In the end it I could take either or really.. 😌..

    • Fair enough

    • Yeah they past doesn't matter that much to me unless it directly affects they present.. I could go for a virgin girl, all the way to a reformed hoe.. 😂😂

    • I could never trust a hoe lol but good luck with that

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  • I've not had many partners and I'd rather not deliberately pick someone who's had multiple partners themselves.

    • I feel the same

  • I don't have a preference but someone who has had over like 4 or 5 partners is a turn off I guess.

    • For me thats def a turnoff but yea you do you

  • Dosen't matter to me. Never dated a or been with a virgin.

    • Ahh okkay

    • It has been over 5 years for me since i have has sex. ain't that like, maybe some what like being a virgin again

    • Yea according to urban dictionary lol. But either way i think thats hot if youve waited by choice

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