In your sexual fantasies, are you more often the giver or receiver of pleasure?

And what do you think this says about your approach to sex?
Of course both partners can take pleasure in a sex act where one is a passive recipient and the other is an active giver, but try to think of whether you’re the giver or receiver when you fantasize. I think I keep it pretty even- there’s a good mix of pleasing and being pleased.
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  • Both I guess. I usually imagine myself prone boning a thick chick with a big, soft booty and it feels good.

  • In my fantasies, I receive by giving 😄😄

  • Give

  • Giver.

  • Definitely I'm the giver. 🙃 And, I don't receive expected pleasure 😕

  • i do both

  • Both... I fantasize about very beautiful girls and their reactions.. and their boobs

  • I'm a bit of both ngl

  • Giving if I'm in a boobs-focused mood - unless it's cowgirl. Also a giver during doggy.

    Receiver mood if I'm in a blowjob mood and feel like letting her do the work.

    So I guess all in all a giver?

  • Giving

  • giver, and then receiver lol

  • I'd say both

  • Giver

  • The receiver... but completley reciever... I am the girls role in the sexual experience

  • Receiver.

  • Giver

  • One of my fantasies I'm the giver; the other I'm the receiver.